You know that feeling you get on the first few days of a too tight weave when you can't sleep peacefully, but find yourself restless with every feature on your face hurting, when you go out people compliment you on how beautiful you look, but deep down you're hurting, and find it difficult going through the process of taking it off. Well most people in relationships\marriages feel that way they are stuck but don't seem to find their way out. Unhappy behind closed doors, but in public, and on social media live the illusion of a perfect marriage and relationship while crying on the inside.

Behind the PDAs, pet names, gifts exchange is a horrible story you don't know about. And all you do is sit there trying every possible means to have what this person is portraying on social media, comparing your near perfect relationship to the next person's empty relationship, and putting a great pressure on your partner.

The funny thing is most people are so scared of being alone, and will do anything to be in a relationship, but the truth is for the fact you're alone doesn't mean you are lonely it should be a time for you to rediscover yourself, get your priorities right. What you don't know is most of these people you compare yourself or relationship to silently wish to be you, to experience the freedom of being out of the''ship''.

My point is don't be defined by your relationship status, love yourself hard, treat yourself with respect, stop undermining yourself, make a better person out of yourself, there are many possibilities for you as a single. Be a''wonder woman''give Gal Gadot a run for her money, and the right person will come around.

Source : eneazi..com

Nice post

It's better to be single than to be in a wrong relationship

If I may ask dear, what inspired this write up?

tolanibae:
Nice post

It's better to be single than to be in a wrong relationship

If I may ask dear, what inspired this write up?

Thanks...let's just say I have seen things. I have seen people who are scared of enjoying their own company, people who just want to be connected to someone no matter how bad the person treats them. People who feel being single is a death sentence and people do not appreciate the good partners they have just because of some other persons fake relationship.

IamKashyBaby:


This topic is quite complicated..

Is it there is this saying FAKE IT TIL U MAKE IT? A lot of women, faking it on social media bcoz they wanted to show to the world that they have a happy perfect married life..they lied to their friends and family that everything is OK even they are already dying inside..

So, the person that faking her relationship status on social media, does she acquired strength to endure all those pain that inflicted to her ? despite how her life so difficult still she post her family picture s all smiling and happy...

Or does she needs to cry out loud for help on social media that she is not happy, she is battered wife ?

The only complicated thing here is your comment

eneazi:

Thanks...let's just say I have seen things. I have seen people who are scared of enjoying their own company, people who just want to be connected to someone no matter how bad the person treats them. People who feel being single is a death sentence and people do not appreciate the good partners they have just because of some other persons fake relationship.

Is any of them your personal experience?

tolanibae:


The only complicated thing here is your comment

Don't worry...its not for everyone..

IamKashyBaby:





Don't worry...its not for everyone..

It's okay dear, no offence meant from me at all. I understand quite well what you are trying to infer from the above, like it's above my understanding, isn't it?

It's just that the OP's post was quite straight forward. Only for you to bring up a comment that looks neither like an assertion nor a question.

It's all good tho, I admire your subtle style of throwing shots.

Plenty love still.