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Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Ramanto(m): 4:50pm On Oct 06, 2017
Even students go into it
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Oyindidi(f): 4:50pm On Oct 06, 2017
Does he have erection?
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Stevengerd(m): 4:51pm On Oct 06, 2017
Another Broke niggas tale again. let him be an Hustleprenuer.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by PDPGuy: 4:52pm On Oct 06, 2017
Only if he has plans and a goal to make money one way or another, either via a job or start-up. Same applies to a woman who is jobless
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by feyimen: 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2017
in dave east voice in unforgettable... the Women will come later but get the cash first
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by cyberguy72(m): 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:
man why the rush? if you want sex outta the relationship get a steady olosho for 5h (it is ya choice) ... focus on ya hustle ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
relationships and their wahala can slow you down especially if you date a slay queen
you will spend ya capital plus ya profit to maintain the package

nigga FOCUS
true talk
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by malton:
In my own opinion, a jobless guy has no business going into a relationship. Well, depending on his ambitions.

If you're the kind that aspire to greatness of some sort, entering a relationship will either slow you down or kill off your zeal altogether. You go from focusing on growing yourself to exploring ways to spice up your relationship. The woman almost becomes the core of your being.

The desire to protect your new acquisition will make you less mobile, hence make securing a job much more difficult. That's assuming you're in a location where jobs are few and far between.

If you jam mami water nkor? Well, sorry for you! She will drag you through the mud and kill off the little self esteem that's left in you. There's a point beyond which it becomes hard to recover your mojo back to how it used to be.

Besides, for how long do you think a girl can put up with a broke guy in this age and time? It usually starts well, but even the most contented of all girls would want you to contribute something as your share of the joint activity you have been running every once in a while. Abi you think say her mileage go just dey run for nothing?

Most people often suggest getting a girl that'll love you for you whilst you're broke. But boy, it doesn't end well most of the time. One of you is bound to end up seeing the other as having wasted their time.

I cited all of the above under the assumption that you're after a serious relationship. If otherwise, disregard.

People are different. But that special one you seek is hard to find.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Odunharry(m): 4:54pm On Oct 06, 2017
What kinda question is this? If a jobless lady can go into a relationship, why can't a jobless guy do same??
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by theapeman: 4:54pm On Oct 06, 2017
Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.
my nigga! instead of going into a relationship I advise you to fvck them those biitchs and throwaway and hustle your life.

you got nothing to lose in this case


this era is not the era of going into a relationship with one piece of shiit of a woman who will give you headache or rather put all her problem into you undecided

this is the era of seeing women as piece of shiit
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by onyxo76(m): 4:55pm On Oct 06, 2017
By jobless you mean that he has no source of income abi?
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by bigpicture001: 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2017
the answer will b beat explained by the guy after he must have seen a lot of shit from ALL the ladies he tries to date
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by theapeman: 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2017
Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.
guy!
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nofuckgiven: 4:56pm On Oct 06, 2017
Ask those who put their eggs in one basket. undecided but who stopped the men from hustling like the female oloshos? huh
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 06, 2017
the mouth speaks from the abundance of the heart, you cant give what you dont have
L3G3ND:
lol cheesy cheesy Nigga if you judge me by what i post here and you get pained by whatever i put on here then you ae doing it at your detriment
find someone else to pick on grin grin
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by designVATExcel: 4:57pm On Oct 06, 2017
It's not even about the expectation of the girl (recharge card. Etc ) as you listed.

Your priority should be on being successful. Na by force to have girlfriend.
Because when you are successful buying cards, giving allowance and etc wouldn't be a problem. Only broke guys complain about their girl friends upkeep.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 06, 2017
At last I made front page!
Like for my online success oh!!!
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Papiikush: 5:02pm On Oct 06, 2017
hmmnn... Broke men should get hard-on. Lol
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Oct 06, 2017
A broke guy and a broke girl shouldn't be in a relationship!
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Oct 06, 2017
Only if the partner is understanding
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by tomdon(m): 5:05pm On Oct 06, 2017
Shey no be student de do relationship pass ni
You wey come be graduate de ask question
All these jamb questions sef
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Jagabanmonerry(m): 5:06pm On Oct 06, 2017
TheControversy:
You can, but don't expect your girl to be loyal and don't blame her if she leaves you for a rich working class guy later.
Depend on the type of though.... If u are mingle with Slay queen n expect her to be loyal, you are on long tin baba
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Ballack1(m): 5:09pm On Oct 06, 2017
relationship is not for broke /poor guy... thank me later
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Oct 06, 2017
Is he maddddt? A non-working buddy should not have a working preeq. dazall.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nymeria247(m): 5:12pm On Oct 06, 2017
Worry not dear OP. You are not alone. I am also a broke guy in a relationship with myself! grin
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by theapeman: 5:14pm On Oct 06, 2017
DrObum:
Why not?!

Are there no jobless girls?!
there are busy hustling for readymade guys while some due to the hustling has fall into the hands of ritualist

Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by AuroraB(f): 5:15pm On Oct 06, 2017
NO! NO!! and hell NO!!! angry
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by purityval(m): 5:19pm On Oct 06, 2017
The Fvck he is looking for there?
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Oct 06, 2017
AuroraB:
NO! NO!! and hell NO!!! angry
Are you in a relationship?
Do you have a job.?
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Oct 06, 2017
Op what do u need a girlfriend for in the first place? undecided

If you impregnate her nw, u will say it's mistake, let's abort, you know am still squating with friends. But how could u? I thought u were matured Not to allow yourself get pregnant? angry

You see your life?

You better forget about babes and go ye into the world and hustle like a man.

Abi don't u want to be financially Independent? undecided
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by kobijacobs(m): 5:22pm On Oct 06, 2017
everyone keeps talking like girls were created to be cared for with money. smart girls make their own money these days....only parasites look for guys to spend on them
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by lastempero: 5:24pm On Oct 06, 2017
Remember almost all our gals here are broke so when u join ur brokenness and that of the chick together,the friction that will emanate from that relationship can burn ur life.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by olaboy1: 5:25pm On Oct 06, 2017
Nothing new broda, people date every time irrespective of their financial status.

You will always find a girl that just likes you for who you are, it doesn't have to be money all the time. You can display your sexual market value in other ways apart from using money to influence love. Continue to be a better version of yourself and keep working towards your financial goals...no need to avoid dating all together.
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