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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Aboguede(m): 10:08pm On Oct 17, 2017
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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by frankkydee(m): 10:09pm On Oct 17, 2017
Sparkles003:
Received with joyful spring to my steps grin






Hope the Op is seeing this.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Sparkles003(f): 10:09pm On Oct 17, 2017
truthsayer009:


Go and work on your 4 and 16, then come back !
I was not born to go empty handed.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by zinizta: 10:11pm On Oct 17, 2017
Missmossy:
We are all humans and as such lack perfection so definitely even if not all few of these things would be in one, sometimes it could be unknown. Change is constant anyway and as such unhealthly traits could be worked on.
GOD BLESS U! You Have The Right Attitude. No One Is Above Correction.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Sparkles003(f): 10:11pm On Oct 17, 2017
frankkydee:









Hope the Op is seeing this.
He better see it and if I doesn't I could assist him with a 3D viewing glasses for better view
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 17, 2017
Why not carry clay and mould her, as if you are any better.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by zinizta: 10:15pm On Oct 17, 2017
Aboguede:
I agree with the op but it is also very omportant for a man to know that it is also a man's responsibility to shape a woman I mean train her to be as you can manage.

my father said that "a woman is half trained by her parents and the other half is left to her husband to train her to the final accepted maturity.

and I am greatful to God for who I am, my wife will be as I want her becausd I accept the responsibility as my father puts it that the husband is also the father of his wife.
TRUE! You Still Have To Be Careful When Picking A Partner Don't Overlook A Danger Sign Post Just Cause Of What Your Father Said
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by frankkydee(m): 10:15pm On Oct 17, 2017
Sparkles003:

He better see it and if I doesn't I could assist him with a 3D viewing glasses for better view










Are you an optician?
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by ssogundele(m): 10:16pm On Oct 17, 2017
Op, I'm going to help you just summarize the whole epistles;
Don't marry any lady with these traits
1. Pride cheesy
2. Unforgiving
3. Selfish and finally
4. Worldly/canal
But surprisingly some of NL ladies are embodiment of all these traits e.g. The 3rd commenter. I no mention name o

Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by judlice84: 10:16pm On Oct 17, 2017
What do you fellas want

You see women with good qualities you will still complain and not appreciate themangry

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by donnaD(f): 10:17pm On Oct 17, 2017
prinxpalax:

1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and canally minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot
oga I think u need a wife material of 100yards.for ur mind u think u are perfect or soooo special??kam nu kwa na ur type whey dey find wife materials always end up with bad wives.so play it cool my brother marriage is a bed full of roses u have to diligently remove the thorns in order to enjoy the roses.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nickymichy(m): 10:20pm On Oct 17, 2017
4 ds life wey we dey?... Well der are gud women dou, a gud woman will always have one of ds things wey u write.. Just pray 4 d best my dear..
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:20pm On Oct 17, 2017
prinxpalax:

1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and canally minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot

..this life you will only get what you are,not what you want cause what you want is in what you are.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by tosyne2much(m): 10:21pm On Oct 17, 2017
A woman with the traits of 1, 9, 10 and 11 is someone I can't deal with
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 17, 2017
That will work for you only if you can read one's personality accurately.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by mamajaz(f): 10:21pm On Oct 17, 2017
So many people viewing this topic.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Investnow2017: 10:24pm On Oct 17, 2017
ImaIma1:
Kuku get sand and create your woman

The one created from the rib never dey easy, hmnhmn sand own go toughooooooo grin grin grin

Some men too, if i were a woman. Hmnhmnhmn. I go just forget marriage make i no say at least the remaining problem get solution grin grin grin Some men are not manageable, frankly speaking. And sadly most of that category have virtually the best of well behaved women. One of the difficult mysteries of life.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by jospepper(m): 10:26pm On Oct 17, 2017
Ezionye:
Lol

Dat list is quite long and is either way

No one would like to be with any1 with those attributes
Thank you very much, you have understanding
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Johnnyoungster(m): 10:27pm On Oct 17, 2017
Since I was born and now I am getting older I have never seen any woman without these qualities...oh my brothers have u seen ooo...no no no no.
Whether a woman is rich or poor, slim or fat, tall or short there is every tendency for her to posses one of these qualities expect she is given birth to on planet earth.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by neutrotoba(m): 10:28pm On Oct 17, 2017
Evaberry:
All these men sef.


they tend to be possessive and overly controlling

How? Just how?
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by KingTom(m): 10:30pm On Oct 17, 2017
Missmossy:
We are all humans and as such lack perfection so definitely even if not all few of these things would be in one, sometimes it could be unknown. Change is constant anyway and as such unhealthly traits could be worked on.
Wow lovely. Long time no see
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 17, 2017
Exactly what this guy said before undertaking this venture. Now he speaks to himself, suggests, argues & decides. This guy is both head and neck of his house.....ofcourse his ladies are always around. Follow..........

