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Kindly post this, Pls am a 24year old lady dating a man who claims he is a divorcee. He has two young kids, 4years and two years old each. We've been dating for about 8months now and he is very good in bed nd gives me money each time he visits.

But what baffles me is that he never lets me come close to his phone especially his pictures. Have tried to persuade him about thrice but he always turns me down. He stays in another state tho nd whenever he travels, he barely calls or texts me unless i call.

Even when i call, our discussion doesnt exceed, "hw r u m fine convos'". But if he comes to my own state where i stay, he will be all loving nd wants to make love.

He has never taken me out on a date, we always meet in my house and then he gives me money nd leave afterwards.
Anyday i refuse sex, he either gives sumtn small or nothing at all.

He rarely even says he loves me or miss me. I just feel like a booty call to him but i just really like him. When i push words into his mouth atimes, he will say he cudnt call because he travelled to see his kids or that d so called ex wive brought them to visit him.

He claims he doesnt sleep with d woman or anything that he just sends her money fr d kids upkeep but on more than two occasions, av found out she visits him at his place.

Pls kindly post for me so i will knw peoplez thoughts on this. Does he really love me nd is there a chance he actully doesnt sleep with d woman so it wont be as if m dating a married man.

Why does he never allow me close to his phone or pictures. I'll be on d page to read comments. Thank u fr ur platform�

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u hv no bizness wt his fone, u shud b concerned wt d fact dat u ar ntin bt a side chick, his sex machine and a second class lady, u ar 2 young 2 b a second class 2 any man, u shud ur hearts first Lady, dump hm asap

The poster above just mentioned your position- Side Chick enjoy the money spree but don't come back and give us bull story of Use n Dump while you can use your Head,Brain n Legs now.

prestige2013:
The poster above just mentioned your position- Side Chick enjoy the money spree but don't come back and give us bull story of Use n Dump while you can use your Head,Brain n Legs now.

side chick that is the best she can get in her dreams


We are talking abt on ur kneels with no conversation, when she is done, she is told to get out thru the back


And she says thank you

IamKashyBaby:


She must accept that her bf is still married .

He might juz lying to her juz to have a good sex apart from his wife...Most men will promise u heaven & earth but none of them are real..they will paint a beautiful picture of his future with u but none of them gonna happen..

IamJ gimme ur phone and lemme check everything especially ur private vault

No court on earth and in heaven will ever make me do that still love you

IAMSASHY:
u hv no bizness wt his fone, u shud b concerned wt d fact dat u ar ntin bt a side chick, his sex machine and a second class lady, u ar 2 young 2 b a second class 2 any man, u shud ur hearts first Lady, dump hm asap

As harsh as these words may sound, I fully support. You are nothing but a side chick, and you like him because he gives you money when you sex. That's all... He pays for sex. Who collects money for sex? Next person should answer...

You know the answer to your issues young lady. Be wise.

U entered his life as a side chick now u are striving to be a front chick...where has contentment gone to

IamKashyBaby:



AHA!

It's OK my love...as long u wont check my phone too juz to warn u, i don't wanna give u heart attack

reverse psychology

pause

Come closer

No one can do you the way that i do

I will eat ur words and swallow your ideas drink your juices to quench my thirst
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sure my dear na "booty call" u be na,a young nd aspiring beauty laying so cheap,4 d sake of money my dear my simple advice 2 u is to get a job and start thinking about ur own home,flee frm dat man.

iamJ:
reverse psychology

pause

Come closer

No one can do you the way that i do

I will eat ur words and swallow your ideas drink your juices to quench my thirst
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get a room guys

U will be free when u begin to use your God given brain

Harwoyeez:
U will be free when u begin to use your God given brain

Epic!

Op, what advise do you need from us
... You're not a girlfriend but a sugar girl

Rokia2:
Epic!

My people have said it all, but maybe i should add something. now that its clear that he is taking you for granted by making you a side chick. just take him for granted also by making him your cash cow. try and get lump money from him to start something for your self, that is if you cant raise the money by your selfx but if you dont need his money just leave him. i(:

Dat man is still married..he is just using u ..be wise my sister

I wonder why most men derive pleasure in telling lies, when it's very possible to still find a woman that will cope with his current status of being married . Mydear let that man go sharply. In fact block his number Coz he is not worth the stress...

Gals are so dump....and I'm sure you have a guy showing u real love somewhere, but u chose to be a Fvck pet to a married man cos of money...shout to all the bad boys in the house who shows these hoes no mercy...for you're the ones they truly love and desire...toast to the good boys who are kind to gals, we the bad boys thank you for easing the stress we give these hoes, cos they Fvck us different after an outing with y'all.