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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 10:35pm On Sep 27, 2017
Does he have a bvn grin
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 10:37pm On Sep 27, 2017
Another thing to consider is "is he a Chelsea fan?"

Cos Chelsea fans are usually very arrogant and won't make good husbands cheesy

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by xpectme(m): 10:43pm On Sep 27, 2017
dis topic weak me
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by MustiizRaja(m): 10:44pm On Sep 27, 2017
wizard007:


God help you, you get hooked to a woman like my ex, that's the beginning of your woes, babe likes soccer as almost as I do, at a point her interest was above mine, y'all need to go out more and meet people and stop the stereotyping of gender on some issues.

haba we dey fight before
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Sixaxis: 10:44pm On Sep 27, 2017
List dis, list dat...

I tire oh..
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by ibkayee(f): 10:51pm On Sep 27, 2017
11. Are you married?

Date a Nigerian guy for like 6 months and when you find out he's actually married he will tell you you didn't ask

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by birdsview(m): 10:52pm On Sep 27, 2017
Seeing a husband is work enough..so now it's choosing? you,na who see go choose na
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by akaahs(m): 10:53pm On Sep 27, 2017
Evaberry:
The only thing to check is

is he religious

does he have sense

is he a sexist/misogynist

is he business oriented

does he know how to save and manage money(cant have a husband who doesn't save it doesn't know how to manage our funds)

lastly does he like anime( I can't be watching anime and 1 human being will be complaining)
Dear i can save nd manage our found more than a bank manager bcause of this my gf broke up wit me can u pls take up her position?

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Cannicus: 10:56pm On Sep 27, 2017
ibkayee:
11. Are you married?

Date a Nigerian guy for like 6 months and when you find out he's actually married he will tell you you didn't ask


Bae, I'm not like that na.

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by verygudbadguy(m): 10:56pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:

This is funny, however, Lola was not after marriage but wealth; it's pellucid.
Wrong. Which wealth you dey talk about? No be dis same woman help their career, paid for their videos. How time flies!

Anyways, Lola's father was my customer when I was still with one of the old generation banks. He was a former Chevron staff and a CEO of an Oil servicing company in Lagos and PH. Need I tell you that whenever I smelt that Paco Rabane perf from a far distant, I always knew he was coming. He liked mint note to the extent that whenever he gave me TYS, I used to perceive his PR on it.

They were never average for a day. Lola always lived in Ikoyi. Psquare recently moved into PV and now, BI.

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by ibkayee(f): 10:57pm On Sep 27, 2017
Cannicus:


Bae, I'm not like that na.
Except you boo

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Myde4naija(m): 10:59pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:

This is funny, however, Lola was not after marriage but wealth; it's pellucid.
you can be too sure my dear
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Cannicus: 10:59pm On Sep 27, 2017
ibkayee:

Except you boo

kiss

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by ibkayee(f): 10:59pm On Sep 27, 2017

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by frankkydee(m): 11:04pm On Sep 27, 2017
ibkayee:
11. Are you married?

Date a Nigerian guy for like 6 months and when you find out he's actually married he will tell you you didn't ask







Speaking from experience,hmmmm.
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by goingape1: 11:08pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:
All right reserved.
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Dear prettiest,
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It is a good thing to decipher that prince charming if really he is husband material to avoid stumbling upon. There is this rampant saying that 'real men are difficult to find.' How true is this? Well, let's harness few things to check while choosing a male life partner, not just a male lover!
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1. Am I a side-chick? Yes, dear ladies, you should ascertain your stance in the relationship so as to discover what really he sees you as.
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2. What does he take me as? My dear, you might be an alternative to his boredom. Do check, check and check.
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3. Is he ready? Is he, really? Does his readiness register in your IQ? Is he financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually ready? Or is he just trying to fulfil all righteousness, from maybe his family or likewise?
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4. Are you ready? Suppose he is ready, are you, also? Are you looking up to married Amaka and also wants to be classified among the married? Are you jumping into marriage because of pressure? Maybe, because everyone is? Or perhaps, because you are of age? Don't compromise your future with mere thoughts.
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5. What does he do to earn a living? Dear dear, don't let expensive gifts blind you as it may turn expensive shit. Check what he does for a living? Many ladies feel reluctant in this area. But I tell you dear, you are feeling reluctant for your future.
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6. Where is he from? Does his people approve you? Do yours approve him? Do they? Check all these minors things to fuel your happiness, loveliest.
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7. Does he love you? If you think it doesn't matter, sooner or later, you will know it does.
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8. Do you love him? Please, always marry who you love and who could catch a grenade for you.
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9. Does he have what I call 'marriage maturity?' I mean, does he know what he is jumping into? Will he tomorrow turn you into a punching sack? Will he tomorrow throw you out of his house? Study him.
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10. Is he a drunk? Does he flirt? What are his bad characters? Figure these out! A drunk will make a bad companion. A flirt will still look outside for other skirts.
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Dear beautiful, dating failures are usually marriage failures. - Richie.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=372&st=0&#entry712
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many gorillas have checked this 10 things and still single chasing marriage men in desperado.

Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by ibkayee(f): 11:08pm On Sep 27, 2017
frankkydee:







Speaking from experience,hmmmm.
Nah bruh I'm always ahead of the game, speaking for my sisters out there in the struggle

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by frankkydee(m): 11:10pm On Sep 27, 2017
ibkayee:

Nah bruh I'm always ahead of the game, speaking for my sisters out there in the struggle







ok,lemme know one of them. she won't regret at all

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by bettercreature(m): 11:10pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:

This is funny, however, Lola was not after marriage but wealth; it's pellucid.
He wasn't rich when they started dating stop saying what you don't know

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Slayer2: 11:12pm On Sep 27, 2017
Evaberry:
The only thing to check is

is he religious

does he have sense

is he a sexist/misogynist

is he business oriented

does he know how to save and manage money(cant have a husband who doesn't save it doesn't know how to manage our funds)

lastly does he like anime( I can't be watching anime and 1 human being will be complaining)

I love and watch mostly naruto anime, boruto, boondocks, one piece, death note occasionally though.

What kind of animes do you watch?
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by okenwaa(m): 11:14pm On Sep 27, 2017
Rubbish post..

Is he financially buoyant??........i know a lady d@ married a guy after his youth service when he was still poorer than a church rat,2day d guy is a billionaire.

Don't accept expensive gifts from him,know what he does for a living.........He doesn't have money wahala,he has money wahala.
Make I hear say girls of nowadays no go run follow kidnapper,ritual killer or G-boy.

Don't marry him if he's a drunk.......my sister u go pass menopause. As naija keep face now,u no fit use clear eyes do anything unless say u no wan mk food d come house.
En supose dey shine eye naa with green bottle naa...If possible put am for en meal menu....6bottles of beer per day. 2bo' per meal.


This post is misleading....young ladies take note!!!
Unless you want to remain single forever.
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 27, 2017
onyeezeigbo:
na her destiny joor grin



So u think.


It's not her destiny.. Dont get it twisted.
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by goingape1: 11:19pm On Sep 27, 2017
okenwaa:
Rubbish post..

Is he financially buoyant??........i know a lady d@ married a guy after his youth service when he was still poorer than a church rat,2day d guy is a billionaire.

Don't accept expensive gifts from him,know what he does for a living.........He doesn't have money wahala,he has money wahala.
Make I hear say girls of nowadays no go run follow kidnapper,ritual killer or G-boy.

Don't marry him if he's a drunk.......my sister u go pass menopause. As naija keep face now,u no fit use clear eyes do anything unless say u no wan mk food d come house.
En supose dey shine eye naa with green bottle naa...If possible put am for en meal menu....6bottles of beer per day. 2bo' per meal.


This post is misleading....young ladies take note!!!
Unless you want to remain single forever.
that's why ritualist always use women for blood money!

Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by dirtyhokage(m): 11:19pm On Sep 27, 2017
Evaberry:
The only thing to check is

is he religious

does he have sense

is he a sexist/misogynist

is he business oriented

does he know how to save and manage money(cant have a husband who doesn't save it doesn't know how to manage our funds)

lastly does he like anime( I can't be watching anime and 1 human being will be complaining)
You talking bou me? Lol
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 27, 2017
bettercreature:
He wasn't rich when they started dating stop saying what you don't know




She knew they will be rich, cause they met after their first single which was sponsored by jude and became a hit back then. Thats how their successes and fame grew. Then her company hired the twins for ttheir end of year party. She saw the star in him and clinged on peter like a leech.
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by cashmyles: 11:25pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:

This is funny, however, Lola was not after marriage but wealth; it's pellucid.

Wealth? Do a little research about Lola

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by bettercreature(m): 11:33pm On Sep 27, 2017
alexialin:





She knew they will be rich, cause they met after their first single which was sponsored by jude and became a hit back then. Thats how their successes and fame grew. Then her company hired the twins for ttheir end of year party. She saw the star in him and clinged on peter like a leech.

And what can you say about the gold digging Paul and Jude's wife

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by anthonyuncle(m): 11:36pm On Sep 27, 2017
dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself
Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by anthonyuncle(m): 11:36pm On Sep 27, 2017
dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself dey dia dey check us, have u checked urself

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Kayceenaz(m): 11:37pm On Sep 27, 2017
chatinent:
All right reserved.
.
Dear prettiest,
.
It is a good thing to decipher that prince charming if really he is husband material to avoid stumbling upon. There is this rampant saying that 'real men are difficult to find.' How true is this? Well, let's harness few things to check while choosing a male life partner, not just a male lover!
.
1. Am I a side-chick? Yes, dear ladies, you should ascertain your stance in the relationship so as to discover what really he sees you as.
.
2. What does he take me as? My dear, you might be an alternative to his boredom. Do check, check and check.
.
3. Is he ready? Is he, really? Does his readiness register in your IQ? Is he financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually ready? Or is he just trying to fulfil all righteousness, from maybe his family or likewise?
.
4. Are you ready? Suppose he is ready, are you, also? Are you looking up to married Amaka and also wants to be classified among the married? Are you jumping into marriage because of pressure? Maybe, because everyone is? Or perhaps, because you are of age? Don't compromise your future with mere thoughts.
.
5. What does he do to earn a living? Dear dear, don't let expensive gifts blind you as it may turn expensive shit. Check what he does for a living? Many ladies feel reluctant in this area. But I tell you dear, you are feeling reluctant for your future.
.
6. Where is he from? Does his people approve you? Do yours approve him? Do they? Check all these minors things to fuel your happiness, loveliest.
.
7. Does he love you? If you think it doesn't matter, sooner or later, you will know it does.
.
8. Do you love him? Please, always marry who you love and who could catch a grenade for you.
.
9. Does he have what I call 'marriage maturity?' I mean, does he know what he is jumping into? Will he tomorrow turn you into a punching sack? Will he tomorrow throw you out of his house? Study him.
.
10. Is he a drunk? Does he flirt? What are his bad characters? Figure these out! A drunk will make a bad companion. A flirt will still look outside for other skirts.
.
.
Dear beautiful, dating failures are usually marriage failures. - Richie.
.
Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=372&st=0&#entry712
.
It is unfortunate that the most important factor was left out: Does he have a close rapport with his Maker? Is he born-again? Does God tell me (you have to learn to hear from Him) I'm indeed his missing rib? A man that loves and fears God would hardly cheat on you, keep you as a side-chick, or delude you. He already has an alarm system within in addition to his honour for you that is not limited to time or distance, which checkmates his excesses. So getting answers in the affirmative to these questions raised would cause the aforementioned "things to check" to naturally follow. The man of your dreams is out there; finding him is a function of letting the Almighty God, who sees the end from the beginning, to guide you.

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Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by Nobody: 11:37pm On Sep 27, 2017
bettercreature:
And what can you say about the gold digging Paul and Jude's wife




Paul wife? They met and were dating in school when Paul has not even started his music career. She was with Paul even before psquare was created.

Then Jude wife? cheesy

Jude married a beauty queen. You cant blame him. Everyman has his own tastes. And Jude prefers a beauty queen as a wife.. Na him money dey talk. No woman will reject a rich loyal caring guy.

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