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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by jim16sha: 7:38pm On Sep 08, 2017
Dont devote ur time on social media,dont b waka about,fnd smtin ur hand can b doin than gossippn,stay wit positve ple

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by SuperSuave(m): 7:38pm On Sep 08, 2017
I made a code for myself- "You should never be afraid of anything that doesn't have the ability/capacity to kill you". so I stopped being shy, timid, afraid et.c

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Odunharry(m): 7:38pm On Sep 08, 2017
Jesus.

Getting my international passport and listening to my friend Ikechukwu.

Resigning from work and going for my post utme few years ago.


All this decision brought a positive Change.

Edited.
Forgot to add volunteering to teach in rural area for A year.
Mhen, that decision is something I will never forget and I'm not regretting it.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Sep 08, 2017
I learnt to stop caring too much...the lighter, the faster....

The day i decided against casual sex....

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by muller101(m): 7:40pm On Sep 08, 2017
Decided not to get married.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by menxer: 7:44pm On Sep 08, 2017
Hhhhhmmmmm

Well, I ingest weed once a week mostly on Friday evenings

I stopped using Facebook, thinking of deactivating the account.

I buy and read at least two books a month (mostly on Kindle)

I endeavour not to be insultive, if someone differs in his/her opinion off/online

I stopped going to church, four years now and counting...

I embark on a personal experience of awareness of being.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Stevengerd(m): 7:45pm On Sep 08, 2017
1. Leaving my father's house @ the age of 17/ Exposure 2. I decided to learn Graphics/ the concepts... 3. not limiting myself, focusing on things within my reach 4. been secretive, until my plans come thru. My watchword " Stephen what have you gain today"

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by OrdercityWeb: 7:47pm On Sep 08, 2017
Odunharry:
Jesus.

Getting my international passport and listening to my friend Ikechukwu.

Resigning from work and going for my post utme few years ago.


All this decision brought a positive Change.
Nice one bro

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by vaca1: 7:49pm On Sep 08, 2017
they say why do bad things happen to good people, that's me. i made a lot of good decision in my life but they'd never affected me positively. I struggle too much in life and am yet to see results. Right now, I give up and let nature takes its cause on my life.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 08, 2017
No one really cares. smiley

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 08, 2017
For ten years now, i read atleast 6 hours everyday...I'm a walking library, i'll stat writing my own publications/books/articles soon.... cheesy grin

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 08, 2017
One single quote changed my life, I saw it at the foot of a bridge, a quote from Loy Tolstoy - " If you want to be happy, be!.. "

It was moment of realization for me, that true happiness lies with me irrespective of the situation. So I decided to be useful to myself...

1) I resigned my job, and picked up a new one
2) learned to play the guitar
3) learned to speak two foreign language
4) Started programming , now I code in java, python, develop andriod application and design web pages.
5) I started paying more attention to my family and friend than work.
6) Stick to one girl (not being easy)..
7) learn to play lawn tennis, swim, mountain climbing and participated in chess tournaments
cool More volunteering, co founded a social enterprise while still working my career path- got three international recognized awards for community service (no need to mention)
9) Transform from slim to build , weekend gyms, morning workouts, joggings and fitness groups
10) Stopped going to church, spent more religious time wandering alone in the beach or camping .
11) Stop gambling, especially bet9ja, wasn't easy so I starred by reducing bet amount by 90% then reduced it to one a week and then stopped.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by ASAbraham(m): 7:51pm On Sep 08, 2017
joining the Nigerian Army
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by OrdercityWeb: 7:53pm On Sep 08, 2017
rychard:
One single quote changed my life, I saw it at the foot of a bridge, a quote from Loy Tolstoy - " If you want to be happy, be!.. "

It was moment of realization for me, that true happiness lies with me irrespective of the situation. So I decided to be useful to myself...

