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***The Wife Material * * * by personal59: 7:33pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
*The wife material* The other day, there was no water in my hostel, so, I went outside to fetch. Now, I have very fragile bones, I can't be messing with my arms, I decided it would be safer if I put the keg of water on my head(advantage of having a big head, shey?). Well, I found someone and together, we balanced the keg on my head. Some dude saw me and sent me a message afterwards saying: Keji, you're a wife material o. If it were to be other girls, they would be forming. Me (feigning ignorance): what did Keji do o? Him: I saw the way you put keg of water on your head nah Me: In your mind now, you would be thinking you're making sense o. Mtchew... ************************ Why does our society still justify a good wife qualities by the amount of suffering she passes through? Ideally, with the level of civilization the world is experiencing, someone in Africa is thinking a woman is a better wife material because she can put keg of water on her head. Is suffering synonymous to being a wife? A girl says she doesn't like grinding stone, you shame her for it, a girl says she likes using washing machine, you shame her for it. A girl says she doesn't like pounding yam, you shame her for it. You see, with my level of education and all the stress I am passing through in school right now just to be successful in life, if I cannot afford to make like easier for myself, if I cannot afford a blender, a washing machine, a pounding machine, then, I would be a disgrace to myself, to my family, and to my struggle! I've read stories of how a man 'tested' his fiance by asking her to sleep in kitchen and she obeyed and he was convinced he could marry her... Oya, gbefun������... An argument was on on social media few weeks ago saying a woman that cannot cook soup with 500 naira is not a good wife material, so, I ask, how many of you men can build a duplex with 10,000 naira? Would you date dangote's daughter and be testing her with Poverty? You see, some ladies know what they want in life, it is not pride, it is not gold digging, it is called standard. Test a rich lady with Poverty and watch her leave you, not everyone can cope with Poverty. I have heard a pastor say if his son brings a lady home, he will pack all his dirty clothes outside and if the lady doesn't come to wash them, his son will not marry her. In my mind, I was like, daddy, you will marry your son at last, sir. Whose daughter do you want to turn to your slave? Y'all want to be pampered and your egos massaged by ladies but you keep testing someone's daughter with Poverty and ill treatment and expect her to stay with you. You will be alright at last. Keep judging a good wife with how well she can absorb Poverty and suffering and Poverty and suffering will keep following you, since that is what you want. Please, a good wife is someone who will love and support you not necessarily someone who can put up with Poverty and stress. Yes, we know our mothers suffered, used grinding stones, went to the river, pounded yam and all. But this is the life of baby girls, we have the money and sense to make life comfortable for ourselves, stop shaming girls who seek comfort. Except you have the ambition to be poor, you should have no reason compulsorily searching for a lady who can cook soup with 500 naira. *MORENIKEJI NIGHTINGALE* 6 Likes |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
hmm. |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by newyorks(m): 7:45pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
finally u vented ur anger and impression on nl? :-( |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Some people will not like this. |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by personal59: 7:50pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Oya gbefun mama the mama Please preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can't come and suffer cos I wanna marry my church guys nearly ate me raw wen I said I'll use washing machine to wash my husband cloths. I can't suffer cos I want to b a wife!!!!!!! No wonder some baby mamas are better off than some wives fact! |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by newyorks(m): 7:55pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
personal59:u'ah safe but the op is a feminist |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by rawpadgin(m): 7:56pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
so u called washing clothes with ur hands suffering abi u nor know say washing machine dey kill clothes all these feminists sef! |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by personal59: 7:58pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Desyner: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
OP is defense lawyer for ølò$hô$ and lazy people. |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by EniHolar(f): 8:57pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
You're talking sense. Please tell them o. |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by personal59: 9:09pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Desyner: lol..... but come to think of it Make beds of Roses for your wife when and where u can . They are someone's daughter. If God provides for you why should you test his creature given to you on trust with poverty. ? am not saying endurance and perseverance should be left out but if u av the money to foot d bill please y not? |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
personal59: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 2:04am On Sep 23, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:dog wen go loss no de answer hunter whistle Guys are telling you what will make happy marriage Na the wan wen assure 42% divorce you wan do with stubbornnes OK o |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 9:45am On Sep 23, 2017 |
mikolo80: I'm a happy baby mama I don't need no hubby |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 7:43pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:ooooo Ooookkk no wahala if you're sure you like loneliness |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
mikolo80: don't like loneliness |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 1:29pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:Toh thought you said you're enjoying the baby mama choose one can't eat cake and have it gotta make compromises also choose right guy instead of ready made |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: Not suffering with any guy Not suffering for any guy any more I wasn't born to b suffering Ready made men it is 1 Like |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 8:12pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:na ready-made worst pass. I pity any girl that near, me when I'm made. Una no wan suffer now ba, don worry dem go hiaram as side chicks and concubines |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 8:25pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: Ok boss but remember there are girls who suffered with guys and still get dumped without doing anything Having several girls its u DAT will get burnt and hurt at the end dose girls after been hurt will find anoda guy but u will find ursef lol every body wins |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 8:53pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:The girls chose disloyal idiots unwisely. Friend zoned the good ones. No hurt if you put them on pay as you go There will always be other girls |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: Take it easy do you No matter how good Or bad you are someone wi always love you. |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 9:38pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:take what easy. That's not love that's desperation |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 9:47pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: Love ain't aggressive don't be |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 10:03pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:me Aggressive No Just stating the facts Don't mind me Don't like writing Too lazy |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: it's all good boo |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 10:09pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:you better stop sending all this kiss kiss emoji ahnahnn stop causing konji o |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: lol here to help you out |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 10:17pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:doubt it. Wanna talk cos it seems you have my time tonight |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
mikolo80: |
Re: ***The Wife Material * * * by mikolo80: 10:30pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
selflessposhheart:not an answer |
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