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I know that there are ladies out there who date married men, even with full knowledge of their commitment, some even actively go after them and compete with their wives. This is true.

Before you go blaming that innocent Lady, know that not all single ladies are after married demons, they want a good life not to break homes.

Listen to me dear married/engaged woman of a cheating man. A man can be married for years with kids and act like a single dude, especially if he is on the handsome side and probably far from his wife, he is an expert actor and deserves an Oscar.

Blame your husband and leave that Lady alone.

They have a Facebook account you don't know about, they're single there while the ones you tag him with your jolly happy family love photos is hidden from his second life, he has another whatsapp, he doesn't wear his ring when u r not der, (some even claim it's fashion or they want to chase girls away), he talks like a single guy and this same man gives u everything, you'd never suspect him, he is also very active in church and flaunts u on social Media and u go about saying God handpicked him for you.

He makes an innocent Lady believe he is single, he makes her fall for him, he even makes her feel sorry for him after telling her about his ex's. When u find out about this innocent lady u start shouting husband snatcher, u don't know she is more heartbroken then you are, she is ashamed, she has been deceived, she was faithful to him, he was the love of her life. she is now bearing the disgrace of a husband snatcher but the truth is she is a worse victim of your husband. She did not know! He was single as a singlet when he professed love to her and melted her heart.

Blame your husband not her, leave her alone you don't know what she is going through! Face your man and pour your anger at him, she has suffered enough already!

It is your husband, not her!!!
It is him, not her.

Thanks, a victim's sister.

Seun
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
tosyne2much

any lady Dats dating a married man and claim she does not no d man is married is a liar. Hw cn u b moving comfortably wt sumone u dnt no where he lives, he has specific time of picking ur culs, some Tel u neva 2 cul, he alone wl do d culings and texts, he claims 2 luv u bt cn neva walk down d street comfortably holding u by d hand, evrytin he dose wt u is hidden bt bc u ar blinded wt gifts, u decided to act ignorant. Op, in as much as d man is guilty, stop making dose bitches luk innocent, dey no Wat dey ar doing

IAMSASHY:
any lady Dats dating a married man and claim she does not no d man is married is a liar. Hw cn u b moving comfortably wt sumone u dnt no where he lives, he has specific time of picking ur culs, some Tel u neva 2 cul, he alone wl do d culings and texts, he claims 2 luv u bt cn neva walk down d street comfortably holding u by d hand, evrytin he dose wt u is hidden bt bc u ar blinded wt gifts, u decided to act ignorant. Op, in as much as d man is guilty, stop making dose bitches luk innocent, dey no Wat dey ar doing

Look up, I said actors that deserve Oscars. Those things you listed weren't there and this gal can take care of herself financially. It was just love.

He had another residence and lives there like a single man, she visits freely, she even speaks with his friends on phone. The shock of finding out he has been married for almost 10 years was gonna kill her.
Please there are innocent girls right now thinking they are in love, but they are dating people's husbands they don't know. These men are experts.

if he cn introduce her 2 his frnds, Wat stopped her from insisting on meeting his parents, wen ur heart is involved in anytin, u dnt take chances, u hv brain, use it,ladies dnt jst care, dey 2 blinded wt gifts

Friend1010:
Look up, I said actors that deserve Oscars. Those things you listed weren't there and this gal can take care of herself financially. It was just love.

He had another residence and lives there like a single man, she visits freely, she even speaks with his friends on phone. The shock of finding out he has been married for almost 10 years was gonna kill her.
Please there are innocent girls right now thinking they are in love, but they are dating people's husbands they don't know. These men are experts.

Hahahah, Married men just got the "its not me its you" speech

Friend1010:
Look up, I said actors that deserve Oscars. Those things you listed weren't there and this gal can take care of herself financially. It was just love.

He had another residence and lives there like a single man, she visits freely, she even speaks with his friends on phone. The shock of finding out he has been married for almost 10 years was gonna kill her.
Please there are innocent girls right now thinking they are in love, but they are dating people's husbands they don't know. These men are experts.

I won't only blame the man for cheating and exonerate the ladies from taking part in the act.

Actually, any lady that says she was played into thinking a married man she was dating was single chose not to be sensitive while in the relationship with the married man. No matter his expertise in hiding his marital status, there're clues they leave behind if you chose to awaken your curiosity, but they're usually carried away by material gains and show of affection. You can't compare a relationship between a single dude and a single lady to that of a married man and a single lady. The gap is usually much and that's a clue if you're sensitive enough.

It takes two to tango. Hence, the blame should go both ways.

But most single ladies that date married men still have a boyfriend. Most of them spend the money they collect from the married men to take care of their boyfriend.

exactly, we ladies ar 2 smart in detecting a broke guy, we cn go as far as detecting his account balance bt form ignorant wen a married man is involved, dey ar jst bitches

kimbraa:
I won't only blame the man for cheating and exonerate the ladies from taking part in the act.

Actually, any lady that says she was played into thinking a married man she was dating was single chose not to be sensitive while in the relationship with the married man. No matter his expertise in hiding his marital status, there're clues they leave behind if you chose to awaken your curiosity, but they're usually carried away by material gains and show of affection. You can't compare a relationship between a single dude and a single lady to that of a married man and a single lady. The gap is usually much and that's a clue if you're sensitive enough.

It takes two to tango. Hence, the blame should go both ways.

IAMSASHY:
if he cn introduce her 2 his frnds, Wat stopped her from insisting on meeting his parents, wen ur heart is involved in anytin, u dnt take chances, u hv brain, use it,ladies dnt jst care, dey 2 blinded wt gifts

What's with tur gift gift? This girl has a lot of money and good business everything is not material. He was showing her affection, even refused to touch her
initially, claiming he is not after sex. Yes, she could have asked to see his parents but there was excuses and delays coning. Maybe thats where she made the mistake of noticing. But it's easy to just assume he wants to take his time first before introducing her to his family.

IAMSASHY:
exactly, we ladies ar 2 smart in detecting a broke guy, we cn go as far as detecting his account balance bt form ignorant wen a married man is involved, dey ar jst bitches

You don't get it, the guy is rich yes, but she has a business, she even has people working for her though she's young. She bought things for him too.
I can't believe ladies are here defending a married man who goes around deceiving an innocent soul into love. It is really true that women hate each other.
My God! My God!

am a woman and I no as e dey go, if Dat d guy is broke, she wl b very smart in detecting his account balance, bt bc he is a medical doc, she decided to relax, no matter Hw u try 2 make dem luk innocent, I blame dem big time

Friend1010:
What's with tur gift gift? This girl has a lot of money and good business everything is not material. He was showing her affection, even refused to touch her
initially, claiming he is not after sex. Yes, she could have asked to see his parents but there was excuses and delays coning. Maybe thats where she made the mistake of noticing. But it's easy to just assume he wants to take his time first before introducing her to his family.

frankkydee:
But most single ladies that date married men still have a boyfriend. Most of them spend the money they collect from the married men to take care of their boyfriend.

I have exempted those ones already, those are dogs. I'm talking about the good ones who are even planning a future with their boyfriend not knowing who they are.

Friend1010:
I have exempted those ones already, those are dogs. I'm talking about the good ones who are even planning a future with their boyfriend not knowing who they are.

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