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:34pm On Oct 17, 2017
MhizzAJ:
You will create your wife

By the way i find it difficult to say 'I am so sorry' effortlessly
people like me can't marry you
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Sly2017: 10:35pm On Oct 17, 2017
HOW ABOUT WE CHECK OUT THIS THREAD.The MAN I HATE TO MARRY.WOULDN'T IT SOUND SO NICE.JUST IMAGINE THE UNENDING LIST,YOU MUST BE A SAINT DUDE.THUMBS UP.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by zinizta: 10:37pm On Oct 17, 2017
Nickymichy:
4 ds life wey we dey?... Well der are gud women dou, a gud woman will always have one of ds things wey u write.. Just pray 4 d best my dear..
I Do Not Believe There Is Anything Like 'Good Woman'. What We Have Is The Teachable And The Know-It-All' The Wise And The foolish, The Independent And The Keeping-Up-With-The-Joneses etc. good is too big a word to use for mere mortals
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Aboguede(m): 10:39pm On Oct 17, 2017
again acvording to igbo culture, a woman is never old than a man so my wife can be old than I am but I will enforce my rules uncompromisingly that she might think I lied about my age.

secondly, It id important that as a man I should also teach my girl friend and train her as long as u and her are together because u nevet know when u might change the status and mind you that love is created and not pre made.

you can deceide to have fun but before u know it, u are cut up as long as u are making love to the same person often, the magnetic force of sex will cloud ur mind and make it hard to let go so if you always show ur true self from the start, she will either remain or leave early and always learn as a man to not pretend because pretence make a man stupid and perpetual cowardice and I can tell u from experence and as a sycologist that WOMEN respect a man who is uncompromising, strict and straight forward.

Once dated a girl and she met another girl in my room at certain time and she protested that the girl should leave and the girl left and then I also asked her to leave too for not respecting me as a man and I forced her out but she letter called and apologised on her kneels but in another relationship my the girl I was dating found another lady in my room and the same thing happened but this time, I later apologised to her and she started she later developed aggresive attitude which killed the relationship.

so in all, a man is obliged to be fatefull as the lady does same but as a man make sure ur wife is more tollerent than the husband otherwise the marrage will lack credibility because by nature, a man is poligamuse but a woman can be fateful.

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Sgttanner: 10:39pm On Oct 17, 2017
I caught my gf cheating on me and I been so depressed... I love her dou but I just can't let go of all what I read on her phone.. Even dou she has asked for forgiveness... I saw her asking for money and the guy sending her money , Also, the chat was so intimate.... That alone makes me feel incapable... And I have been so loyal to this girl.. And it's not that i don't give her money.. At least I do my best... It's just disheartening the way some girls act sha.. Well shit happens

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Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by LoRdCaT(m): 10:43pm On Oct 17, 2017
prinxpalax:

1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and canally minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot
My brother you will just die a bachelor. grin
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by chiroyale(f): 10:43pm On Oct 17, 2017
KevinDein:

Nope. He won't need to do that. There are lots of girls/ladies that do not possess any of the features listed by the op. Even you can be a better person if you admit that your inability to say "I'm sorry" is a flaw that needs working on.

We are meant to learn everyday, and we ought to improve on our flaws rather than selfishly expecting others to put up with them.

No one is prefect, you have to compromise on something
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 17, 2017
Nawa for this Op o. no one is perfect fa!.
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by zinizta: 10:47pm On Oct 17, 2017
Sgttanner:
I caught my gf cheating on me and I been so depressed... I love her dou but I just can't let go of all what I read on her phone.. Even dou she has asked for forgiveness... I saw her asking for money and the guy sending her money , Also, the chat was so intimate.... That alone makes me feel incapable... And I have been so loyal to this girl.. And it's not that i don't give her money.. At least I do my best... It's just disheartening the way some girls act sha.. Well shit happens
Do Not Derail The Thread...Stop Being A Baby! How Could You Be So Naive To Feel She Wouldn't Have Other Suitors. ABeG! Man Up!
Re: The Woman I Hate To Have As Wife by kenodrill: 10:50pm On Oct 17, 2017
[quote author=Evaberry post=61438607]All these men sef.


they tend to be possessive and overly controlling [/quote what is wrong in a man that is possessive?]

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