TINALETC3:
U hv already sed u dnt wnt dem, Wat again do u wnt? Avoid dem

sunshineG:
Hmmm
I suppose if you are close to 40 and haven't yet met your wife, you should also consider that the problem may come from you as well, perhaps your mind set is the problem.

For starters, the mindset you have of single mothers is not fair and inadequate. I think why you cannot dispute that most of them have made huge mistakes, you also need to understand that everyone deserves another chance.

I believe if you understand that everyone deserves another chance you may give yourself one as well

Ezi39:

Not that I don't give people second chance. The problem here's whether it is in accordance with the Bible.

sunshineG:
yes it accordance with the bible

Jesus told us to ask for forgiveness now

Even killers, prostitutes can ask forgiveness, how much more single mothers


So if these ladies have done that, I see no reason why marrying them will be against the will of God or the bible

I think it all in your mind bro

Ezi39:


I'm only concerned with the Bible passage that says "we should not marry whose husband is still alive."
Going by this, I will be committing adultery if I go ahead to marry the single mother if the person she had a child for is still alive.

TINALETC3:
and again I ask, were dey once married? Were dere bride price paid? If no, dey ar nobody's wives. If u luv any of dem, go ahead and marry, bt dnt marry out of pity, u sound like u ar pitying dem

TINALETC3:
and again I ask, were dey once married? Were dere bride price paid? If no, dey ar nobody's wives. If u luv any of dem, go ahead and marry, bt dnt marry out of pity, u sound like u ar pitying dem

Ezi39:

The semantic of my body language does not reflect pity as you concluded. I am only after due process so it will not be against my religious view.
As for bride price, it's the usual 'I will not marry you' case from guys. One said that the family does not want the guy. No marriage

spiritualmubi:
Gud Day All. I wil lyk to cntribute honestly to this issue, regarding single mothers staying on ur neck asking u to marry them isn't a bad thing logically, well am a muslim and my religion permits a divorced or single mother to marry anoda man, even tho he is alyf, in fact it z her duty to do so if she wants to go bk to her former man, ( a marriage of love tho). and her asking 4 marriage means she wants u to reduce her responsibilities. u said u wana follow the bible, my friend every law has to be rationally acceptable, if u dnt marry a wman hu z single, does it mean she shul keep been a celibate and cntinue cmiting fornication whch attracts God's Wrath? Marriage, and anyting after marriage is nt fornication, i read of a pastor hu married a prostitute hu repented and regrted her action, she was clean aftawards, an infact due to the blessing of the pastor, she got pregnant even afta her womb was remvd during prostitution, let alone a single mother hu is only luking for a pious patner. sk fr explntn rgdn dt law

sunshineG:
Hmmm
I suppose if you are close to 40 and haven't yet met your wife, you should also consider that the problem may come from you as well, perhaps your mind set is the problem.

For starters, the mindset you have of single mothers is not fair and inadequate. I think why you cannot dispute that most of them have made huge mistakes, you also need to understand that everyone deserves another chance.

I believe if you understand that everyone deserves another chance you may give yourself one as well

Ezi39:

Your Koran view and Bible view may be antithetical in this case.
As for a pastor marrying a prostitute, it was clear that the prostitute was never married before but have been committing the sin of fornication.
The difference is that no man can claim to be the prostitute's husband but the single mother's case can be threatened by the young man if it is the case of the family saying that they don't want him.

Ezi39:

Your Koran view and Bible view may be antithetical in this case.
As for a pastor marrying a prostitute, it was clear that the prostitute was never married before but have been committing the sin of fornication.
The difference is that no man can claim to be the prostitute's husband but the single mother's case can be threatened by the young man if it is the case of the family saying that they don't want him.