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How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Badmanbay(m): 8:28am On Sep 03, 2017 |
*HOW TO AVOID ADULTERY IN YOUR MARRIAGE*. Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it. Carelessness is one of the major causes of affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery... 1: Never make a member of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions. 2: Never be with a member of the opposite sex at a time your spouse doesn't know you are there. 3: Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you. 5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited. 6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIRS thrive in secrecy. 7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to. don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth. 8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return. they are not Father Christmas. 9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home. what you see outside is just show biz don't be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you. 10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy. 11: Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package. 12: Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. Sexual error doesn't begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart. 14: Before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back. that decision may save your life and destiny. 15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that's called lust, what is there isn't different from what your spouse has, please don't be stupid sir. 16: Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous. 17: Discuss your sexual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home. 18: fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind. 20: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty. 21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in sex is just 8 seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that? *BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID*. 22: Pray regularly for your Spouse and your marriage. It is well. God bless your marriage (Home) 1 Like |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Davidgrey: 5:10pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Any Man/Woman that requires "mental notes" of deterrents to remain faithful in marriage, Shouldn't be married in the first place Maintaining the dignity of a marriage isn't something that one does out of fear "of the consequences," it's an embraced ideology | The desire to "Respect and Preserve" your home is something that is deeply rooted into the core of any sane person Having said that....No.18 "Word of God" When you farm out your mental responsibilities to "in my opinion" an imaginary higher being, You're inadvertently subjecting yourself to "Social delusions" There is nothing spiritual "directly/partially" responsible for a spouse that cheats..... That is a "Social mental issue," There is also nothing spiritually wrong with an unrepentant cheater, These things are social issues Embed yourself in religious ignorance but don't anchor your mistakes on a delusion of reality. 9 Likes |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by daryoor(m): 6:11pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
your advise is not easy to follow especially when the spouse is not putting reasonable effort to make the marriage sweet |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by babyfaceafrica: 7:16pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
daryoor:there is no reason whatsoever to cheat on a spouse,if he or she is not Pitt ng enough effort to make the marriage enjoyable...leave!!!..why stay in a union and cheat, its wrong and bad!! |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by Lewaluv(f): 7:21pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
I am breaking rule #5 |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by bamisepeters(m): 7:25pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Lewaluv:because you didn't know now, now you know so sin no more |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by daryoor(m): 7:25pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: i prefer to have a cheating father than divorced parents. my point: divorce is worse than cheating, the effects are not as fatal. |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by babyfaceafrica: 8:17pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
daryoor:hmmmm...both is worse |
Re: How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by daryoor(m): 8:43pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:the word worse was designed for cases like this. they are both bad...divorce is worse. |
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