nikkypearl:
Na woman matter u carry for head like this ?

Btw...most women dont get over their Ex ..

Lol.... Naim ooo... Bt seriosly.. Shii aint funny

horlahsunbo225:
My dear brother it seems you can't date my gf cox per year she uploaded up to 100 guys both on fb and WhatsApp but on my birthday she didn't do so for me and I dont even give a bleep about it.
Dont be jealous
Let go the shit but just make sure she is not cheating on you

How bt that for a gf... How do i know shes nt cheating.... Im tired of pretence.... The reason i cnt trust

latexxbro:


Why don't you teach us how to make her more invested when the relationship is still new?? will go a long way

True... Teach us

Erums:



How bt that for a gf... How do i know shes nt cheating.... Im tired of pretence.... The reason i cnt trust

From her reaction you will know if she is cheating or not
BTW I have access to her phone so I know how thing dey go

horlahsunbo225:
My dear brother it seems you can't date my gf cox per year she uploaded up to 100 guys both on fb and WhatsApp but on my birthday she didn't do so for me and I dont even give a bleep about it.
Dont be jealous
Let go the shit but just make sure she is not cheating on you

You need more advice on your relationship than the Op

Erums:



Thanks biancan.... Exactly my piont... I choose to reapect the relationship by shielding and female green light i got....my ex are my exes...and i like to keep itdat way... My tin is she even started uploading the bday piks in advance... Dt really rings a bell

then have a unique conversation with her and know if she'sin or out simple

Horlohlah:
You need more advice on your relationship than the Op

brother understanding matter most
BTW am with her how you can drop your advice

Erums:
Guys.... Im in a delimma.. Im i reacting toomuch?

I know my gf ex.....

On the 20th of sept she posted on her Facebook wishing the Ex a happy bday in adv and uploading his picture tagging her close friends too....

She was in my house of the 22nd and during the cause of our discussion i told her that i saw her post of her ex on the facebook page.. That is wasnt really nice. Mind u, i said it in a matured and friendly way.

Fast forward to 25th, on her facebook page, i saw she posted the guys pikture double dis time, wishing him a happy bday tagging her close friends also, i also went ahead to check her whatsap status... She also posted his picture there...

Guys dis pissed me off...
I asked a few female colleagues and friends they all gave thier opinion thats either they are fucking, or theyre back togeda, or they are planning and hoping to get back togeda...

But all the same, i felt insulted for the fact that i told her of my displeasure before...

Guys, be sincere, put urself in ma shoes, And im about to break up with her...

Shes been begging since yesteday. But my heart is stoned, i feel shes fake....

Guys, im i over reacting.... What do u advise...

u better run for your life before your situation will be worse than Jack in Titanic ,who died a foolish death . In the first instance what caused there break up ? And why is she still going back since its their policy to move on whenever dey broke up with a guy . I would rather u move on that girl will harm u . And if this e happens don't come here and cry like a baby . Read this for your perusal

She is banging the ex and still loves her , the ex can get a bang anytime he wants it. Your gf is likely to be someone who likes things and a gold digger, get a good girlfriend, if she compares you and the ex , it seems that you are on the lower level of satisfaction scale bro . Get someone better. Take my point.

horlahsunbo225:
brother understanding matter most
BTW am with her how you can drop your advice

Since you are convinced all is well,enjoy your relationship bro.

fox26:
She is banging the ex and still loves her , the ex can get a bang anytime he wants it. Your gf is likely to be someone who likes things and a gold digger, get a good girlfriend, if she compares you and the ex , it seems that you are on the lower level of satisfaction scale bro . Get someone better. Take my point.

I get u bro

once it's a threelationship, start padding your heart like the budget.

motun2017:
the guy celebrated bday twice in a year ?? i dont get sef

seems you need IQ test

Erums:



Seriously... She has a mind of her oen... And now shes hurt me by her actions... Mind u... I didnt ask her not to relate wit tha guy.... And fyi... Shes very selfish.. I have no female frnds just because of her.. I cnt upload piks i want to... I have a mind of my own... Bt i chose to respect her...cos she always wnt me for herself alone..

Now im suprised.. Cos if i expressed my displeasure... She shud take heed... An ex is an ex.... Let it stay day way.... If nt we done

Break up.

Tenkobos:
She's your girlfriend sir not your wife so you don't expect her do everything you say. She's also a complete human not a zombie, she has a mind of her own and reason for doing what she did. Reason you may not understand.



My ex introduced me to her husband and I and him do speak on phone sometimes, I am sure you will think I am bonking your wife if you were him.

I have a feeling you haven't even been a relationship before. I have this feeling because you are saying things like a child. A married woman using her Ex's picture as her DP? and you speak to her Husband on Phone? What exactly do you guys discuss? How you used to bonk his wife? Or how he does it now and if he does it properly? Or How she used to moan your name while you bonked her well?