1) I resigned my job, and picked up a new one
2) learned to play the guitar
3) learned to speak two foreign language
4) Started programming , now I code in java, python, develop andriod application and design web pages.
5) I started paying more attention to my family and friend than work.
6) Stick to one girl (not being easy)..
7) learn to play lawn tennis, swim, mountain climbing and participated in chess tournaments
cool More volunteering, co founded a social enterprise while still working my career path- got three international recognized awards for community service (no need to mention)
9) Transform from slim to build , weekend gyms, morning workouts, joggings and fitness groups
10) Stopped going to church, spent more religious time wandering alone in the beach or camping .
11) Stop gambling, especially bet9ja, wasn't easy so I starred by reducing bet amount by 90% then reduced it to one a week and then stopped.
Wow!
I love this. Aweseome!

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Odunharry(m): 7:53pm On Sep 08, 2017
supersystemsng:
For ten years now, i read atleast 6 hours everyday...I'm a walking library, i'll stat writing my own publications/books/articles soon.... cheesy grin
This is nice.. Something I think I should start doing. Even of its 2 hours or 3.

Though I read few stuffs online though.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by indoorlove(m): 7:55pm On Sep 08, 2017
vaca1:
they say why do bad things happen to good people, that's me. i made a lot of good decision in my life but they'd never affected me positively. I struggle too much in life and am yet to see results. Right now, I give up and let nature takes its cause on my life.
I can relate!

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Sep 08, 2017
Odunharry:

This is nice.. Something I think I should start doing. Even of its 2 hours or 3.

Though I read few stuffs online though.


Increase it....anyone that studies is a millionaire in the waiting...

Thanks to this practice, i have different blueprints under my mattress from engineering to medicals to macro economics, just keep reading....the advantages are limitless...
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by roqrules04(m): 7:56pm On Sep 08, 2017
Stepping out of my comfort zone and also minding my business everytime

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Odunharry(m): 7:57pm On Sep 08, 2017
supersystemsng:



Increase it....anyone that read is a millionaire in the waiting...

Thanks to my studies, i have different stuffs under my mattress from engineering to medicals to macro economics, just keep reading....the advantages are limitless...
Yea bro. I know..

Work stuff and all that. U wake early and come back evening atimes night.
That's not an excuse though. It's something I'm starting soon.

All the best in your studies.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by menxer: 7:58pm On Sep 08, 2017
vaca1:
they say why do bad things happen to good people, that's me. i made a lot of good decision in my life but they'd never affected me positively. I struggle too much in life and am yet to see results. Right now, I give up and let nature takes its cause on my life.
Good and fine.

What was your intent or expectation?
What is your spiritual background?
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Sep 08, 2017
Odunharry:

Yea bro. I know..

Work stuff and all that. U wake early and come back evening atimes night.
That's not an excuse though. It's something I'm starting soon.

All the best in your studies.

Yes, compartmentalize.. Get a phone read in buses..to and fro, get small books, you can make a to-do-list. i.e. one book per week..

I started this last week, one hardcover book each week, 4 books monthly, 53 books yearly

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Hephzibahmusic: 7:59pm On Sep 08, 2017
I decided to follow GOD'S will for my life. Work on my passion . Am a video editor, Motion graphics designer, 3d animator, Special effects artist and a videography but I graduated a chemical scientist fromy the university.
I recently wrote an article on How my life turned around for good. Click my bio to read the article and you will be the same.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Toks2008(m): 7:59pm On Sep 08, 2017
NairalandCS:
Becoming an atheist and Deciding not to get married or have kids.


Mine was accepting Jesus as my lord and saviour in 1988..since then I have enjoyed an indescribable inner peace that Atheists secretly yearn for.

*Runs out of thread*
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Sep 08, 2017
I want to run away from home
I'm working towards it grin grin
I hate being dependent

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by OfficialSam(m): 8:01pm On Sep 08, 2017
I stopped smoking & my gums are now intact. It wasn't easy at all but i had to give it up just to live healthy.

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by hanassholesolo: 8:01pm On Sep 08, 2017
Evaberry:
I decided to learn programming




I decided to watch more anime, game more.

<3
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Odunharry(m): 8:01pm On Sep 08, 2017
supersystemsng:


Yes, compartmentalize.. Get a phone read in buses..to and fro, get small books, you can make a to-do-list. i.e. one book per week..

