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Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:19am On Oct 14, 2017

Have heard lots of ladies saying marrying or dating a poor man is a no go area,
Make nairaland girls come clear matter for me now

Can you marry a poor man?

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:20am On Oct 14, 2017

Lalasticlala, mynd44, make I hia Una too

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:25am On Oct 14, 2017

I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and won't make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:26am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I don't think so

what if the poor man have a bright future?

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Mynd44(mod): 7:27am On Oct 14, 2017

Lala234:
mynd44, make I hia Una too

I can't its kinda gay undecided

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Hashimyussufamao(m): 7:31am On Oct 14, 2017*

This is one of the silly conventions about relationship, and some girls will be like i want rich guys only, is it only guys that are destined to be rich in life? or do some girls don't even have brain? are they looking down on theirselves? can't they too work hard to make it? or is it only them that can leave a broke man and follow a rich one? can't a guy do otherwise?. I move with many ladies tho buh yet i don't give a 4k about any 4kn relationship, can't waste my time on compromise. Incase i does that and it has negative effect on my future, that same girl will leave me and follow other man on the voice of "i don't care". 2hell with an obnoxious relationship!
*and as per marriage every woman wants an okay father 4their offsprings, yet consideration shouldn't be prejudice. A poor man 2me is a lazy and uncreative man, if you found these two features absent in ur man my sister stay with him, he will definately have a payday. Mary married a creative and hardworking capentar. #use_ur_brain

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:33am On Oct 14, 2017

Mynd44:
I can't its kinda gay

Ah ah, I think den sey love is blind, abi love don dey see? cheesy

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by EmperorLee(m): 7:34am On Oct 14, 2017

Mynd44:
I can't its kinda gay

Sarcasm. You were only summoned to move this to permanent site.

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by iamJ(m): 7:34am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and work make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:35am On Oct 14, 2017

EmperorLee:
Sarcasm. You were only summoned to move this to permanent site.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:37am On Oct 14, 2017

emperorgoke:
what if the poor man have a bright future?

That's a tough one tho, many poor men leave the women that struggled with them for other ladies when they've made it. I can't waste my time with someone that'll hurt me later.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by DanseMacabre(m): 7:37am On Oct 14, 2017

I can't marry a poor woman abeg. I no want liability.

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:38am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and work make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

That's true,
I once heard a man saying work is not Money, if it is, Cart pushers, Bricklayers and other hard job servers will be the richest grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:38am On Oct 14, 2017

DanseMacabre:
I can't marry a poor woman abeg. I no want liability.

You wey be man, make she dey feed you ba?

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:39am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
That's a tough one tho, many poor men leave the women that struggled with them for other ladies when they've made it. I can't waste my time with someone that'll hurt me later.

You are on point, but that might not happen, you know?

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:40am On Oct 14, 2017

Lala234:
That's true,
I once heard a man saying work is not Money, if it is, Cart pushers, Bricklayers and other hard job servers will be the richest

True tho, but when I say hardworking I don't mean those kind of jobs.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:41am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and won't make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

what if he is rich in the lord ??! cheesy

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:41am On Oct 14, 2017

Lala234:
You are on point, but that might not happen, you know?

I know but it's better I don't take chances.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:42am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
True tho, but when I say hardworking I don't mean those kind of jobs.

Yes, I grab your point.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:42am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and won't make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

so you mean he will remain poor forever

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:42am On Oct 14, 2017

doctorkush:
what if he is rich in the lord ??!

How can someone be rich in the lord? I don't get.

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by DanseMacabre(m): 7:43am On Oct 14, 2017

Lala234:
You wey be man, make she dey feed you ba?

Na bad thing if my woman feed me when I no get? Na only woman good to feed shey? Wetin gender equality come dey about?

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:44am On Oct 14, 2017

Mynd44:
I can't its kinda gay

Hmmm

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Martin0(m): 7:44am On Oct 14, 2017

Ladies don't wanna a poor man yet they eager to marry a rich man uhm..
Well well well shinarlaura &co please come and comment

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
How can someone be rich in the lord? I don't get.

dont you go to church?? how the men in suit claim all things are of the world, ignore... be rich in Christ Jesus... be rich in his words...

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Martin0(m): 7:47am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and won't make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

Hmmm u speak sence here..
I really love and understand ur point

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Hashimyussufamao(m): 7:47am On Oct 14, 2017

Peachess:
I can't marry a poor man, I don't want my kids to suffer. I want the best for my kids and for myself so why will I do that? I'm going to be very hardworking don't wanna be dependent on any man and I expect my future hubby to be hardworking also. I have so many aims in life I wish to achieve and a poor man will just slow me down and draw me backwards and won't make me achieve my dreams. So that's a big no.

so marrying a rich man now is the only remedy? what of those who marry rich men and was later befallen by a calamity

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:47am On Oct 14, 2017

doctorkush:
dont you go to church?? how the men in suit claim all things are of the world, ignore... be rich in Christ Jesus... be rich in his words...

Lol, which one be this grin

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Lala234(op): 7:49am On Oct 14, 2017

Don't you think with the level of poverty in Nigeria, we have poor men than the rich?

Who you go con marry? grin

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 14, 2017

Hashimyussufamao:
so marrying a rich man now is the only remedy? what of those who marry rich men and was later befallen by a calamity

bro this is what most ladies here don't know...I have seen numerous examples in life...and many of them fail to determine who is rich in today's Nigeria...aa far as I am concerned only politicians, criminals and oil magnet are rich in today's Nigeria

Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Nobody: 7:52am On Oct 14, 2017

No. I want the best for my future kids. I can marry an average comfortable man with vision though.

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Re: Can You Marry A Poor Man? by Peachess(f): 7:52am On Oct 14, 2017

doctorkush:
dont you go to church?? how the men in suit claim all things are of the world, ignore... be rich in Christ Jesus... be rich in his words...

Too bad I don't believe words that comes out from the mouth of most men in suit.

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