*The wife material*

The other day, there was no water in my hostel, so, I went outside to fetch. Now, I have very fragile bones, I can't be messing with my arms, I decided it would be safer if I put the keg of water on my head(advantage of having a big head, shey?). Well, I found someone and together, we balanced the keg on my head. Some dude saw me and sent me a message afterwards saying: Keji, you're a wife material o. If it were to be other girls, they would be forming.
Me (feigning ignorance): what did Keji do o?
Him: I saw the way you put keg of water on your head nah
Me: In your mind now, you would be thinking you're making sense o. Mtchew...
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Why does our society still justify a good wife qualities by the amount of suffering she passes through?
Ideally, with the level of civilization the world is experiencing, someone in Africa is thinking a woman is a better wife material because she can put keg of water on her head. Is suffering synonymous to being a wife?
A girl says she doesn't like grinding stone, you shame her for it, a girl says she likes using washing machine, you shame her for it. A girl says she doesn't like pounding yam, you shame her for it. You see, with my level of education and all the stress I am passing through in school right now just to be successful in life, if I cannot afford to make like easier for myself, if I cannot afford a blender, a washing machine, a pounding machine, then, I would be a disgrace to myself, to my family, and to my struggle!
I've read stories of how a man 'tested' his fiance by asking her to sleep in kitchen and she obeyed and he was convinced he could marry her... Oya, gbefun������... An argument was on on social media few weeks ago saying a woman that cannot cook soup with 500 naira is not a good wife material, so, I ask, how many of you men can build a duplex with 10,000 naira? Would you date dangote's daughter and be testing her with Poverty? You see, some ladies know what they want in life, it is not pride, it is not gold digging, it is called standard. Test a rich lady with Poverty and watch her leave you, not everyone can cope with Poverty.
I have heard a pastor say if his son brings a lady home, he will pack all his dirty clothes outside and if the lady doesn't come to wash them, his son will not marry her. In my mind, I was like, daddy, you will marry your son at last, sir. Whose daughter do you want to turn to your slave? Y'all want to be pampered and your egos massaged by ladies but you keep testing someone's daughter with Poverty and ill treatment and expect her to stay with you. You will be alright at last.
Keep judging a good wife with how well she can absorb Poverty and suffering and Poverty and suffering will keep following you, since that is what you want.
Please, a good wife is someone who will love and support you not necessarily someone who can put up with Poverty and stress.
Yes, we know our mothers suffered, used grinding stones, went to the river, pounded yam and all. But this is the life of baby girls, we have the money and sense to make life comfortable for ourselves, stop shaming girls who seek comfort. Except you have the ambition to be poor, you should have no reason compulsorily searching for a lady who can cook soup with 500 naira.

*MORENIKEJI NIGHTINGALE*

hmm.

finally u vented ur anger and impression on nl? :-(

Some people will not like this.

newyorks:
finally u vented ur anger and impression on nl? :-(

is this all you av to say
hmmm

Evaberry:
hmm.

newyorks:
finally u vented ur anger and impression on nl? :-(

is this all you av to say
hmmm
are we save madam?

Oya gbefun mama the mama

Please preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't come and suffer cos I wanna marry

my church guys nearly ate me raw wen I said I'll use washing machine to wash my husband cloths.

I can't suffer cos I want to b a wife!!!!!!!

No wonder some baby mamas are better off than some wives fact!

personal59:
is this all you av to say hmmm is this all you av to say hmmm are we save madam?

u'ah safe but the op is a feminist

so u called washing clothes with ur hands suffering


abi u nor know say washing machine dey kill clothes


all these feminists sef!

newyorks:
u'ah safe but the op is a feminist

but I think she is right to a larger extent

OP is defense lawyer for ølò$hô$ and lazy people.

You're talking sense. Please tell them o.

Desyner:
OP is defense lawyer for ølò$hô$ and lazy people.

lol.....

but come to think of it



Make beds of Roses for your wife when and where u can . They are someone's daughter.
If God provides for you why should you test his creature given to you on trust with poverty.

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am not saying endurance and perseverance should be left out but if u av the money to foot d bill please y not?

selflessposhheart:
Oya gbefun mama the mama

Please preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't come and suffer cos I wanna marry

my church guys nearly ate me raw wen I said I'll use washing machine to wash my husband cloths.

I can't suffer cos I want to b a wife!!!!!!!

No wonder some baby mamas are better off than some wives fact!

dog wen go loss no de answer hunter whistle
Guys are telling you what will make happy marriage
Na the wan wen assure 42% divorce you wan do with stubbornnes

OK o

mikolo80:
dog wen go loss no de answer hunter whistle
Guys are telling you what will make happy marriage
Na the wan wen assure 42% divorce you wan do with stubbornnes

OK o

I'm a happy baby mama I don't need no hubby

selflessposhheart:


I'm a happy baby mama I don't need no hubby

ooooo Ooookkk no wahala if you're sure you like loneliness

mikolo80:
ooooo Ooookkk no wahala if you're sure you like loneliness

don't like loneliness

selflessposhheart:


don't like loneliness

Toh thought you said you're enjoying the baby mama
choose one
can't eat cake and have it
gotta make compromises

also choose right guy instead of ready made

mikolo80:
Toh thought you said you're enjoying the baby mama
choose one
can't eat cake and have it
gotta make compromises

also choose right guy instead of ready made

Not suffering with any guy
Not suffering for any guy any more I wasn't born to b suffering

Ready made men it is

selflessposhheart:


Not suffering with any guy
Not suffering for any guy any more I wasn't born to b suffering

Ready made men it is

na ready-made worst pass. I pity any girl that near, me when I'm made. Una no wan suffer now ba, don worry dem go hiaram as side chicks and concubines

mikolo80:
na ready-made worst pass. I pity any girl that near, me when I'm made. Una no wan suffer now ba, don worry dem go hiaram as side chicks and concubines

Ok boss but remember there are girls who suffered with guys and still get dumped without doing anything

Having several girls its u DAT will get burnt and hurt at the end dose girls after been hurt will find anoda guy but u will find ursef lol every body wins

selflessposhheart:


Ok boss but remember there are girls who suffered with guys and still get dumped without doing anything

Having several girls its u DAT will get burnt and hurt at the end dose girls after been hurt will find anoda guy but u will find ursef lol every body wins

The girls chose disloyal idiots unwisely. Friend zoned the good ones.
No hurt if you put them on pay as you go
There will always be other girls

mikolo80:

The girls chose disloyal idiots unwisely. Friend zoned the good ones.
No hurt if you put them on pay as you go
There will always be other girls

Take it easy do you

No matter how good Or bad you are someone wi always love you.

selflessposhheart:


Take it easy do you

No matter how good Or bad you are someone wi always love you.

take what easy.
That's not love that's desperation

mikolo80:
take what easy.
That's not love that's desperation

Love ain't aggressive don't be

selflessposhheart:


Love ain't aggressive don't be

me
Aggressive
No
Just stating the facts
Don't mind me
Don't like writing
Too lazy

mikolo80:
me
Aggressive
No
Just stating the facts
Don't mind me
Don't like writing
Too lazy

it's all good boo

selflessposhheart:


it's all good boo

you better stop sending all this kiss kiss emoji ahnahnn stop causing konji o

mikolo80:
you better stop sending all this kiss kiss emoji ahnahnn stop causing konji o

lol here to help you out

selflessposhheart:


lol here to help you out

doubt it. Wanna talk cos it seems you have my time tonight

mikolo80:
doubt it. Wanna talk cos it seems you have my time tonight

selflessposhheart:

not an answer