₦airaland Forum

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Some "feminists" want to have their cake and eat it at the same time!

They want to be "independent" when it suits them, and dependent when it's to their own benefit.

These set of female baboons do not give 2 shiits about values, principles and morality as they would want to have you believe. They're animalistic idiots that are after nothing but their nakked self-interest, and we do whatever they find convenient to achieve that end, no matter how contradictory, paradoxical and hypocritical.

andrejoe:
It depends on your kind of wife, most Nigerian women (not all ) have a wide range of wants they considered needs, if for instance you are married to a woman that when ever she is aware you have money what comes to her mind is spending such women will never allow you to do proper planning and investment. It is important u dont do a joint account with herelse u will be blamed for not planning for the future of your family.
Few Nigerian women in our generation can help you to plan for the future, if you are lucky to get such as a wife you can even decide to save all your salarues in her account.
I personally fall in the first category of men with such women, as a friend would say "we dont have women like our mothers again".

uk10:
yes that is exactly what we will do,since u women can't even trust us with ur money too

supersystemsnig:
You spoke well... But the feminist part though...

uk10:
I don't have a problem with her taking my money or saying my money is ours,as long she remains submissive ,as in VERY SUBMISSIVE.I know the feminist will come for me,I'm waiting.

Blueberrie:
Just being curious... whats your definition of a submissive wife?

Blueberrie:
Haha feminism is quite good for society. I just think most women and men misunderstand what it even advocates for.

andrejoe:
It depends on your kind of wife, most Nigerian women (not all ) have a wide range of wants they considered needs, if for instance you are married to a woman that when ever she is aware you have money what comes to her mind is spending such women will never allow you to do proper planning and investment. It is important u dont do a joint account with herelse u will be blamed for not planning for the future of your family.
Few Nigerian women in our generation can help you to plan for the future, if you are lucky to get such as a wife you can even decide to save all your salarues in her account.
I personally fall in the first category of men with such women, as a friend would say "we don't have women like our mothers again".

kilokeys:
Reason I broke up with an ex.. Like. Wtf.. She can't even tell me how much she earns.. Says it's not my business. But she knows mine.

Divay22:
It should work both ways
It's our money, either mine or his.Joint account i see no issue with it if you trust your partner, we're just saving for the rainy day.
Joint account equal joint signature.
You can't have access to the money without my signature, same with me not having access without your signature...One just need to have an understanding partner and money won't be a biggie.

gabinogem:
As long as marriage institution is concerned, men will always be the breadwinner... It's his responsibity to provide for the household, why his wife assist in any little way she can. Unless you decide never to go into such institution, then you can start thinking of sharing responsibility 50/50.

majekoam:
What does it advocate for?

gabinogem:
If a man is open in his marriage, I don't see how finance will be a big issue between him & his wife...except the wife is only being demonic

EgunMogaji:
Thank you. I'm glad you enjoy my writings.

More to come, so keep following dutifully

CEEcey:


A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

chiraqDemon:
It's a world where women want to be independent or be treated equally with men, that means y'all start bringing 50/50 to the table don't u agree?

MhizzAJ:
I don't think i can even operate a joint account

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Notatribalist:
A Ghanian? What are u doing n Nairaland?

supersystemsnig:
I agree. How can one be married and use the word " independent " under any circumstance. Some people are a product of their flawed upbringing and terrible grooming. [color=darkblue]When they start visiting saloons and start sharing the gist that demons from hell supply them there, they start developing crazy concepts that ends up putting them to misery[/color]

supersystemsnig:
God bless you again, this is it, the oneness... Financial seperated-ness threatens the oneness in the union..

RomeoEmpire:
Please will you marry me? You are the chosen one for me.

ijeoma28:
my dear ask older couple especially the women I guess you will never want to operate a joint account when married especially if you marry a wicked and cunning man. my grandfather warned against it.

ijeoma28:
my dear ask older couples especially the women I guess you will never want to operate a joint account when married especially if you marry a wicked and cunning man. my grandfather warned against it.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
You need a revaluation of these warped values of yours.

Is this what you think of your mother and sister(s)?

GrandFinale2017:
i'm only trying to alighn with the Religion of Islam's view on women which buttresses my assertions that women are slaves