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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Oct 06, 2017
No he shouldn't. He doesn't have money to buy feelings! grin
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by sisisioge: 6:41pm On Oct 06, 2017
No.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Chukazu: 6:46pm On Oct 06, 2017
The most important thing in a man's life is not woman but work

A woman is supposed to come and complement (help) you in doing your work... that's is the meaning of helper .

so what do want a woman for when you have nothing doing...want to frustrate her life or you want her to join hands and pray with you

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 6:52pm On Oct 06, 2017
When I was broke and jobless no woman wanted me.now that I work and rent a flat I have gotten used to being alone. I see no need for a GF.its just my laptop,movies,porn and music.

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Kachigifto3: 7:03pm On Oct 06, 2017
SweetWJ:
It all depends on the individual. Your definition of broke may not be the same as another person. To me being broke is not a condition but the state of the mind, what you have inside of you.
If the sustainability of any relationship is all about the physical properties, material things of this world, then it can not last. That's why there are so many broken relationships today because all that those things may not remain permanent. I think the best thing to look for in a person is;
1. True Mutual Love
2. Understanding.
3. What that person is planning for the future. Good prospects.
These are the values we should look for. They are worth more than all the money.
If a lady dumps you because she feels you are broke, then its up to you how you handle it. Nothing is permanent is this world.
not even our trouble

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 06, 2017
like i said, you cant say qhat youve never thought of, sorry about the suicide thought
L3G3ND:

lwkmd .. dude I am sitting staring at my pc screen and typing whatever I can so imagine and you are beating yasef about it? oya commit suicide naw grin grin grin
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Obiwiz(m): 7:33pm On Oct 06, 2017
DrObum:
Why not?!

Are there no jobless girls?!
Exactly my thoughts.... Are rships meant to be sources of income for ladies? If a jobless girl can be in a rship, then why not a guy? I believe it's totally wrong and antiprogressive for any guy to date/marry a girl who's got nothing to add to him!

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by bravesoul247(m): 7:35pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:
man why the rush? if you want sex outta the relationship get a steady olosho for 5h (it is ya choice) ... focus on ya hustle ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
relationships and their wahala can slow you down especially if you date a slay queen
you will spend ya capital plus ya profit to maintain the package

nigga FOCUS
your display pic is indeed legendary.
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:

do you actually understand what I typed there? ....
i advised him to focus on his hustle and his sexual gratification is a choice btw the hoes and abstinence cos if he is unlucky enough to get involved with someone that would not value his hustle (a slay queen) then it is at his own peril

my post was driving at focus not whatever you mentioned me for

From your written words, It very obvious your not a female, Your Just an Impostor!!! So Please!!!

Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Oct 06, 2017
franzeezco:


From your written words, It very obvious your not a female, Your Just an Impostor!!! So Please!!!
want to see ma pics? anyways you can ask the pussyhunter and deadrat grin grin

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 06, 2017
Obiwiz:

Exactly my thoughts.... Are rships meant to be sources of income for ladies? If a jobless girl can be in a rship, then why not a guy? I believe it's totally wrong and antiprogressive for any guy to date/marry a girl who's got nothing to add to him!

Until You Africans Changes Your Mentality!!! Then Good Things Will Start To Happen!!!

Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Tattooboy: 7:51pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:
man why the rush? if you want sex outta the relationship get a steady olosho for 5h (it is ya choice) ... focus on ya hustle ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
relationships and their wahala can slow you down especially if you date a slay queen
you will spend ya capital plus ya profit to maintain the package

nigga FOCUS
nice dp
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Windflower(f): 8:01pm On Oct 06, 2017
Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.
Its all depends on the purpose of your relationship, you have got to define the reason why you want it. Is it because you want to satisfy your sexual urge or do you want to build a future with the gurl.
Also,look for a type of girl whose ideal is the same as urs,its is very irritating when people say these kind of things about ladies,not every lady is the same.
I am a complete introvert,I had rather stay home than waste money going to eateries,I don't depend on people coz I don't want to feel indebted to anybody,while in the university the guy I dated was going tru a rough time coz his mum passed and I know how I helped him financially with the little I have. So its depends on where ure looking,there are still some good ladies out there.
You also have to work on yourself,you can't expect a reasonable lady to stay with you when ure broke and unambitious. She has got to see that you have a great potential and drive to success,no girl would date a lazy guy.