Then, why would you even go as far as knowing your EX's husband to that extent? Isn't that creepy? Oh, and so you know, if ever you love someone, you won't want to loose them, and that's where insecurity creeps in. Sometimes this insecurities may become extreme. But it is normal to have them. Your partner should try to allay your fears when possible, not to their own detriment anyway. I don't expect you to understand this anyway.

IamLEGEND1:
I go give two different pieces of advice, pick anyone that suits your personality:
As wetin she do dey pain you, just get ready to pack up. You don't trust the girl & she on her part doesn't value your opinion, even less so your feelings.
Find the nearest dust bin & drop her there...... Move on to bigger & better yanshes.

BUT!
Me as I dey so I no give_fuck about this kyn nonsense.
She can be smashing the ex on the side for all I care...... As long as the services she provides me remain steady, then she can post the pictures of the whole guys on her street and wish them happy birthday.
When time come, I pack up and bolt out of her life faster than gala sellers holding your N930 change in traffic..... Or she gets tired first and breaks up with me...... Win-win situation either way.

There may come a day when I become true to my feelings, a day I will see my girl with another guy and get jealous, but it is not this day.

you are legend!!!

Chuksemi:


I have a feeling you haven't even been a relationship before. I have this feeling because you are saying things like a child. A married woman using her Ex's picture as her DP? and you speak to her Husband on Phone? What exactly do you guys discuss? How you used to bonk his wife? Or how he does it now and if he does it properly? Or How she used to moan your name while you bonked her well?

Then, why would you even go as far as knowing your EX's husband to that extent? Isn't that creepy? Oh, and so you know, if ever you love someone, you won't want to loose them, and that's where insecurity creeps in. Sometimes this insecurities may become extreme. But it is normal to have them. Your partner should try to allay your fears when possible, not to their own detriment anyway. I don't expect you to understand this anyway.

Thankss man... Make him see de light

Chuksemi:


I have a feeling you haven't even been a relationship before. I have this feeling because you are saying things like a child. A married woman using her Ex's picture as her DP? and you speak to her Husband on Phone? What exactly do you guys discuss? How you used to bonk his wife? Or how he does it now and if he does it properly? Or How she used to moan your name while you bonked her well?

Then, why would you even go as far as knowing your EX's husband to that extent? Isn't that creepy? Oh, and so you know, if ever you love someone, you won't want to loose them, and that's where insecurity creeps in. Sometimes this insecurities may become extreme. But it is normal to have them. Your partner should try to allay your fears when possible, not to their own detriment anyway. I don't expect you to understand this anyway.

No child will answer you these questions but I will like to tell you more childish things.



So far in life, I have met people from different tribes and races and have learned that what is a taboo here can be a tradition somewhere else, this may not make sense to many adults because it is too childish but it has taught me to stop making what I consider right and wrong the standard for all.


Good night.

Dshocker:


Ur girlfriend belongs to us

Like MTN " EVERYWHERE YOU GO"

Op, I know you won't take this advice because it seems you love the lady than she seem to love you.

I will say, don't go back to the relationship because she has placed more value on her ex than you, which is totally a bad signal. An ex is supposed to be an ex.

horlahsunbo225:
My dear brother it seems you can't date my gf cox per year she uploaded up to 100 guys both on fb and WhatsApp but on my birthday she didn't do so for me and I dont even give a bleep about it.
Dont be jealous
Let go the shit but just make sure she is not cheating on you

lol....u are just one of the numerous guys she is dating....

Horlohlah:
You need more advice on your relationship than the Op

exactly... lmao. The guy will be like number 25 on her list of boyfriends...

She dey see u as an escort ur babe still fucking love d guy,

Ayoolajumoke:
Op, I know you won't take this advice because it seems you love the lady than she seem to love you.

I will say, don't go back to the relationship because she has placed more value on her ex than you, which is totally a bad signal. An ex is supposed to be an ex.

matured... You are very experienced in relationship matters... Nice one...

biacan:
if she is sincere please accept her..... note that all attention will be given to you and she must stop communicating with him.....if not breakup with her... being in a relationship isn't a child play if you felt your partner is not enough for you kindly call it a quit....than toying with his/her feelings.....if in a relationship I can't Ch....t same I can't afford to share my man.....he is meant to be mind alone not to be shared by anyone.....if you can't stick to me move out...

