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Florblu:
[s]Let her break his head whenever he make such attempt.
Trust me he won't die and he won't try that again[/s].

Let's be careful the sort of advise we give. You know the implication of she killing someone with no proof of she being molested don't you?

She will achieve nothing with this. Seriously.

Let her set him up. Get a recording of him harassing her and send the clip to other members of the extended family. Miracles will happen in a meeting...some men are just something else! While some women are irredeemable! Imagine her aunty's response...put them both on a blast girl!

sisisioge:
Let her set him up. Get a recording of him harassing her and send the clip to other members of the extended family. Miracles will happen in a meeting...some men are just something else! While some women are irredeemable! Imagine her aunty's response...put them both on a blast girl!

Nothing will happen in the meeting.
The girl will leave.
The wife will take her husband back.
They will start off rough _but they gonna be alright .

PaperLace:
Nothing will happen in the meeting.
The girl will leave.
The wife will take her husband back.
They will start off rough _but they gonna be alright .

True...expected miracle is another safer abode for her. Plus every member of the family will know the kind of man uncle his thus keep their girls away from him.

abescom:
This is serious yet very simple. First your girlfriend needs to stop seeing herself as an orphan. Yes she may be but she should ignore that FACT for a while. Only that way she won't fall into self pity and sort this problem.

Secondly, you as the boyfriend needs to be there for her at this time. I know you probably have been judging by this post but do not give up yet. You may not end up marrying but this is your chance to make a serious impact on her life for good.

Thirdly, the fact that her aunty still pays her school fees and other bills gives me hope. There is a good chance that the aunt still have some sense left in her. That can be taken advantage of. Your girlfriend should get a phone with voice recorder. Or any recording device. There are many cheap ones on jumia. Ideally a recording pen if you guys can afford it.

That will most likely nail the man. He wants sex, he is very unlikely to use his senses and that will work in your favour. Let the girl daily every day program the phone or pen or whatever to record. One day the man will fall for it. If it is a pain, she can easily put it on her wardrope or somewhere where it will not been seen but can easily perform it duty.

When the aunt's husband is finally caught, make sure you the boyfriend get a copy of the recording for keeps then tell the aunt. Using the recording to blackmail the mail could lead to something extremely bad - the man could even kill her as such a man can do and undo.

If after showing the aunt the record she behaves in an unexpected manner, which is possible then use the record to seek the help of NGOs who may even end up taking her away from that bad environment.

But note you both have to be at your thinking best and very calculative.

Thanks Bro/Sis. regarding the criticism, it is expected, i live with the believe that everyone has the right to his or her opinion. so they just gave what they think is best. And for the advice you gave thanks so much, guess that is probably the best line of action now, and i pray she is in the best psychological form to carry out the task. The part of reaching NGO's, do you know how to reach any that could be of help. Thanks in Anticipation.

If any never bite you u no go knw how E dey pain,that woman or Aunty shld be careful that man will impregnate all her daughters,her friends d animasaun(cheerful givers)and any other thing that wears skirt if she's not careful..them go castrate that man last last

lawaldoski:
Thanks Bro/Sis. regarding the criticism, it is expected, i live with the believe that everyone has the right to his or her opinion. so they just gave what they think is best. And for the advice you gave thanks so much, guess that is probably the best line of action now, and i pray she is in the best psychological form to carry out the task. The part of reaching NGO's, do you know how to reach any that could be of help. Thanks in Anticipation.

I have no idea really but I am sure other nairalanders can help.

lawaldoski:
Thanks Bro/Sis. regarding the criticism, it is expected, i live with the believe that everyone has the right to his or her opinion. so they just gave what they think is best. And for the advice you gave thanks so much, guess that is probably the best line of action now, and i pray she is in the best psychological form to carry out the task. The part of reaching NGO's, do you know how to reach any that could be of help. Thanks in Anticipation.

I think she should try to reach out to these women, they are woman right activists that fight against female abuse
These are their IG handle

https://www.instagram.com/9ineteenchichi/

https://www.instagram.com/toniabruisedbutnotbroken/

Some peeps here are really heartless
I can feel the pain of that poor girl. Though I'm not in a position to help her out. I will just give her the little I can (prayers)
May God give her a divine helper

Proudlyblack:
I think she should try to reach out to these women, they are woman right activists that fight against female abuse
These are their IG handle

https://www.instagram.com/9ineteenchichi/

https://www.instagram.com/toniabruisedbutnotbroken/

Thanks Sis. I really appreciate.

Evaberry:
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Have always admire your comments on Posts, though on many occasions criticize some but without MENTION. And am sure you can dobmore than just that full stop or dot. Please don't wait until the post gets to FP before you give some of your reasonable advice. Cause am equally scared for the girl too and the fact that I can't do anything eats me up.

xendra:
useless men everywhere, the man is probably a nairalander, with all this bad advise they give each other

How useless are your brothers?

The aunty believes her oh. She's just trying to save are marriage that's why she's pretending not to believe her. Lust is powerful, that man cannot stop even if he wants to. She better live that house.