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 06, 2017
Yes
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Windflower(f): 8:07pm On Oct 06, 2017
hpymoment:
I am not trying to be a saint here .....the highest thing a guy am dating can do to me is to give me money esp wen I visit him n wants to go. Jeez! It's makes me feel like am an olosho. Ayam not understanding myself, kind of weird
Its not weird,its called decency. A guy once did it and I felt so humiliated, if I didn't have my tf I won't have bothered coming,its just painful not ladies would see it this way

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 06, 2017
Raydan:
you are lucky it wasn't me

hahahahahahahahahah babe when you're done showcasing yasef .. swerve to da left grin grin grin grin
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:

do you actually understand what I typed there? ....
i advised him to focus on his hustle and his sexual gratification is a choice btw the hoes and abstinence cos if he is unlucky enough to get involved with someone that would not value his hustle (a slay queen) then it is at his own peril

my post was driving at focus not whatever you mentioned me for

If you had a younger brother, would you profer to him that way out?
undecided
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by nkemjacob2(m): 8:58pm On Oct 06, 2017
The Nigeria relationship demand guys to have money before dating.

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by stilldoingokay(f): 9:00pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:
just don't let it sink into ya imagination cheesy

this your dp mehn is not for children oooh
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Oct 06, 2017
emusmithy:


If you had a younger brother, would you profer to him that way out?
undecided
with all pleasure so far he understands that my key word is FOCUS
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Oct 06, 2017
stilldoingokay:



this your dp mehn is not for children oooh
definitely not grin grin

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by dollytino4real(f): 9:36pm On Oct 06, 2017
capital NO, cash first u hear
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Oct 06, 2017
It's this silly mentality of Nigerians that keeps us where we are.. There's nothing wrong in dating a lady if you are jobless, depending on the motive. Is it just cuz you wanna date or cos u need a friend, a supporter and probably a life partner.? If it's dating then u r better of single and u should focus on yourself more not cos of any lady still but for yourself.. but if it's d other and u have someone that understands u and u understand her as well then go for it... Many ladies u see on d street aren't worth d time but it is good if u find a good lady...
Summary: there's nothing wrong if d right people / intentions are involved...

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by lastmaster(m): 9:39pm On Oct 06, 2017
the question is, should a broke ass nigga have an erection?Broke ass nigga are always hyper active on bed.They can last for eternity on bed.The confusion ladies always have is dating a broke guy that is active on bed.Nothing confuse a lady like that.

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Donchyke007(m): 9:47pm On Oct 06, 2017
Who's this "LEGEND" of a lady Turning up the heat in here
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by godofuck231: 9:55pm On Oct 06, 2017
TheControversy:
You can, but don't expect your girl to be loyal and don't blame her if she leaves you for a rich working class guy later.

Only to chop bad temper, gboza and black eyes
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by ImaIma1(f): 9:59pm On Oct 06, 2017
Why complicate your life? Please make money so that you won't have high temperature when the babes happens to make a request

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by lereinter(m): 10:04pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:

do you realize you jut insulted me ? angry angry angry and that is not going down well with me

he/she didnt
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Mypeople2(m): 10:28pm On Oct 06, 2017
Oyindidi:
Does he have erection?
No, the guy is not a human being because he does not have some pieces of papers that they call money ..
so he shouldn't have erection

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Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Rozaytee: 10:54pm On Oct 06, 2017
Confam error
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by goody1shoe73(m): 10:57pm On Oct 06, 2017
L3G3ND:

I'm actually female cheesy cheesy
I thoroughly read through your comments... ur nuances,phrase alignments and all what not could only be that of a guy. You know I'm right. Anyways,knock urself out no matter your sex
Re: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Oct 06, 2017
goody1shoe73:
I thoroughly read through your comments... ur nuances,phrase alignments and all what not could only be that of a guy. You know I'm right. Anyways,knock urself out no matter your sex
You're actually wrong I am a female cheesy cheesy

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