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Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by eneazi(f): 12:22pm On Oct 02, 2017
For some years now men having side chicks has been on the increase. There are movies, songs and books on being the other woman. With this you'll think a man would stick to one woman and make it known if he is already with someone. Instead they have advanced and grown clever concealing their side chick from their girlfriends and wives. Here are some few signs that he is actually in a relationship with some else... Read More..... http://eneazi..com.ng/2017/10/signs-that-you-are-actually-his-side.html

Re: Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 02, 2017
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I was quite interested about ur thread so i clicked it & i was like....

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Re: Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by ULSHERLAN(m): 12:56pm On Oct 02, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
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I was quite interested about ur thread so i clicked it & i was like....

"Uhu..aha..oooh yeaaah! That's right grin"


Same here

I was interested in the topic only to click and find out that
Re: Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by FreshGreenLemon: 1:04pm On Oct 02, 2017
ULSHERLAN:


Same here

I was interested in the topic only to click and find out that
IamKashyBaby:
smiley

I was quite interested about ur thread so i clicked it & i was like....

"Uhu..aha..oooh yeaaah! That's right grin"


Let me help you guys lol

Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick

October 02, 2017

For some years now guys having side chick has been on the increase. There are movies, songs and even books about being the other woman. With this you think men would stick to one girl and make it known if they have someone already. Instead they have advanced and grown clever in concealing their side chick from their girlfriend or wife. You get to see men with beautiful and accomplished partners straying. With the rise in the main chick side chick drama you'll think every woman has learnt the act of protecting her territory, but there are many ladies that are ignorant in relationships with married, engaged men this is because the little detail that should have been taken serious is ignored. I see you're in relationship, but with the current situation you are beginning to doubt your man's loyalty, his attention is always divided when he is with you. Hold up a second are you thinking what I'm thinking? Is it possible you're not what you think you are to him? But his side chick?

Here are few signs that he is actually in a relationship with someone else.


He Disrespects You in Public.

If he talks down to you in public or gets unnecessarily angry over something you did before his friends, and begin to raise his voice at you without a second thought that you are in public this is a definite red flag- what you have to know is a man who loves you and sees you as his number one girl will never ill treat you before his friends or family, but will rather wait until you are both alone.


Frequent Unanswered Calls

If he is fond of ignoring your calls, rejecting them, and end up not returning your calls or maybe send a text after some while explaining how busy he was at the time you called, and repeats this from time to time if this is not a sign that you are his side chick then i don't know what else is. Probably because he was spending time with his main chick.


He Prefers to Stay Indoor When You are Together

If your man always insist on you both staying indoor whenever you go to visit him, but he gets to talk about some fun places he visited with his friends in your absence or you get to see pictures posted online this is a major indicator. There is a difference between a guy that is an indoor person and one who is trying to act like a home boy whenever you are around.


He Refuse to Show Affection in Public

When he finally go against his "no hang out" principle and decides to take you out he doesn't touch you in public, and when you grab his hand he pulls away, never shows you off to his family and friends this could be a sign that you are his side chick -his action gives him plenty room to lie to his main chick about you if she mistakenly bumps into him.


If Your Name is Saved on his Phone in a Funny Way

If you have his name saved on your phone with the sweetest word and all you get when you finally check to see what he saved yours with is some funny word probably related to how you met, or what you do for a living or maybe just your name attached with funny words. That is a give away sign.


He is Eager to End Your Conversation on Phone

When you speak to your man on phone and he speaks to you in a formal way without addressing you directly or with your name, and he runs off and hangs up on you from no where before your conversation ends from time to time this is probably because the main chick is in the territory. And you are the side chick, this darling! Is a definite red flag.


He Grows Distance And Want You Gone After Sex

As couples get comfortable with each other they tend to spend more time at each other's place after sex. However if he grows distant, and avoids you like a plague after sex or makes sure you don't stay over at his place this is a sign girl.


Loss of Communication

There is a serious problem if your man goes mute, disappears or even breaks communication with you for no good reason and shows up after some while. If you are the person always calling, and he calls once in a blue moon. This is a major indicator that you are his side chick.


If You are the Only one always Posting His Pictures

If all you do is post his pictures on Facebook, Instagram, and he has never posted any of your picture, but rather post that of a particular lady, and when you ask him he comes up with the "she is my cousin" or "she is my childhood friend" defence, and has never asked for a selfie with you, if he doesn't have a picture of you but you see pictures of other girls. Chances are he has another life.


