I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now. We really love each other as things went on and we got to know each other better. She had Lil problems with trust issues so she initially found it difficult to trust me. We are presently schooling in different schools and we don't live in the same city as well. As times went by, she soon found out about my faithfulness, honesty and loyalty which made her love me the more. I trusted her and believed that she would reciprocate the same measure of honesty and loyalty that I've shown her over the times. She gave me enough reasons to trust her, of which I didn't hesitate. We kept having good times not until things went sour during the last ASUU strike when she visited me. I randomly went through her facebook chats and lo and behold I came across this mess - it was a chat between her and another guy. They were into stuffs like real stuffs. I immediately called her and showed her the chat. Her excuse was that it was during my exams she had to hook up with the dude due to the fact that she couldn't get enough of my attention as at then. God of mercy. She broke up with him by sending him a text in my presence. I sent her off but she kept begging me in tears until I considered things as a mature guy and forgave her. Since I accepted her back, she has been trying to cook up things that are far beyond my understanding. Each time she gets me pissed off and I complain she would relate it to that issue of the past, instead of apologizing. She would then try to blame me for referring to the past, of which I never had in mind. I tried my very best to make her understand this but she wouldn't. She would seldom complain about me not trusting and loving her anymore. We now have issues on a daily basis, and it pisses me off big time. Please guys, what do you really think is the best way out. Thanks.

If you're not comfortable in a relationship, Leave.

seems your relationship can't stand a test of time,,,,once there is mistrust in relationship, obviously the relationship will head to no where...

Khallyella:
If you're not comfortable in a relationship, Leave.

Thanks.

Better quite before its too late

adajoe555:
Better quite before its too late

wish ur self worst thing

You trusted her and invested your love,trust and faithfulness on her,yet she cheated on you.giving a silly excuse that it was because you were too occupy writing your exams .what happens tomorrow if you guys get married and you travel abroad for business trip?. A cheat will forever be a cheat. Just use her for money ritual

Point of correction "never love these hoes" and never "stay faithful" to a hoe no matter how much love she professes to u. Cheat on them and never trust them.
Am sure u realise how stupid u felt knowing you've been sticking ur dick in one cunt while she's been fvcking every tom dick and harry. Don't leave her or send her packing...just go get another hoe and start fvcking that hoe...then on to the next hoe...when she finds out u cheating and don't have her time anymore, she'll probably have a 4.5 magnitude heartquake which could result in suicide or madness. In the end u win.
Next time use ur head!

Walai talai mofe chache

Yahooboi:
Walai talai mofe chache

lol

It's d end of d road for ur rltnshp, or u have to drop out of school since u can't write exams again without her cheating. Lemme take idiyat to Molete.

FreddyKruger:
Point of correction "never love these hoes" and never "stay faithful" to a hoe no matter how much love she professes to u. Cheat on them and never trust them.
Am sure u realise how stupid u felt knowing you've been sticking ur dick in one cunt while she's been fvcking every tom dick and harry. Don't leave her or send her packing...just go get another hoe and start fvcking that hoe...then on to the next hoe...when she finds out u cheating and don't have her time anymore, she'll probably have a 4.5 magnitude heartquake which could result in suicide or madness. In the end u win.
Next time use ur head!

smh

Trust is a very delicate thing,like a glass if broken it can never fit in again, U can forgive but U can never forget and as a human U might be looking for an opportunity to revenge but the truth is that if U let love her sit her down and speak to her,tell U have forgotten what she did but it must not repeat itself and live a "patched life" but the if U don't love her that much let her go

I dnt waste time dumping a cheat, the moment i discover any act of unfaithfulness in them i dump them straight away no sentiment. It is hard most times bt that is the hard way bt the only way. I cn tolerate anything frm a woman for a very long time bt nt cheating, that one is instant dumping

profolaolu:
Trust is a very delicate thing,like a glass if broken it can never fit in again, U can forgive but U can never forget and as a human U might be looking for an opportunity to revenge but the truth is that if U let love her sit her down and speak to her,tell U have forgotten what she did but it must not repeat itself and live a "patched life" but the if U don't love her that much let her go

Thanks man

I can't be in a Rship with girl I don't trust....

The truth is even if she likes let her crawl on her feet, you cant trust her again. Forgiveness and trust are two different things.

Final verdit. Since you dont have plan to be with her forever, quit now
There is a crack already. I'm speaking from experience.

