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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by holaralph(m): 7:01am On Oct 12, 2017
so ra re, ki o mabaa je ogo re mo ounje jije
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by didisky(m): 7:03am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?


When next she brings u food,tell her u appreciate her effort but u feel she has done more than enough and dat u don't want to give her d stress of preparing meals for two people dat u will manage urself.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by davidodiba(m): 7:03am On Oct 12, 2017
Tell her this: "I like you but I don't like the way you keep bringing food for me. I have food and I am not comfortable with you having to cook for me. Please, I honest do not need it. Thanks. I appreciate all your efforts. """" smiley
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Profusamah: 7:04am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Why is it that this kind of gifts has a way of falling into the wrong hands. Waiting me I do

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Ensquare(m): 7:04am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

you have told already cuz she is a nairalander
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by hollowpot15684(m): 7:06am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?


Return the food by taking your own food to her too.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Peacefulgold(m): 7:10am On Oct 12, 2017
first of all ,wat is d intention of d girl bringing d food to u,has she made any advances beyond d fact dat she is just been a caring neighbour ,and u,why do u want her to stop,is it becos u don't like her cooking or becos u think she is trying to woo u wit her food,u really have to know wat her intentions are,but if she hasn't done or shown anything dat makes u think she is trying to woo u,den u keep accepting d friendly gesture unless u don't like her cooking or d food,u can also tell her to stop if u think if u continue eating her food u will now get attracted to her even if doesn't show any signs of attraction ...the simple tin is,u tell her to stop if u notice she is giving u food just to draw u to herself,or if u don't like her cooking,but if none of this,my guy keep enjoying ur food ,its not easy....
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by shilz(f): 7:13am On Oct 12, 2017
Just tell her anytime you eat the food you have serious stomach upset and thats the reasons you hardly eat out, but you didn't want to tell her so she wont feel bad . Trust me she will feel bad but it wont be out of rejection this time.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by crownbayo(m): 7:14am On Oct 12, 2017
eating were u don't sow! sure she needs something, dont let her destroy ur destiny wit DAT stupid food(satanic delicacy) bro. call her u are man stop been childish, talk wit her head wit a mature mind, u don't want to hurt her right, but u are denying ur self d truth, DAT may hurt u in future. don't forget one ll hurt one but if u love her oo and u don't have sure woman den talk to her and know d reason why. I once like u b4
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by newoffer: 7:16am On Oct 12, 2017
return her plate with ur poo
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Donpuffy(m): 7:16am On Oct 12, 2017
You'll only know you love her when you let her go.

Just tell her you'll be coming to her place to eat the food when you feel like.

You knw what will be running in her head? Whereas you have successfully put her off.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by goshen26: 7:20am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?



When ur Monika is superhammer...the babe want to test the hammer na
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by bamsir: 7:21am On Oct 12, 2017
am very sure u demand for it at the first place
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by omojeesu(m): 7:24am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?


It happened to me too.

She wants you most likely. That's her way of saying that.

She's lucky she's doing this to you who doesn't want to exploit her i believe.

Call her. Thank her for the food. Ask her why she's doing this. She's not likely to say the real reason. Be frank with her and tell her that if her reason is to get you hooked to her you are really not thinking in that direction.

Once she knows your position the food is likely to stop coming. I did this and the food stopped coming.

If, however, the continues to bring the food, it may indeed be that she's just being nice to you and nothing more than that OR she believes she will still break your resistance with time. But be careful of eating love potion o!

Try this. It may just work.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Nobody: 7:26am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.


Have you ever asked her y she goes extra miles to feed you.. Politely ask her but make it look as if your astonished by this gesture.. It could be she feels. Youvare the only male and probably don't know how to cook or so and ao she might just be trying to be nice ..
How ever politely tell her that you feel guilty that she spends her money go cook for you and that you really would prefer to do that your self as nysc is a period where one should learn to be independent and learn new things..just blab about
Some men or most have a way of sending wrong vibes check your body language you might he indirectly encouraging her or showing u r the type that is open to affairs or so

Either way you can't stop her by not telling her you simply must... But how you tell her is what matters..

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by pasqal09: 7:26am On Oct 12, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
Maybe you should tell her that you don't like her spending money buying foodstuffs cooking and be bringing for you.that she should save some money for her upkeep too.
This is the best excuse u can give to her.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by buchilino(m): 7:26am On Oct 12, 2017
herdeythoun:
politely tell her
UR NOT BAD LOOKING ESPECIALLY DOSE TEETH. I MEANT IT, AM NOT INSULTING U OOO.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Nobody: 7:27am On Oct 12, 2017
Donpuffy:
You'll only know you love her when you let her go.

Just tell her you'll be coming to her place to eat the food when you feel like.

You knw what will be running in her head? Whereas you have successfully put her off.



That's a very smart one ...I think he should really do this

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Nnemuka(f): 7:28am On Oct 12, 2017
She is giving you free food in this buhari era and you are forming... Odiegwu.
And may be one girl you are interested in somewhere doesnt ask you if you've eaten in one month and then the one who cares is seen as a nuisance.
In my little stay on earth, i have come to notice that people take people who cares for them for granted.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Ninilowo(m): 7:32am On Oct 12, 2017
Maybe she knows that you don't have ur own cooking materials. So get ur own cooking materials for the start and let her see that you are doing ur own cooking then you can politely tell her that she may not need to bring food for you again. Let her know that you really appreciate her kind gesture. If she insist then ask her what se wants from you then you can now sit and talk
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by famology(m): 7:33am On Oct 12, 2017
Dis is exactly hw a corper got pregnant 4 my friend in Gombe during service,be careful my guy.Dis food matter sef!

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by buchilino(m): 7:33am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
I'll try this. Thanks.
WERE U A FAN OF MC HAMMER WEN U WERE LITTLE.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by phkka1(m): 7:35am On Oct 12, 2017
MaritzaNL:
Tell her you have a girlfriend.

He did not say he has a girl friend. If your not in any serious relationship, try and study her to see if she meets your specification for marriage. If not politely avoid eating that food. If you have been giving her money, you need to gradually stop giving her money or showing any form of kindness. The food she is giving you is the only known way of showing you love. Is most likely she is a christian that does not want to go into fornication.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Rich96: 7:38am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?
Be careful on how you handle this issue! Because if you tell her to face to stop now what about the one's you've eaten! A Little Idea : You know Africa is spiritual! Just tell her you had a bad dream and you're fasting! She should stop bring food for now! And You can just give it to her once and for all! ( Serious sweaty Rough Nacking) grin

Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Michaelpresh(m): 7:40am On Oct 12, 2017
nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

this guy have said it all.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by birdsview(m): 7:42am On Oct 12, 2017
Bro in this recession Biko let me send my number to you...me I need the food o..just the food

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by vanvick247(m): 7:46am On Oct 12, 2017
The babe no fine naim make OP wan dey avoid her make she no come spoil other paroles when him get for mind.

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Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by tenny07(m): 7:54am On Oct 12, 2017
Tell her boldly you are not interested in her meal again or tell her you are fasting...
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by Andyskipo(m): 7:57am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:

Unfortunately I'm not attracted to her
close your eyes and do the tin .you might even be lucky to get a tighter towtow
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by anunweluobi: 7:58am On Oct 12, 2017
QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

My brother you are spiritually married.
Re: How Do I Tell A Female Corper Who Keeps Bringing Me Food To Stop? by thedondada(m): 8:01am On Oct 12, 2017
Just quietly hammer her.

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