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A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Riwo11(f): 8:13pm On Oct 06, 2017
Lots of men are so sick today because of the presence of the woman in their lives. A girl who forces them to meet all their needs and that of their family and friends. They have no call credit on their phones but have bought more than enough for their girlfriends who don't use it to call them but call others and only flash them for more credit when it runs out.
There are guys who have phones which really need a change but could not because they have spent all their money to get the latest version of a phone for their girlfriends. Guys have less data on their phones, and have to switch off the data after every update whilst they have secured enough data for their girlfriends who never turn off their data, but spend all their time online chatting with other boys.
It is sad to know how guys pay for university fees for the girls they are dating yet they don't have such qualifications and they don't pursue such even when they have the opportunity, whilst some are just High School Leavers.
Many of these guys ride in public bus but their girlfriends ride with taxis and Uber at the expense of the guy's wallet. No wonder you see most overreacting, becoming more jealous, warning and fighting other guys to stay off their girlfriends.
The funny part of this sad story is when the guys footing these bills find out their girlfriends are chasing guys who offer nothing or don't spend on them. The truth is, just as desperate girls throw themselves on any guy, these weak guys also accept all sort of offers.
You claim you love a lady so much, and spend all your coins on her, yet it feels like you are bound to lose her at any time, but you keep fooling yourself in the name of love. If you are such a guy out there, your name is "the weak man", grow up.
A weak man needs to understand that a real woman won't love you because of what you give her; she will love you even while you are broke. But a fake woman will love you until you are broke or leave when she finds someone better than you.
It's an error for a lady to think a man is responsible for her needs, so she goes into a relationship to demand such from him. The man is not responsible for your feeding fee just because he is dating you. Don't tax him for your airtime, data, etc. Don't force him to get you a new phone, TV, refrigerator, etc. He is not a merchant but a lover. A boyfriend is not a supermarket.
Be a real woman, she dates when she is ready for marriage, she knows how to provide for herself, handle her business and more importantly she dates a man she wants not the man she needs.
A fake woman dates when she is not ready for marriage, doesn't know how to provide for herself or handle her transactions; so she goes out to find a man who will meet her needs. Even with such a man, she still cheats on him and is always looking for bigger opportunities. Please note the difference and don't fall a victim.
In conclusion "The one who loves money is never satisfied with money, Nor the one who loves wealth with big profits" - Ecclesiastes 5:10 (MSG)
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Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by dingbang(m): 8:14pm On Oct 06, 2017
cool
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by ghettowriter(m): 8:16pm On Oct 06, 2017
No $$$$ No Girl friend...Nigeria girl friends these days all work base on pay-per-view.

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Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 06, 2017
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I really have no idea where you guys meet this kind of girls thats dependent on her boyfriend.


anyways op There's nothing wrong in a guy doing all these for a girlfriend, it doesn't make him a weak man. it is not easy for a person to be generous so stop cursing out guys who spend on females. if they are not complaining don't complain for them.

Girls need to learn that when a guy is nice and generous towards you, you have to reciprocate. my conscience will kill me if a guy or girl does something nice and I didn't reciprocate the kindness.

Op space your space na

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Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by CaptainSALAZAR: 8:19pm On Oct 06, 2017
Tell a Nigerian girl I love you, you will start paying bills.
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 06, 2017
In summary?
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by NairalandCS(m): 8:36pm On Oct 06, 2017
CaptainSALAZAR:
Tell a Nigerian girl I love you, you will start paying bills.

Lmao. grin

Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by walepackage(m): 8:38pm On Oct 06, 2017
I think her message is for those that love to "impress lady" so much at any giving time,when their mum,sis,niece,aunty are there starving for their generousity or kindness.Well,some dude use this format to hasten them to kpansh.While many of them are just asslickers who at the end might not see the front P talkless of the other P.
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 06, 2017
undecided
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Adaumunocha(f): 8:43pm On Oct 06, 2017
Tell a Nigerian man "Yes" and he's already thinking about offing your panties... Like wth?

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Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by CaptainSALAZAR: 8:52pm On Oct 06, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Tell a Nigerian man "Yes" and he's already thinking about offing your panties... Like wth?

Why do you think he ask you out? sooner or later he's gonna ask. If you aren't ready to open your legs don't say yes.
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Adaumunocha(f): 8:57pm On Oct 06, 2017
CaptainSALAZAR:


Why do you think he ask you out? sooner or later he's gonna ask. If you aren't ready to open your legs don't say yes.
So you trying to tell me all men date ladies for sex? I strongly doubt that
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 06, 2017
In Nigeria, a bf is not supermarket but a chain store grin
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 06, 2017
sekxy:
undecided
why are you doing your mouth like that, do you want to spoil your beauty grin
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 06, 2017
A girlfriend is not an object of sexual gratification.
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 06, 2017
sunshineG:
why are you doing your mouth like that, do you want to spoil your beauty grin
see my baby grin
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Divay22(f): 9:16pm On Oct 06, 2017
Na online shopping mall him be grin grin grin
Same way a guy will see a girl, that wouldn't ask from him and he would use her as rag, even cheat on her..
It was then i kinda feel pity for all this kind of guys,now i just smile..
What goes around comes around...

If you treat a nice girl badly, karma will make sure you end up with a bitch kiss kiss kiss
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 06, 2017
sekxy:

see my baby grin
cheesy how are you now

Sure you are pushing the it thing right

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Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Ballmer: 9:21pm On Oct 06, 2017
Evaberry:
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I really have no idea where you guys meet this kind of girls thats dependent on her boyfriend.


anyways op There's nothing wrong in a guy doing all these for a girlfriend, it doesn't make him a weak man. it is not easy for a person to be generous so stop cursing out guys who spend on females. if they are not complaining don't complain for them.

Girls need to learn that when a guy is nice and generous towards you, you have to reciprocate. my conscience will kill me if a guy or girl does something nice and I didn't reciprocate the kindness.

Op space your space na
You are fair and just, this makes lots of sense. Those who do not reciprocate the good gestures are the problem not everyone.
Re: A Boyfriend Is Not A Supermarket by Nobody: 10:38pm On Oct 06, 2017
OP u really made sence here..but some greedy ladies will not believe u.
hardly see a Girl with this ur idea..once again,I hail u

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