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Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 30, 2017
everyone keeps talking about wanting a partner who is intelligent. Please if you belong to this category of people who want intelligent partners, what's your definition of this intelligence? like how do you determine if someone's intelligent or not

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Niyeal(m): 3:43pm On Sep 30, 2017
The use of common sense

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by ArchEnemy(m): 3:44pm On Sep 30, 2017
Niyeal:
The use of common sense
smiley

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by ArchEnemy(m): 3:47pm On Sep 30, 2017
Simple
By having a conversation you can tell if people are intelligent
You don't want the frustration of having to explain yourself repeatedly

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 30, 2017
ArchEnemy:
Simple
By having a conversation you can tell if people are intelligent
You don't want the frustration of having to explain yourself repeatedly

just a conversation? what kind of conversation?
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by jeyselassie(m): 4:00pm On Sep 30, 2017
Sholaqe:
everyone keeps talking about wanting a partner who is intelligent. Please if you belong to this category of people who want intelligent partners, what's your definition of this intelligence? like how do you determine if someone's intelligent or not
well I'm not in that school of thought but intelligence in this context is someone who is smarter and won't stress with trivial issues. Also it's essential to get someone intelligent so that one's IQ can be boosted and also one avoids making mistakes. It's more like saving you time and money going for counselling.through conversations and tests.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by purem(m): 4:16pm On Sep 30, 2017
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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 30, 2017
So this is your way of looking for intelligent guys, using reverse psychology grin

. Everyone claims to be intelligent because in reality most of us have average intelligence, although some use theirs than others

It is easy to spot those that use their brain effectively...you can tell from the way they speak...their actions...their judgments...their capacity to comprehend...

Don't get me wrong we have gifted people among us... but very few genius

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 4:26pm On Sep 30, 2017
Sholaqe:
everyone keeps talking about wanting a partner who is intelligent. Please if you belong to this category of people who want intelligent partners, what's your definition of this intelligence? like how do you determine if someone's intelligent or not
Don't be decieved, no lady wants an intelligent guy, just someone who acts like it. most Intelligent guys aren't like what you get on prison break or kel xy.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by adepeter2027(m): 4:28pm On Sep 30, 2017
Application of Common sense which is not common tho

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by ArchEnemy(m): 4:28pm On Sep 30, 2017
Sholaqe:


just a conversation? what kind of conversation?
Just move from topic to topic
Ask questions because we are not all grooved in a particular topic
Eg...asking someone about politics may make them look dumb but they may be good with geography.
Even about their job and stuffs

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by speedyGonzales: 4:31pm On Sep 30, 2017
It is just another nonsense criteria that dumb people say to attract brilliant and successful people that they can leech off. Stay away from people that say dumb things in a bit to appear sophisticated, especially women!

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by TheControversy: 4:38pm On Sep 30, 2017
Intelligence can be contextual. Academic intelligence or intelligence in terms of Rationality and logical thinking. Some academically intelligent people are not rational and can make poor life decisions or may simply be very difficult to reason with (over sabi ). On the other hand some rational people are not academically inclined but can reason and handle situations logically. They may also posses a wealth of knowledge and wisdom in certain areas.

So it depends.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by GoldNiagara(m): 4:57pm On Sep 30, 2017
Sholaqe:
everyone keeps talking about wanting a partner who is intelligent. Please if you belong to this category of people who want intelligent partners, what's your definition of this intelligence? like how do you determine if someone's intelligent or not


Guy calm yourself intelligence attract intelligence, intelligent people magnet intelligent people, water always find its level!

Only slow people and wannabe cry for it. Intelligent people are not usually guys with great body, abs and deliciously fine body and they are not concerned with slaying for the female. They are boring, weird and unattractive in reality to slay queens and kings.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by daryoor(m): 6:13pm On Sep 30, 2017
When someone is informed, open minded and very thoughtful, those traits are attractive. Although shallow people will not value such traits, all they want to see is money and cars.

If u spend time with a mathematician, he might bore you to death, but if you spend time with an informed, cultured individual with depth, you might soend weeks or year thinking about their thoughts and opinion.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by tosyne2much(m): 6:21pm On Sep 30, 2017
Hmmm
Observing comments
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by tosyne2much(m): 6:23pm On Sep 30, 2017
daryoor:
When someone is informed, open minded and very thoughtful, those traits are attractive. Although shallow people will not value such traits, all they want to see is money and cars.

