nwaire:
But seriously I have not seen any lady condem dis lady's act in strong words, even though majority of the monikers viewing this tread are females even those with male profiles, it says alot, maybe this is the new trend in todays marriage

Maybe her husband gained weight and she no longer desires him.

Maybe he is dirty.

Maybe he does not know how to satisfy his wife.

Maybe he nags too much. Which is a turn off.

Just a few of the excuses of men!

So Why should we condemn a sister?
Do u guys condemn ur fellow men for cheating?
Don't forget the man admitted in his chat that he pushed her away!
So who's to say he has not been cheating too?

In as much as I don't subscribe to infidelity as an answer to marital problems, I don't judge or condemn those that fall into temptation.

Lawlahdey:
The wife is into BDSM buh hubby doesn't have dominant bone in him so she had to get it outside.
Can't blame her.

Obviously nau it has to be the guy's fault, women are always the victims.

Have u guys wondered what would have happened if the husband had giving her a beating of her life.. See shout of "we don catch am" womanbeater.... (I am not o)
Now back to my point, so after the beating ehn.. they will end up having wild sx they have never experince before.and they will live appily everafter

Before you guys take her from;

MAGISTRATE COURT AND DISTRICT COURT

To

CUSTOMARY COURT OF APPEAL

To

SHARIA COURT OF APPEAL

To

NATIONAL INDUSTRIAL COURT

To

THE HIGH COURT OF THE FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY (FCT)/ STATE HIGH COURT

To

THE FEDERAL HIGH COURT

To

THE COURT OF APPEAL

And then finally to

THE SUPREME COURT OF NIGERIA;

Evaberry:
....

some men sha

they hate trying new things, they are not frisky and open, they are boring when the wife wants to try out new stuffs or when she reveals her fetish they call her a slut. even women too they act like sex is a sin or being sexually expressive is wrong

I have to end up with someone as frisky and daring as me. let's have sex everywhere, let's buy a Kama Sutra and practised everything in there, let's explore each and everyone of your fetish together.

with what I read everyday it seems everybody cheats in marriage, so why get married if your partner will disappoint you. should we now begin to take cheating as the norm.

This is disgusting and sad abeg, I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I just can't. will rather sleep alone than with a cheating wife or gf.

Did you forget your monica says you are female

Imagine the guy said last time she was too wide,that he wasted his logging fee, she is the most worthless woman I have ever see and she kept those messages.@op sorry

Evaberry:
....

some men sha

they hate trying new things, they are not frisky and open, they are boring when the wife wants to try out new stuffs or when she reveals her fetish they call her a slut. even women too they act like sex is a sin or being sexually expressive is wrong

I have to end up with someone as frisky and daring as me. let's have sex everywhere, let's buy a Kama Sutra and practised everything in there, let's explore each and everyone of your fetish together.

with what I read everyday it seems everybody cheats in marriage, so why get married if your partner will disappoint you. should we now begin to take cheating as the norm.

This is disgusting and sad abeg, I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I just can't. will rather sleep alone than with a cheating wife or gf.

So, you're a guy afterall.

Lawlahdey:
Why do you want me to blame her tho? Men cheat too.

r u her partner in cheating? Na play o, I want c my children children

YelloweWest:

Maybe her husband gained weight and she no longer desires him.

Maybe he is dirty.

Maybe he does not know how to satisfy his wife.

Maybe he nags too much. Which is a turn off.

Just a few of the excuses of men!

So Why should we condemn a sister?
Do u guys condemn ur fellow men for cheating?
Don't forget the man admitted in his chat that he pushed her away!
So who's to say he has not been cheating too?

In as much as I don't subscribe to infidelity as an answer to marital problems, I don't judge or condemn those that fall into temptation.

This Might Come ACross As An InsULT But You Need That Thing Between Your ShoulderS Checked. By Trying To JustifY Wrong Because The Victim Is An Opposite Sex To Your GenDeR Is One Of The DumMeST Thing Anyone Can Do. I Wont Be SurPrisEd If The Dumbass In The Story Is A Married Man. People Get Killed For SH!T Like This. BDSM Or GSM, Give That HOE The BoOT...

Virgohills:
Stolen water is sweet

... Till You Get Shot In The TonguE

Evaberry:
....

some men sha

they hate trying new things, they are not frisky and open, they are boring when the wife wants to try out new stuffs or when she reveals her fetish they call her a slut. even women too they act like sex is a sin or being sexually expressive is wrong

I have to end up with someone as frisky and daring as me. let's have sex everywhere, let's buy a Kama Sutra and practised everything in there, let's explore each and everyone of your fetish together.

with what I read everyday it seems everybody cheats in marriage, so why get married if your partner will disappoint you. should we now begin to take cheating as the norm.

This is disgusting and sad abeg, I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I just can't. will rather sleep alone than with a cheating wife or gf.

So, its not the husbands fault?
The same husband who begs his wife for sex and she refuses?
No problem.


But every man should know that every woman has a potential to phuck around.
If your wife refuses to let you know her Password to ANY of her devices (Phone, Email,pad, e.t.c) or dares as much as keep any secret from you, please let go of her.

Dont wait tillshe plans with her Man-friend to murder you.
A Stich in time, saves Nine.

you think sh*t like this no dey happen...a married young beautiful lady was disturbing me seriously just for s*x, she just put to bed recently and we are suppose to meet after 6weeks for our first encounter. But bro i want to live long had to tell her m not interested anymore and deleted her number. For real!!! [/quote] God bless you for resisting the temptation. The consequences are damn too much

Send her out of your house!

bluecircle470:


Exactly! Was once a victim just dat we didn't get married, that was just d saving grace. I realise so many of them didn't like to be pampered. Its just a shame.