End it now!

Ur in school . instead make u dey think of ur GP or lofe after school. U carry woman matter for head. Weak guys everywhere

yeyerolling:
Ur in school . instead make u dey think of ur GP or lofe after school. U carry woman matter for head. Weak guys everywhere

And who told you am a weak guy.. What's your definition of weakness oga..ur talking to a hardhearted nigga. But I use my brain in treating pple with hardness. My g.p isn't suffering either. Am a strong two one guy in mech engine bruh

betwithblaze:

And who told you am a weak guy.. What's your definition of weakness oga..ur talking to a hardhearted nigga. But I use my brain in treating pple with hardness. My g.p isn't suffering either. Am a strong two one guy in mech engine bruh

a weak guy is a guy who caught his babe cheating , stayed and still receiving bull Sh.it from her. Dump her ass or turn her to side chick. Gals plenty to dey tolerate hoes. Wat about d guys she fuks wey no dey facebook?. Give her number to one of ur bad guy friends and seee if he no fo fuk am too

trust women at your own peril, love with your heart not brain bro.
give her space for sometime.

Khallyella:
If you're not comfortable in a relationship, Leave.

why did you refuse to respond to my mail?

BabyApple:
why did you refuse to respond to my mail?

is it by force

yeyerolling:
is it by force

Who is this?

Once tryst is broken it's like fighting a loosing battle ..
You seem like you got your sh!t together.. please don't let on woman bring u down
Move on .. if it is meant to be you will find each other again .. for now your relationship needs a break .. she hasn't forgiven herself you know why ? Cause she wanted to cheat .. don't be a fool

Khallyella:
If you're not comfortable in a relationship, Leave.

u get sense jare..

cheat twice, you cheat forever

dude the ball is in your court

Shebi it is headache she is giving you... My ex nearly sent me to hell

The truth is, you can never trust her again. There shouldn't be an excuse for cheating, and she could do it over and over again. Leave her, she doesn't deserve you

How to Approach a Girl For The First Time And Win her Over
Do you want to talk to a girl you don’t know? Here are few sure fire ways on how to approach a girl that will definitely help you make a great first impression.
Many guys find it difficult approaching a lady which I will say shouldn’t be. Most guys approach ladies but with the wrong methodology and this is why they get a NO for an answer.
There are certain things to put in place via observation and study of the lady in question. Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in icy water.
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But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world.
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How to approach a girl you don’t know Forget pick up lines, forget bumping into her, and every other *smart* move you’ve heard.
I’ll teach you to keep it simple, and help you win her heart even before you say‘hello’. Here’s the only tip that matters and you need to remember it for the rest of your dating life. Always let the girl know you want to talk to her before you even talk to her. Don’t make the mistake of approaching a girl out of the blue and asking her out. It almost always never works, unless you’re a smooth talker with the gift of gab.
If you’re a regular joe who wants to turn into a chick magnet, just follow these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
1. Getting her attention :
You need to let the girl know you’re going to approach her. So warm her up to that idea to begin with by using these steps.
I) Glance at her.
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III) Appear awkward.
If you’re with your friends, look at her now and then, but appear like your distracted and not able to focus on the conversation you’re having with your friends. By doing that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery!
IV) Smile at her.
Exchange eye contact now and then, one or two times every minute and no more than that, and when you feel pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a second, and let her notice your smile.
Don’t give her a big grin though, a malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
These moves are all about building the connection and letting her know you’re interested in her. And at the same time, it’ll also help you understand if she too is really interested in you. If she responds to your gestures similarly, it’s a sign that she’s interested in talking to you too. But if she starts ignoring you at any point here, she’s probably not interested in you and you need to make your luck somewhere else.
2. How to start talking to the girl
Now that you’ve built the attraction and the chemistry, all you need to do is walk up to her and say something. Use these tips to approach her and start the right conversation.
V) Waiting for the moment.
Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl to give you a chance to talk to her. If she’s really interested in you and wants to talk to you, she’d create enough opportunities for you to walk up to her. She could do this by walking to the ladies room alone, stepping away from her friends by answering a phone call, or even by just smiling at you and leaving the place.
It’s always easier to talk to a girl when she’s by herself. There are no distractions from her friends or awkward moments because she’s already expecting you to approach her. [Read: Things you can say to a girl while talking to her for the first time]