If u spend time with a mathematician, he might bore you to death, but if you spend time with an informed, cultured individual with depth, you might soend weeks or year thinking about their thoughts and opinion.
Respect sir

Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Rukkydelta(f): 6:27pm On Sep 30, 2017
daryoor:
When someone is informed, open minded and very thoughtful, those traits are attractive. Although shallow people will not value such traits, all they want to see is money and cars.

If u spend time with a mathematician, he might bore you to death, but if you spend time with an informed, cultured individual with depth, you might soend weeks or year thinking about their thoughts and opinion.
I love this
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Rukkydelta(f): 6:28pm On Sep 30, 2017
TheControversy:
Intelligence can be contextual. Academic intelligence or intelligence in terms of Rationality and logical thinking. Some academically intelligent people are not rational and can make poor life decisions or may simply be very difficult to reason with (over sabi ). On the other hand some rational people are not academically inclined but can reason and handle situations logically. They may also posses a wealth of knowledge and wisdom in certain areas.

So it depends.
Exactly
Nice one
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Kimcutie: 6:30pm On Sep 30, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I love this
Seconded.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 8:18pm On Sep 30, 2017
Niyeal:
The use of common sense




God bless you!
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Sep 30, 2017
More often than not when people say intelligent they actually mean witty. I sometimes find it tedious maintaining prolonged conversations with people (especially ladies) because majority of Nigerians limit themselves to reading textbooks, religious/motivational/history books or newspapers. That's for the people that read at all. These days my conversations revolve around "have you eaten" and "what did you eat" to avoid being called a weirdo.

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 30, 2017
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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Sep 30, 2017
Sholaqe:
everyone keeps talking about wanting a partner who is intelligent. Please if you belong to this category of people who want intelligent partners, what's your definition of this intelligence? like how do you determine if someone's intelligent or not

For most guys, intelligence=huge round extraneous boobs and large spread-sheet like ass
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 30, 2017
it's the new trend among peeps now ladies in particular.......
everyone is intelligent in their own way
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 30, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I love this

Am informed and cultured, can we meet on a date? Whats your location
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Sep 30, 2017
sunshineG:
So this is your way of looking for intelligent guys, using reverse psychology grin

. Everyone claims to be intelligent because in reality most of us have average intelligence, although some use theirs than others

It is easy to spot those that use their brain effectively...you can tell from the way they speak...their actions...their judgments...their capacity to comprehend...

Don't get me wrong we have gifted people among us... but very few genius

U wan show urself abi?

Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 30, 2017
ugoswaggz:


U wan show urself abi?
bro I was only offering simple explanation to the question posted by the op....I think you should offer yours too
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Heloct(f): 9:18pm On Sep 30, 2017
TheControversy:
Intelligence can be contextual. Academic intelligence or intelligence in terms of Rationality and logical thinking. Some academically intelligent people are not rational and can make poor life decisions or may simply be very difficult to reason with (over sabi ). On the other hand some rational people are not academically inclined but can reason and handle situations logically. They may also posses a wealth of knowledge and wisdom in certain areas.

So it depends.

Hmm.

Intelligence..
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:25pm On Sep 30, 2017
sunshineG:
bro I was only offering simple explanation to the question posted by the op....I think you should offer yours too

Naaa
I think u are trying to impress her with words, but that won't work because she's not even smart enough to be witted off feet, but this would

Besides a more direct approach will draw her attention to u...good luck
Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 30, 2017
ugoswaggz:


Naaa
I think u are trying to impress her with words, but that won't work because she's not even smart enough to be witted off feet, but this would

Besides a more direct approach will draw her attention to u...good luck
bro honestly there are comments that used better words than mine. There are comments that are more informed than mine.. I don't know why you think I was the one trying to impress her...

Why will I want to impress a faceless girl?

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Re: Everyone Keeps Talking About Wanting A Partner Who Is Intelligent!! by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 30, 2017
sunshineG:
bro honestly there are comments that used better words than mine. There are comments that are more informed than mine.. I don't know why you think I was the one trying to impress her...

Why will I want to impress a faceless girl?



Are u really asking that question bro?
Because ur a perv just like most guys, we clamour for any faceless thing answering a female name

I remember "2go" days when i used to get free rechange card just for changing my room name to a fmale name ���

U know we're alike i also challenge my mind, cough out thought provoking theories and use old vocabularies from the old greek dictionary at the sight of girls just to impress them and i always did.
I actually made a first class not because i dreamt of it but because of this "insecurity" i had about girls losing interest in me or getting bored with me, just like ur average dog acts out of fear-aggression...so ur not alone bro don't sweat

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