I don't know where they get that madness from. How can a sane man whip and beat his wife before sex. It doesn't sound normal but that's what they enjoy but they won't say it until they meet a dominant.

djeezy:
From what I know. Most women who love bdsm or violent sex were once raped. Most times the feelings sticks and that's how they would want it after the forceful rape.

I agree with you but few were not raped. They might have been in an abusive relationship and develop the submissive attitude. Any guy who can't treat her as such will just be so damn boring. But most times,it is out of pure fantasy.

OBAGADAFFI:


I don't know how people enjoy this.

Pleasure and Pain. It's still better than other people's fetish (Coprophilia, Somnophilia, Necrophilia)
Oyinbo people have issues I swear.

Jimmy231:
no be only submisive na dominant...... hoe na hoe for get BDSM

I agree, a Hoe is a Hoe.
This is why one has to think properly before getting married to a man, ask questions like "do I really want to spend the rest of my life with him? If i stop loving him what will I do?"
At least ask the poor man for a divorce first before Cheating, put yourself in his shoes, A cheating wife destroys a man's Ego or even kill him. It's just so sad that men who don't cheat end up with really unfaithful women and Women who don't end up with everyone's man for a husband. #ThisLifeNaWah

ibietela2:


Explain abeg

BDSM means Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission. A term used to generally classify a form of activity especially sexually involving consenting partners. A Dominant is the person who is in control of the activity (also called top) while submissive is recipient of the action (also called bottom). Whipping, handcuffs,tying, spanking etc can be applied as agreed by the partners. It is never termed punishment.
You can read more online

djeezy:
From what I know. Most women who love bdsm or violent sex were once raped. Most times the feelings sticks and that's how they would want it after the forceful rape.

Absolute false!

What about those men that like wen women dey slap der nyansh to dig deeper during sex; were the men abused and spanked in the butt when they were younger ?

It's just preference and nothing more. Besides, maybe the guy in question introduced her to rough sex and she loved it.

Who nor like rough sex every once in a while?? D's is the major reason people cheat. They love being spanked in the butt, called dirty names, tied or blind folded, they love people who will attempt different crazy things with them.

It's an exciting experience that will stick with you for a while.

Those wey never try lil bit of bdsm are too conservative..

Lawlahdey:
The wife is into BDSM buh hubby doesn't have dominant bone in him so she had to get it outside.
Can't blame her.

You have watch fifty shades of grey too much.

Lawlahdey:
The wife is into BDSM buh hubby doesn't have dominant bone in him so she had to get it outside.
Can't blame her.

birds of the same feather,,,,,,,,

Evaberry:
....

some men sha

they hate trying new things, they are not frisky and open, they are boring when the wife wants to try out new stuffs or when she reveals her fetish they call her a slut. even women too they act like sex is a sin or being sexually expressive is wrong

I have to end up with someone as frisky and daring as me. let's have sex everywhere, let's buy a Kama Sutra and practised everything in there, let's explore each and everyone of your fetish together.

with what I read everyday it seems everybody cheats in marriage, so why get married if your partner will disappoint you. should we now begin to take cheating as the norm.

This is disgusting and sad abeg, I can't cope with a cheating spouse, I just can't. will rather sleep alone than with a cheating wife or gf.

Freedom of exploration is great. I like trying out new things too. But most people just stick to the conventional ways of doing things which get boring with time.

DaniellaDokubo:
Did you forget your monica says you are female

she has either blown cover or she's a lez

No, I don't. BDSM can be very safe just like evryday activities. If participants choose to be extremely extreme, good for them.

By the way, they are not demon possessed. Pain has always been synonymous to pleasure for some people. We can't all the be the same.

Icon79:
Do you know how many people who have died through BDSM?


O pari

Well, the text didn't quite say she likes BDSM o. The guy defo abused her in the past and he threatened to again. Out of fear of his wrath and excitement of his perceived jealousy, she promised to remain chaste for him. Whew, my heart felt condolences to the husband. Sheet really does happen.

ikbnice:
I agree with you but few were not raped. They might have been in an abusive relationship and develop the submissive attitude. Any guy who can't treat her as such will just be so damn boring. But most times,it is out of pure fantasy.

You're right.

IamLEGEND1:
The kind news wey we just dey see these days.

It's quite obvious that Just like ASUU, the hoe association has recently convened in secret and agreed to activate all their sleeper agents that were planted in married homes.....
So now they're all following the mandate from above and reverting back to their original state..

Good expression!

pocohantas:
The woman is into those several sexual fetish.
She should have married her ex. Why marry one and fukk another?

All these cheating and different kind of abuse news.
Person go still marry like this?

He should just do away with her.
She has no excuse, none at all.
She married the man with her eyes open.

a round of applause. the first time ur making sense to me

the way nairaland men comments on this trend ehhh, welcome to African ,a woman cheated and the whole world is talking but when men cheats it's a normal thing .if this complains was made by the wife ,people ll tell her to forgive and make the marriage work for the sake of their kids but now all I'm seeing is divorce the bitch bla bla, if the wife was remorseful and apologized after being caught , why didn't the husband forgive her for the sake of their child. I feel sorry for women in Africa but this Madam no try oh at all, I thought women cheats when their husband cannot satisfy them or is not giving them sex but this one is even denying her husband sex .. I wish I can beg the husband on her behalf to forgive her.

*just passing by*

nairanaira12:


I hope you are joking. If not, what you are doing is complete nonsense.

in your opinion. anyway i am not joking! i have no reason to.

It's so sad that when men cheat, we are expected to forgive and move on but when women cheat they re sent packing, what an irony of life. Same way i caught my husband red handed and they all expect me to forgive and move on

It is well

Women, let us take heart.

If it were to be the guy, this woman would have forgive him and move on

What they can't take, they want you to accept