He Gets Unserious Whenever You Try To Talk About Your
Future

If he has never included you in his future plans, and even when you start to talk about building a future together he ignores you or comes up with a huge to do list like that of Cinderalla before settling down, it is because he wants you only as his side chick. Be careful if he has never used the word "we" when he finally gets to talk about the future.

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Re: Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 02, 2017
FreshGreenLemon:


Let me help you out guys lol

Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick

October 02, 2017

For some years now guys having side chick has been on the increase. There are movies, songs and even books about being the other woman. With this you think men would stick to one girl and make it known if they have someone already. Instead they have advanced and grown clever in concealing their side chick from their girlfriend or wife. You get to see men with beautiful and accomplished partners straying. With the rise in the main chick side chick drama you'll think every woman has learnt the act of protecting her territory, but there are many ladies that are ignorant in relationships with married, engaged men this is because the little detail that should have been taken serious is ignored. I see you're in relationship, but with the current situation you are beginning to doubt your man's loyalty, his attention is always divided when he is with you. Hold up a second are you thinking what I'm thinking? Is it possible you're not what you think you are to him? But his side chick?

Here are few signs that he is actually in a relationship with someone else.


He Disrespects You in Public.

If he talks down to you in public or gets unnecessarily angry over something you did before his friends, and begin to raise his voice at you without a second thought that you are in public this is a definite red flag- what you have to know is a man who loves you and sees you as his number one girl will never ill treat you before his friends or family, but will rather wait until you are both alone.


Frequent Unanswered Calls

If he is fond of ignoring your calls, rejecting them, and end up not returning your calls or maybe send a text after some while explaining how busy he was at the time you called, and repeats this from time to time if this is not a sign that you are his side chick then i don't know what else is. Probably because he was spending time with his main chick.


He Prefers to Stay Indoor When You are Together

If your man always insist on you both staying indoor whenever you go to visit him, but he gets to talk about some fun places he visited with his friends in your absence or you get to see pictures posted online this is a major indicator. There is a difference between a guy that is an indoor person and one who is trying to act like a home boy whenever you are around.


He Refuse to Show Affection in Public

When he finally go against his "no hang out" principle and decides to take you out he doesn't touch you in public, and when you grab his hand he pulls away, never shows you off to his family and friends this could be a sign that you are his side chick -his action gives him plenty room to lie to his main chick about you if she mistakenly bumps into him.


If Your Name is Saved on his Phone in a Funny Way

If you have his name saved on your phone with the sweetest word and all you get when you finally check to see what he saved yours with is some funny word probably related to how you met, or what you do for a living or maybe just your name attached with funny words. That is a give away sign.


He is Eager to End Your Conversation on Phone

When you speak to your man on phone and he speaks to you in a formal way without addressing you directly or with your name, and he runs off and hangs up on you from no where before your conversation ends from time to time this is probably because the main chick is in the territory. And you are the side chick, this darling! Is a definite red flag.


He Grows Distance And Want You Gone After Sex

As couples get comfortable with each other they tend to spend more time at each other's place after sex. However if he grows distant, and avoids you like a plague after sex or makes sure you don't stay over at his place this is a sign girl.


Loss of Communication

There is a serious problem if your man goes mute, disappears or even breaks communication with you for no good reason and shows up after some while. If you are the person always calling, and he calls once in a blue moon. This is a major indicator that you are his side chick.


If You are the Only one always Posting His Pictures

If all you do is post his pictures on Facebook, Instagram, and he has never posted any of your picture, but rather post that of a particular lady, and when you ask him he comes up with the "she is my cousin" or "she is my childhood friend" defence, and has never asked for a selfie with you, if he doesn't have a picture of you but you see pictures of other girls. Chances are he has another life.


He Gets Unserious Whenever You Try To Talk About Your
Future

If he has never included you in his future plans, and even when you start to talk about building a future together he ignores you or comes up with a huge to do list like that of Cinderalla before settling down, it is because he wants you only as his side chick. Be careful if he has never used the word "we" when he finally gets to talk about the future.


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Yaaaz! I read thru and thru ooo..I learned some few tips and its worth it cheesy

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Re: Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick by eneazi(f): 8:14am On Oct 04, 2017
Thanks Fresh lemon for sharing the entire post

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