I started this last week, one hardcover book each week, 4 books monthly, 53 books yearly
That's nice. I read stuff on fone too once a while. Will starting reading books again. Fone can be a distraction trust me.
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by KamsyU: 8:03pm On Sep 08, 2017
FAIRALL:
not studying HARD in my final year in the University is the best decision......
Are you serious... Why, why didn't you
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Sep 08, 2017
Odunharry:

That's nice. I read stuff on fone too once a while. Will starting reading books again. Fone can be a distraction trust me.


I agree, but guess what bro, with a small techno phone that was a palasa, i read up every content BBC uploaded on their tech, medical,news,sports section for two years, word for word, today i'm the chief editor of a writing team and many of the skills i must have tapped thru that experience, i'm using it now..Knowledge is never wasted. You just need to keep doing it, even if it's with a phone...Knowledge builds up...You only need to be resolute, determined and focused

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Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Ritabo(m): 8:05pm On Sep 08, 2017
OrdercityWeb:
Hey guys,
A few days ago i was reading a thread on Quora on this particular question and i thought to myself what decisions have i actually taken that i can say helped me to this point.
Well so here are some i could think of, kindly share yours in the comments. This would help others learn from you incase they want similar result as you have. Let's do it this way; write the decision and in brackets write how it has affected your life positively
This could also inspire somebody to do something positive with his or her life.
So here goes:
- I deactivated FACEBOOK AND INSTAGRAM, i basically limited my involvement on social media. (This has helped me to do more productive things with my time, i started visiting more informative sections on NAIRALAND and frequent Quora)

-Cultivated a reading culture( Thanks to my last point i have more time available to myself, so i devote myself to reading novels, researching. This has drastically improved my vocab and knowledge base. There is something reading does to the mind)

-Improved my cooking skills ( Rather than use my data for social media, i downloaded apps and researched how to cook different local meals)

-I stopped chasing girls grin (This should be one of the best decisions I've taken, young guys I'll advice you to do same. This girls you're chasing when you leave them and CHASE YOUR DREAMS they'll be the ones to chase you)

-Took online courses (There is a saying that "the valley between you and your success is ignorance" )

-Developed a habit of self-development (I read anything that can improve me)

-Started online businesses (Thanks to my self-development habit, i run various online businesses, without being taught by anyone. I earn 6-digits income)

- I decided not to be limited by setbacks (so i have had a few setback. Everyone does lol. Life isn't fair right? Anyway when i look at where i was a year ago and where i am now i can say there's been alot of progress)

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I'll add more as soon as i remember. cool

Share yours in the comments let others learn from you. cheesy
Re: What Decisions Have You Taken That Have Affected Your Life Positively? by Xfemt(m): 8:05pm On Sep 08, 2017
things started going positive for me cus I did so many negative stuff and guess what it actually shaped my life.
every body is not the same, u must learn what works and make decision u won't regret, oh yes regret, wen I mean regret it one of d tin that makes u loose focus.
here we go.

I sold my mums car and I used the money and i left for Benin when I was in 300 level in 2013. dis decision really shaped me do u know why I never regretted what I did and it was very wrong of me although I miss use d money and life was unbearable for me but I move on and never tot of going back home to apologies for any tin or trying to regret but I forged on and wanted to prove every body wrong.

- Cultivated a reading culture - I read wht ll motivate me to be a better person and improve my IQ.

I stop going to church, although it good to serve God but I just don't want to. but am a Christian and I blive God is God and he is d reason why I'm alive.

- I stopped chasing girls, yes I stopped for a while so I cud achieve my aim but after den I started chasing oh after all man no b fire wood but girls de pushu me I de pushu dem.
na 50/50

I did menial jobs just to survive, during dis time I cultivated d habit of saving and I saved and started a business which was a laundry service from there I ventured into other business and right now am doing pretty fine although haven't gotten to were I want but am doing 100% better than b4

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I'll add more as soon as i remember.

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