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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 8:23am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Maybe you're a chronic masturbator and he's interested in your welfare |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by freethesheeple(m): 10:07am On Sep 09, 2017 |
ubunja: hahahahahah..well said..I have self control and when i talk about sex and u say no,off i go!!!... Women are using sex to enslave men!!! 1 Like |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by paulbets: 2:51pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
ubunja:My Nigga |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by adekhingz(m): 3:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
I think one other way to counter masturbation is to get Married. Anytime you are having any sexual urge, you meet your spouse to satisfy the urge. Some married couples masturbate too, but that's rare. |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Daviestunech(m): 4:15pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
adekhingz: Hmm and u think guys below 20 dat masturbate shud just go and marry? |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by emmynice329(m): 7:57pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
ask him for me |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 8:36pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Evening guys... I am in 10/14 1 Like |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by adekhingz(m): 9:31pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Daviestunech:. if a person is old enough to start enjoying sexual pleasure. let him/ her not deny himself that right. age is just a number. instead of wasting energy doing self service. let the girl or the guy assist you |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Geosystem(m): 9:43pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
antiFapping:mine is 13/14, still holding on despite the intense pressure. |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 2:14am On Sep 10, 2017 |
aibikhay:dude that theory he gave is working, am in 3/7 now.. Porn is my phone but its hidden, yet I've not Wanked, try it, I know you are wanking right now sef 1 Like |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nobody: 3:11am On Sep 10, 2017 |
Beetwaise:all those listing demerits of Masturbation, what is the difference between Masturbation and having sex? Apart from the fact that you are the one servicing yourself |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 6:37am On Sep 10, 2017 |
Geosystem:I'm happy for you, hold on tight brother, don't give in to the pressure 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by shotizzy: 12:54pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
10/14 |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Daviestunech(m): 6:02pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
adekhingz:Sure that what the Bible says. But I doubt if truly it can happen 1 Like |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by LilSfc(m): 8:09pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
QuietHammer: Have once stayed strong for 6 month, only to go back |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 6:59am On Sep 11, 2017 |
11/14 |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Prinsola(m): 7:04am On Sep 11, 2017 |
10/14 |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by santiagoz(m): 11:55am On Sep 11, 2017 |
Tochyodikwa:I need answers to this question please.. |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by shotizzy: 1:54pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
11/14 |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Johniyke2flex(m): 2:37pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
I used to masturbate, but mine wasn't chronic. I remember it used to be like once a week, or sometimes once in two weeks. I could go as low as once in a month too. Sometimes it could go higher depending on my state of mind. I've always had a natural dislike for pornography, so getting triggered by it was out of it. In fact I get irritated instead. The triggers used to come through my conversations with my female friends. Whenever we engaged in dirty talks or chats, I would immediately get triggered and I become restless until I ease off. Becos I knew my trigger and I had perfected it's effect on me, I tried as much as my strength could to stay away from dirty talks. Unfortunately, this helped only but a little. I remember I hated myself so much and I would vow never to go back to the act again, only to find myself doing it days later. During those years I tried so many things, and I can confidently tell whoever wants to stop the act that prayer alone won't help. Although I understand that masturbation has a spiritual root, praying alone as is being adviced here won't solve the problem. First you have to own up to the fact that you have a problem that needs a solution. Stop seeing the act as a normal thing, it is abnormal. As with fornication and adultery, masturbation is a work of the flesh and it has bad consequences. Two, you need to understand that masturbation only thrives in secrecy. The urge tries to first separate you from others before pouncing on you. So when next you feel the urge to masturbate, go out and mingle with friends. This would cause a necessary distraction that would take your mind off the act. You have to be very conscious of what triggers you. This is very important. Do not wait until you are neck deep into the lustful act before you take action. Try as much as you can to locate your trigger point. With this, you will know when to take a necessary step that would curb the urge. Be accountable to someone. Masturbation is both a psychological and a spiritual problem. Try to confide in someone of higher knowledge than you. In my case, I confided in a brother in church. I chose him because he had shown a certain level of maturity and experience in dealing with the act. He was also a former masturbator and he wasn't shy about talking about his experience. He would call me every morning to remind me about the issue I was dealing with and how I was determined to overcome it. With that, I was able to navigate each day with a conscious knowledge of what I was battling with. In fact, it was the turning point for me. Prayer! Prayer! Prayer! The place of prayer and renewing your mind cannot be overemphasized. There is no getting out of masturbation without the invitation of the Holy Spirit to be your help. Whatever you do without prayer is futile. Take it from me. You just need to augment it with other physical exercises for it to be effective and futile. 5 Likes |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Oluwaesko(m): 2:45pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
Thank so much op for creating this,it has been a blessing for me in the fight against porn ND masturbation, though I slipped this morning.. I know my freedom is at hand.. God bless you very much |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Vivy25(f): 3:00pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
The terrible part is the regret that comes afterwards.its not easy quitting, sometimes u find ursf going back even after trying so hard not to,but with prayers,trying not to stay alone,staying away from what triggers it,quitting is possible. gradually getting there... |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by PiperBoy(m): 3:03pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
antiFapping:I tink the best way to stop masturbation is downloading apps dah block porn sites...wen dis is done den u discipline urself from dare...porn is d fuel of masturbation |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 5:12pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
Oluwaesko:You're welcome. your freedom is truly in sight, believe me. |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by edoboy33(m): 11:02pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
1/14 |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:31pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
edoboy33:Welcome to the fold brother, together we win |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by edoboy33(m): 3:20pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
antiFapping:not a fapper thou but I want to quit pre marital sex |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Prectega(m): 8:13pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
antiFapping:BRO I wanna join you guys help a nigga about to commit suicide |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Geosystem(m): 8:51pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
officially two weeks and a day without fappping. to God be the glory. 1 Like |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 10:41pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Prectega:Suicide is never an option and you are never alone, there are a whole lot of us out there. welcome to the community bro, you're loved, together we walk this path of recovery, together we conquer this stupidity called fapping. Please take your time to go through all the comments in this thread, believe me, you will find so much solace in them |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by babyfaceafrica: 11:15pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
What is the difference with someone that have sex daily and someone that masturbates daily?.....why do people hammar more on stopping masturbation,than on stopping any form of daily sex!!!!.. |
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by bukas15(m): 11:29pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Beetwaise:could this be the reason why i'm looking way younger than my age.i am 29 but i look 19 nd very much slim.i hav been a victim for more than 14 years nw.pls i need help |
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