There is a friend of mind that stays with her boyfriend a very handsome and young guy of which she is some year older than him, at first I was against her relationship with him, but she said they are in love so I have to shut up my mouth in other not to interfere in their relationship, they’ve live together for five (5) years still yet he hasn’t propose to her, the girl came to my house one beautiful morning, crying that the guy have sent her packing and brought a little girl from Akwa Ibom, I felt pity for her. but I presage her b4 now not to go into the relationship or live with him but she was blinded by his deceitful love, and the guy is very young and handsome for her, men are heartless regardless of the years they’ve being together he has the guts to f*ck her up, I can never give my all to a guy never!!! I enjoy working and eating my money. Than being under a guy.



Ur opinion.

why would she live with a guy she is not married to for five years?

she sold her self cheap if you ask me.

besides the guy has a right to decide who he gets married to, he should not marry her out of pity but out of love.

Not all men are wicked, jst majority of them jare.

And this is a lesson to all women. . . . dont live with a man if both your names arent on the lease or mortgage. [can both pay the house bills]

so also are girls wicked.i feel sorry for your friend

AYODEJI4LOVE:

so also are girls wicked.i feel sorry for your friend

You are right my bro.

@Poster
As for eating your money alone,i hope you've heard the saying that says " CHOP ALONE, FILL IN THE GAP .

I fink is a lesson to those that stays wif there boyfriend or intend to, I bet u he wont have the courage to marry you, cuz u've already lived as couples, not all men anyway.

@ Big Daddy father Am contented with the little am having, no man can swank that without him I’ll be no body. U guys something else.

Beautful.B:

I fink is a lesson to those that stays wif there boyfriend or intend to, I bet u he wont have the courage to marry you, cuz u've already lived as couples, not all men anyway.

Yeap. you are right ,not all men. I stayed with my wife for 5yrs before getting married and we've been married now for 6yrs.

Beautful.B:

@ Big Daddy father Am contented with the little am having, no man can swank that without him I’ll be no body. U guys something else.

You have to shine your eyes then.

Beautful.B:

I would rather enjoy working and eating my money alone than being under a WICKED guy. 

True

^^^I would rather enjoy working and eating my money alone than being under a WICKED guy.

thats true baby "some love are f*cking demn wicked.

@ poster : Are you sure you don't like being under a man ? A lot of women on this forum would give a kidney to be under a man.

apocalypse:

@ poster : Are you sure you don't like being under a man ? A lot of women on this forum would give a kidney to be under a man.

You are right man . Lol !!!

my dear apocalypse, am not desperate to get married, it will come wen the time is right, I cant be so loosed to a man bcuz i want to be married, for me marriage is a matter of choice, if is not for my mum I ,

1)co_habitation isnt advicable
2)dont go into a relationship with the mentality that the guy is gonna put a ring on it
(mistakes so many women out there makes)

They were cohabiting. What did she expect? It's not like he promised her marriage. The things girls do with the hope of marriage amuse me.

[size=13pt]<sup>Hell'o poster. . . . i feel your point . but you don't have to put the blame on all men because of just one man who happened to close his book with his girlfriend . honestly speaking after reading halfway of this thread i was having the feelings you were jealous of your girl friend who luckily build up a long lasting relationship with that cool , looking good handsome guy. but after i finish reading the whole thread i realise you're only trying to advice your friend to be wise in choice. . . . . you see , this is the mistake most people have make in a relationship like this . just imagine people in a relationship without understanding each other for good 5 years and it's been taken for granted. . . ? , so bad . atleast , the man and woman should open up to each other to understand the statue of their relationship and where it's heading .

well , sorry this happen to your friend but i think that's not the end , if the man refuse marry then, there must be a reason . but she shouldn't give up. advice her once more if you can, that she should be careful next time. . . . the man just have his choice and it matters alot.

in the beginning of long lasting relationship of 5 years i think their social kind of living sharing things , idea , together wouldn't allow this kind of break up . i think there's something unsatisfying to the man-- i guess the social statue of their relationship and the moment they've spent together isn't satisfying to the man.

My advice is that , she shouldn'y give up--- her mr. right is coming, so many men can disappoint but one man is coming to appoint her.</sup>[/size]

so, in the five years of cohabiting, was she on birth control? or aborting the pregnancies?

you see, the way some men view these things is different from the women's perspective.

since he went to get a fresh young thing from the village and was so heartless as to kick her (the fiancee) out in that jungle manner, therein lies your clue.

he has no respect for her anymore.

she should take heart- God will send her own man.

abi how person for talk.

btw is this one of those super stories.

Beautful.B:

There is a friend of mind that stays with her boyfriend a very handsome and young guy of which she is some year older than him, at first I was against her relationship with him, but she said they are in love so I have to shut up my mouth in other not to interfere in their relationship, they’ve live together for five (5) years still yet he hasn’t propose to her, the girl came to my house one beautiful morning, crying that the guy have sent her packing and brought a little girl from Akwa Ibom, I felt pity for her. but I presage  her b4 now not to go into the relationship or live with him but she was blinded by his deceitful love, and the guy is very young and handsome for her, men are heartless regardless of the years they’ve being together he has the guts to bleep her up, I can never give my all to a guy never!!! I enjoy working and eating my money. Than being under a guy.

your opinion.