OP take this advice. sit her down and define the relationship. my gf was like that too. at first she did not want to do the total breakup thing cos the ex was in another state. I didn't want to rush her , I wanted her to do it on her own accord since we are already having a good time. until I notice that she had the boldness to just pick the guys calls in my presence and talk for like 10 mins. then I sat her down and she finally broke up with the guy. fast forward 3 months, I noticed the guy still calls her well I don't have a problem with that.. but I noticed they still talk for long.. Na there I cut chain oooo. I am a guy and if an ex is still giving me this kinda audience I know she isn't really over me and I can have her sometime. well she realy cut off the guy finally. but now I told her I don't give a fvck if she does anything with anybody again.. I think she has defined the relationship now for herself and she knows the boundaries.
I take it that you really like the babe that's why e dey pain you. yes it is normal to feel that way. sit her down and let her know you won't tolerate it any more

rasojie:
OP take this advice. sit her down and define the relationship. my gf was like that too. at first she did not want to do the total breakup thing cos the ex was in another state. I didn't want to rush her , I wanted her to do it on her own accord since we are already having a good time. until I notice that she had the boldness to just pick the guys calls in my presence and talk for like 10 mins. then I sat her down and she finally broke up with the guy. fast forward 3 months, I noticed the guy still calls her well I don't have a problem with that.. but I noticed they still talk for long.. Na there I cut chain oooo. I am a guy and if an ex is still giving me this kinda audience I know she isn't really over me and I can have her sometime. well she realy cut off the guy finally. but now I told her I don't give a fvck if she does anything with anybody again.. I think she has defined the relationship now for herself and she knows the boundaries.
I take it that you really like the babe that's why e dey pain you. yes it is normal to feel that way. sit her down and let her know you won't tolerate it any more

you just earn my respect

I will go with the second advice

IamLEGEND1:
I go give two different pieces of advice, pick anyone that suits your personality:
As wetin she do dey pain you, just get ready to pack up. You don't trust the girl & she on her part doesn't value your opinion, even less so your feelings.
Find the nearest dust bin & drop her there...... Move on to bigger & better yanshes.

BUT!
Me as I dey so I no give_fuck about this kyn nonsense.
She can be smashing the ex on the side for all I care...... As long as the services she provides me remain steady, then she can post the pictures of the whole guys on her street and wish them happy birthday.
When time come, I pack up and bolt out of her life faster than gala sellers holding your N930 change in traffic..... Or she gets tired first and breaks up with me...... Win-win situation either way.

There may come a day when I become true to my feelings, a day I will see my girl with another guy and get jealous, but it is not this day.

vicadex07:



exactly... lmao. The guy will be like number 25 on her list of boyfriends...

That's if she even regards him as her boyfriend.

Erums:
Guys.... Im in a delimma.. Im i reacting toomuch?

I know my gf ex.....

On the 20th of sept she posted on her Facebook wishing the Ex a happy bday in adv and uploading his picture tagging her close friends too....

She was in my house of the 22nd and during the cause of our discussion i told her that i saw her post of her ex on the facebook page.. That is wasnt really nice. Mind u, i said it in a matured and friendly way.

Fast forward to 25th, on her facebook page, i saw she posted the guys pikture double dis time, wishing him a happy bday tagging her close friends also, i also went ahead to check her whatsap status... She also posted his picture there...

Guys dis pissed me off...
I asked a few female colleagues and friends they all gave thier opinion thats either they are fucking, or theyre back togeda, or they are planning and hoping to get back togeda...

But all the same, i felt insulted for the fact that i told her of my displeasure before...

Guys, be sincere, put urself in ma shoes, And im about to break up with her...

Shes been begging since yesteday. But my heart is stoned, i feel shes fake....

Guys, im i over reacting.... What do u advise...

So u think u are the only one screwing her abi?
Think again

You really need to free your babe. This is what gave me cold frets about my relation of over 4yrs.
He started feeling insecure and suspects me each time he calls and I fail to pick or sends a message and I fail to reply.he even calls to ask me to tell him if I'm cheating on him. I've never cheated on him not because of him though, but because I don't liken it when people jump from one relationship to another. I have better things to do that think about who to cheat with.
He even gets jealous of my girl friend cos we spend a lot of time together. We don't live in the same city but each time I tell him I'm with my girlfriend hé feels bad about it. Recently I've been thinking of cheating but I told myself no one Wil push me into doing what I don't want to do


What I'm trying to say is that when you display insecurity I a relationship, he kills it because you will start counting things you shuldnt count and cause your partner unjustly. So op, if you love her, give her some breathing space but if you don't love her, end the relationship and and stop pushing her to go and cheat by always monitoring her.

Why are you killing yourself over her ex?

But seriously what's wrong with people and getting mad over their partner's ex. I hate it when someone is being unnecessarily insecure.

I couldn't care less about my partner's ex, wetin join me and her? so far they are no longer together, it shouldn't bother you and yes I know some ladies are not over their ex and you won't blame them, their ex might be better than the current one.