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Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by PeacenLove2: 9:34pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Whether you are male or female, be careful not to marry a sociopath. They never see any wrong in what they do, they never accept responsibility, they have no remorse. They will murder a person and claim provocation. In countries with Law, people like that if not denied the ssme right to life they have denied, will rot in prison where their murderous kinds may be provoked to dish out the same judgement to them. When a man marries a quarrelsome woman, he has entered it o. Better to be a Divorcé than a murderer or even the murdered. 2 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 9:35pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
prestigiouslady:What happened behind closed doors or before they got married no concern us The issue on ground has proven the woman to be at fault by pushing her husband to the wall That is why we are saying u women should desist from provoking men unnecessarily So everyone can live happily.... 2 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Xbee007(m): 9:35pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Even if the person is about to kill you? 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by bayulll011(m): 9:36pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
prestigiouslady: Nothing happened behind i can bet u. we 're not supporting abuse of any kind. your Ex does not deserve u,he's a silly moffo. thank God u left him,good decision I respect that. I repeat nobody is supporting any abuse from men or women. so nobody should come with excuse lot happen behind cos nobody cares. 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
TheKingIsHere: The solution is pale. Don't take such women serious. Every man should have his life planned out, know what he wants and have the balls to kick out any woman who stands in his way. First of all, never marry a karashika. If she has those spiritual nonsense, carry her to church and drop her there. Its not your cross to carry. Get your freedom through your finance. Never ever make any stupid sacrifices for her. Above all, know and love God and be smart enough not to be bitter with her. Just accept that she has chosen her path, and you will not be dragged into it. 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 9:40pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:But i didn't read any part where the op stated the man verbally abused his wife? Nigerian men are peaceable men, u women should stop pushing them to the wall So everyone can live happily According to report 80% of cases of domestic violence are ignited by women, the records are there.... |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by DJperdurabo: 9:42pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
EgunMogaji: I dey tell you! 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Daeylar: Anyone could be bad, man or woman. They keep saying women are evil, their mothers are never evil. In self-defence, I will definitely retaliate and commend anyone who does same. I will also condemn anyone who puts his/her spouse through any kind of pain. If you know that thing that hurts your spouse avoid it. What I don't support is the belief that verbal/emotional abuse warrants physical abuse. Any day verbal/emotional abuse is being repaid with physical abuse by couples, there will be a state of emergency in marriages. I'll keep suggesting proper marital counselling for intending couples. Counselling by professionals. 2 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
johnson232: Quote me when you have the records. Goodnight. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by NevetsIbot(m): 9:47pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
luminouz: honestly... I've never quoted her since I've been on NL buh my first mention had to be an insult. imagine. cos her comment is crazy foolishly foolish |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Angelovic96: 9:48pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:I know your type! |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by SweetWJ(m): 9:48pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
nikkyshyne:. Thank God dis one came from a lady. God bless u for speaking the truth. Any lady who wishes to marry man she can verbally abuse a anytime or place should go for a complete slowpoke. If you don't believe that men are also victims of domestic violence, then i will give my personal ordeal someday to at least confirm it. Next time, people will cross-examine cases before crucifixion of men for domestic violence. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 9:49pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Daeylar:Is that so? Keep justifying verbal abuse because that is what u women are capable of... Let me tell u the bitter truth so u know You can't take verbal abuse away from physical abuse, they are intertwined Verbal abuse is a precondition for physical abuse No one will jump into physical combat without verbal abuse That was why the bible warned against the power of the tongue If u don't want physical abuse, don't start verbal abuse But if u are foolish enough to instigate verbal abuse, be ready for physical abuse, because verbal abuse begets physical abuse.... 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Angelovic96: You should know my type _the type you can never have. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Chidonc(m): 9:54pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Evaberry:aunty I dont support domestic violence but you are making it look as if men are beast, every man deserves his respect, and the highest form of loyalty his respecting your man, every body has his limit to what he can endure and the wife clearly pushed him over, why bruising his ego in public. even the most calm man would turn violent once he is over pushed. not all men would stoop so low to hit a woman but if it was in a region like here in the north, no matter how calm her husband his, she would be automatically divorced that same minute without exchange of words. from the story I see no wrong the man did, apart from beating her up, but every other thing was her fault, from refusing to get him slippers to locking him out side in his own house, she was even lucky, if it were to be a man like me, that is the last sunday service she would attend from my house, the rest would be from her father's house. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Daeylar(f): 9:54pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