Did you bovver to ask her what she did before she got her arse kicked out?
Is it possible for any man(sane or insane) to wake up one day and kick out a live-in partner of 5 years for one Mgbeke stranger?
Your friend is not telling the truth - My $10 says she musta cheated on the guy.

@poster, U forgot to let us know the reason for the breakup, bn single forever eating you one 1 kobo and finding the right man make a choice?, NO offence, For your friend, thats what she get for been so cheap and blinded by the handsomenz, Nne I ain't gat no sorry WORD for you, I'm handsome too come babe, BTW you forgot what calabarianz are know with, Good service of all kind, wink.

Kwalangida no b marry,na management.kinkana no dey sawa.sorry sha

@poster
blaming the guy without hearing HIS side of the story is silly. there is always 2 side to a story!
as we all know, many are pressured by family etc to marry from their tribe or even just marry who their parents have chosen for them. 
the guy might just be in this situation. have an open mind as we can see that you were bias towards this guy FROM THE GET GO.

she was just a bleeping agent.she's bleeping crazy too.only a girl with low self esteem will do that.well girls generally are low esteemed.some just like to do ogboju

she is bleeeping crazy joo

@Ogaga4Luv: thanks i'll try my best to talk to her.@tpia: thanks fro ur advise.

boomii:

Lets try and be open minded not all relationship leads to marriage.

I'm not an optimist when it comes to relationships, so your friend should have moved in at least she would have had her pride intact.

So don't blame the guy too much cos your friend is at fault.

Why trying to cover up for the guy? he gave her the impression that he loves her and will marry her, and she has given out her all to him, I mean ALL both financially and otherwise.

~Sauron~:

Did you bovver to ask her what she did before she got her arse kicked out?
Is it possible for any man(sane or insane) to wake up one day and kick out a live-in partner of 5 years for one Mgbeke stranger?
Your friend is not telling the truth - My $10 says she musta cheated on the guy.
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what truth do u expect from her, when she has been faithful to him even in school she never dated any one she demn any one that comes around, he's the only hope she has, believing he'll marry her, I blame her for dating him knowing fully she is older than him and she was hoping they'll get marry that’s crazy. Despite what they’ve gone through together, the years, can God for give such a heartless person?

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@poster, U forgot to let us know the reason for the breakup, bn single forever eating you one 1 kobo and finding the right man make a choice?, NO offence, For your friend, thats what she get for been so cheap and blinded by the handsomenz, Nne I ain't gat no sorry WORD for you, I'm handsome too come babe, BTW you forgot what calabarianz are know with, Good service of all kind, wink.

i dont give a f*ck about that.

jarkbauer:

she was just a bleeping agent.she's bleeping crazy too.only a girl with low self esteem will do that.well girls generally are low esteemed.some just like to do ogboju

jarkbauer:

she is bleeeping crazy joo

by there words we shall know them.

Beautful.B:

There is a friend of mind that stays with her boyfriend a very handsome and young guy of which she is some year older than him, at first I was against her relationship with him, but she said they are in love so I have to shut up my mouth in other not to interfere in their relationship, they’ve live together for five (5) years still yet he hasn’t propose to her, the girl came to my house one beautiful morning, crying that the guy have sent her packing and brought a little girl from Akwa Ibom, I felt pity for her. but I presage her b4 now not to go into the relationship or live with him but she was blinded by his deceitful love, and the guy is very young and handsome for her, men are heartless regardless of the years they’ve being together he has the guts to bleep her up, I can never give my all to a guy never!!! I enjoy working and eating my money. Than being under a guy.

your opinion.

Y is she crying when she fell 4 d guy cuz he is "handsome". D guy would hv made it clear dt d r/ship was not heading anywhere. She should b sharper nxt tym. as 4 u, we prefer hving babies from different women n raisn them without actually settling down with them. Work n eat ur money galfreind. very few guyz if at all will loose sleep over dt.

am not saying i wont get married, what am trying to say is that am not too desperate in getting married, I'll get married wen the time is right, she was too desperate thats y she went and stayed with him.

jarkbauer:

she is bleeeping crazy joo

by there words we shall know them, u guys are all thesame, _{ur f*cking crazy for saying that.}

I hate it when women make a complete fool of themselves and then turn around to blame it on the men!

DON’T MAKE IT SEEM AS IF WOMEN ARE “JESUS'”
WHILE MEN ARE “DEVILS”

georgeiyke009:

Work n eat your money galfreind. very few guyz if at all will loose sleep over dt.

during the time of her stay in his house what was she doing?

she learnt a good lesson in a bad way. well, she has my pity.

[size=20pt]Men are wicked
women are worse than wicked[/size]

Because that "handsome" man is apparently not the right guy for her does not mean that he is wicked, and it definitely does not warrant the conclusion that "men are wicked." Some women also date guys and dump them for their soul mates after chopping the prior guy's money. Does that now mean women "are wicked?"