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Have this in mind;
Every man/woman has a picture of what their perfect partner should look, smell & act - but even if you're that perfect picture you partner dreamt of that made him/her agree to spend the rest of their life with you; these 7 things can make that dream evaporate in an instance. Let's hope its not too late that you stumbled on this article;

1. You're irritated all the time!
If there is this guy or babe trying his/her luck with your partner - that shouldn't be enough reason to be irritated - the more you make that an issue, the more your partner sails away. He/she would probably be wondering if you can ever trust them.


2. Not making her feel secured!
Have you probably gave your partner the filling that you're not theirs, or always kept them on the edge - leaving them in-secured of having you, if yes, then its time to re-assure your partner that you will always be around for him/her.


3. Ignoring him/her!
Every one in a relationship wants to be heard, if you stay ignorant to their needs especially with he/she considers it vital, you could be cooking a recipe for a breakup. He/she is probably asking you for those little things and you're not paying attention to them.


4. Making your partner feel unwanted!
You must know how to tell your partner that you want him/her. The more you make them feel wanted, the earlier it is to love, however the more you make them feel unwanted, and if prolonged it could be a bit too much to handle and the end of the relationship. You need not be too emotional to do this.


5. Trying to change them!
We all uniquely created, so don't try to change your partner, accept them for who they are and love them as such - remember, if you saw someone with the character you're trying to change them into, there would be one or two things they do not posses also that your partner has.
So, love them for whom they are.


6. Playing with his/her independence!
This applies more to the guys, let your partner be independent - she need not rely on you or anyone for her business or personal life. Let them have to opportunity to decide when they should and also the ladies should respect their man's privacy and space. Ladies don't like been over protected, she wants to fight her battle herself sometimes and guys don't want a lady who tells him how he should act or fo things especially in the public.
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If you're already doing any of the above listed, then its not too late to get back on the right track....

Happy loving / Happy Relationship.


Source: http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/these-6-mistakes-can-make-you-lose-your-partner-in-an-instant

I found these list interesting and educative..

cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44.

Abegiii

nice one

Playing down on their intellectual contribution in conversation .

Story! People would walk in and out of ur life, u v no control over deir decisions# stay true to urself.

Number 3 Kai I’m too used to it

How do I stop this ...
My ex complained about me never having time and never responding

2,3,4 and am done with the relationship.

Lalas247:
Number 3 Kai I’m too used to it

How do I stop this ...
My ex complained about me never having time and never responding

You don't respond probably because you don't care

Slimzjoe:
You don't respond probably because you don't care

maybe

Lalas247:
maybe

You Didnt Love Him. If You Did You Wouldnt Ignore him

DeadRat:
You Didnt Love Him. If You Did You Wouldnt Ignore him

love and me
hmmm very tough ... I live my job sha that's all

Lalas247:
love and me
hmmm very tough ... I live my job sha that's all

No Its Not... For Love? You Havent Really Found It

wahles:
Story! People would walk in and out of ur life, u v no control over deir decisions# stay true to urself.

exactly.

Lalas247:
Number 3 Kai I’m too used to it

How do I stop this ...
My ex complained about me never having time and never responding

the more conscious you are about it, the easier it is to stop it - by making continuous efforts to

saydfact:
the more conscious you are about it, the easier it is to stop it - by making continuous efforts to

I will try work on it ...