johnson232: Chaii is this so? @ the bolded, I have seen something Nairalanders can be comedians oh I do not support any kind of abuse, that was the first part of the statement, na wa, why did you skip it? I meant that, I really did, I do not support any kind of abuse, no one should ever, ever abuse any one (male or female) either physically, verbally or emotional, But I hope you know that what you wrote there, evey single word is trash? I hope you know that it's wrong and you are just trolling? I have reallly seen something. 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Angelovic96: 9:57pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:yesoooo! who wants to die young? 5 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 9:57pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:The records are everywhere on the net Goodnight too & take care of your loving & caring husband His type are very rare... 3 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Angelovic96: Is your type that'll finally die very young _because while looking for who to put in a box, you end up with mother gagool herself. Goodnight. johnson232: Good men deserve good women. Even if they have one or two shortcomings, their wives focus on their good. I can't say same for every man/woman out there. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by slizzyb(m): 9:59pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
dicefrost: I concur with ur view,,, always blaming men while it all started with women,,, how can a man be running away from his house How will u endure it that ur wife is insulting and calling u dirty and pig to people hearing?? Wat is a wife to man if not a companion? Ur second body, will u insult ur self if ur dirty Let's not judge.. As okey bakassi said on NTA jackpot show today,, I don't advice married people chikina 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by BabbanBura(m): 10:00pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Evaberry: 1. a wife brought her ex to her marrital home, husband forgave 2. she denied him sex for as long as 3 months sometimes, he endures 3. She insults his late mother who died just to keep him alife 4. she said it and demostrates it that she will make him poorer than a church rat 5. She sneaks out to places he doesnt know while he is away, he tolerates it 6. She often tells him 'it is not your money so don't ask me' - whenever she buys expensive things beyond their income 7. She refuse to cook, he does the cooking most often. otherwise she eats with 'not your money ' 8. In all this if he dare querry her, she lives his house for as long as when he decide to go find her and beg her to come back - including travelling and switching off her phones 9. When she picks a querrel, she wilds a kitchen knife to stab. he over power her, she held him by his di.ck and drags him - what will u do if you were this man? This is a true life story - the wife has being on treatment for the last three weeks. She run to her parents but they sent her back to the husband with all the battery the husband gave her. 4 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:00pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:. ..Madam nobody will support the man if he committed a crime but must u always defend sentimentally because she is a woman? Let's learn to always say the truth no matter what.Nawa for some people. 4 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 10:02pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Daeylar:Oh! I saw it You do not support any abuse but later went on to studiously justify verbal abuse? If u dont know verbal abuse is a precondition for physical, knw now Even a mad man won't jump into a fight without first exchanging words Have u seen two people or nations fight without first issueing threat statement? What led to python dance in eastern part? Do not under rate the power of hate speech ooo...It is very destructive u cant address physical abuse without first addressing verbal I have told u... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 10:04pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
JONNYSPUTE: Must you always pause that understanding part of your brain before quoting? I never supported the woman or the man. I simply said, don't hit your spouse _male/female! Is that difficult for you to understand? It isn't a crime because she is still breathing. At the rate you youths of this generation are going, you will kill yourselves in marriage. May my kids not be part of this insanity. JONNYSPUTE:Those are questions. If you consider them insults, then you insulted first. Keep it up too. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by SalomonKane: 10:04pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:Opinions are like butt holes, everybody has one. If the thread had been about a man beating his wife, I'm sure you'll not vomit this one-sided garbage you just did. What's good is good, and what's bad is bad. 2 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Daeylar(f): 10:05pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Daeylar(f): 10:06pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
johnson232: Please point out where I did so and I will correct it immediately, I don't want someone else to also think that I support verbal abuse or any kind of abuse because I don't. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
SalomonKane: The thread is obviously about a man beating his insulting and confrontational wife. Did you read a different post Josefu? I'm also sure you won't vomit this garbage if it were a woman beating her husband. Will you? You'll probably open that your head and see sense in why I said couples should employ tact in their dealings. SalomonKane: Till then. |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by BabbanBura(m): 10:07pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Chidonc: well said bro. Wallahi saki uku. Any woman that will try this nonsence with me will live my house that moment. i have never raised my hand on any woman and by God's grace i will never do such but i wont also keep abay any woman that will push me to that limit to warrant raising my hand against a woe.man |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by johnson232: 10:09pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:@bold Must u throw snide remarks before expressing your lame points? This is how u women ignite domestic violence & start playing the victim card when the heat is hot. 5 Likes |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Nobody: 10:11pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
johnson232: Yea, quick to see the woman's snide remarks _you didn't see his? Selective vision, just how men behave in marriage and claim they were pushed to the wall when the heat is hot. That's a question, he should answer it. 1 Like |
Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by Angelovic96: 10:12pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
PaperLace: no doubt there are good men and women out there like my one and only in here! even when your angry she laughing and petting you at the end you have no reason but to laugh out your sorrow! |
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