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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Talkwell: 10:04pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Paulosky1900: Different strokes for different folks bro I'm not cut out for marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Paulosky1900: 10:10pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: WHAT ARE U GONNA TELL UR KIDS WHEN THEY ARE GROWN UP...THAT THEY HAVE NO FATHER/MOTHER?? because they must surely ask u that..it takes two to make up a sweet home and train ur children...its very very sweet i swear..and ur child would be mocked within his friends and i believe u dnt wnt ur child to feel dis bad..it really hurts as a kid. 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:17pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Paulosky1900:There are so many single mothers with children and the children aren't dead. A man can raise up kids better than a woman if he puts his mind into it. Single fathers are rarity and I wish to see more of it in the society. 2 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by lazygal: 10:38pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
[quote author=adetoroamos post=61821199]it's not a must naw but black human mentality. even as a guy self I don't want to get married but family wahala Shaaa. [/quote And it really needs to stop.the fact a lady isn't married doesn't mean her life isn't complete or that she won't enter Paradise Irony of all this is that too many broken marriages and the divorcees end up remaining single so what was the use of ever marrying .we really need to stop allowing out selves to be pressured or feel incomplete Espe ially Ib north where u are looked upon as something disgusting |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by valkaka(m): 10:44pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
The short answer is no. The long answer is the answers to a lot of questions. Will you be as happy unmarried as you will be married? Are you generally a lonely person who needs company, or are you a loner and OK with it? Will your family and friends reject you (culture is key here, it wouldn’t matter in USA, but other cultures it might matter a lot)? And a follow up to culture is a legal thing - are you gay/lesbian, so same-sex marriage is out of the question? 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Wroxxane: 10:53pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
tintingz: Your moniker reminds me of "The Ting Tings' well said bro. 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Augustap(f): 10:54pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Your life, your choice. Although i think a good husband completes a woman's glory. As for me, I'm already dreaming of many future things, including husband's house 2 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by free2ryhme: 10:57pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: And will you tell the adopted kid the truth about why you are single and unmarried? I am certain you won't. And you will lie and dodge the question. You will adopt a child and want that child to bring home a good spouse from a decent home complete with both parents that you have failed to consider for yourself, abi? People like you God will allow to suffer in their old age cos your wickedness reeks to the high heavens You denied yourself the life of marriage and you will want your adopted children to benefit from one and you want to reap where you didnot sow Evil beings 3 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by MrMcJay(m): 10:57pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
amyzon: Not 79%, not 81%, exactly 80% of married women. Keep cooking up statistics. Go and ask single unmarried women in their advanced years how far. They'll clear your doubts. 5 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by OGHENAOGIE(m): 11:10pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Foodforthought:she get pikin with odegbami oooo it's s choice not to be married |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by okomogo(m): 11:36pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
tintingz:Yes you have a point, no one should force anyone to get married. But the problem of the world today is the result of this freedom of expression and freedom to choose, so many parents abandoned thier responsibility of bringing up their children in the right way, so many kids grow up with either father or mother. This little lack have enormous psychological effect as the child will grow up to become either more masculine or feminine in everything. He feels that is normal because he never had a balanced parenthood. The woman was created for the man and vice versa that is while our reproductive organ is like the bow and socket. Be careful coz your write up might just lead more people astray. 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by vicben27(m): 11:54pm On Oct 27, 2017 |
Consray:like the dude upstairs said that place is gona rust, and remain dusty wit cub web everywer |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Consray(f): 12:03am On Oct 28, 2017 |
vicben27:holy....... shi.t and who told you.....that it not being serviced 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by wealth2al(m): 12:14am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Consray:hmmm |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 12:15am On Oct 28, 2017 |
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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 12:16am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Daeylar: I will say infinity times |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Consray(f): 12:16am On Oct 28, 2017 |
wealth2al:Dude why the hmmm |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by vicben27(m): 12:19am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Consray:lol then she ain't serious! legal servicing is for the married! that means shez gona be getting a lot of diccck in her life 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Consray(f): 12:29am On Oct 28, 2017 |
vicben27:smile |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 12:51am On Oct 28, 2017 |
To get married is not by force neither is it compulsory. It's simply a choice. If you want to? Fine If you don't want to? Fine. Life is easy, we are only making it hard by ourselves. 1 Like |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Makusidi(m): 12:58am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Why did your mother get married 2 your father |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by shineeye1: 1:02am On Oct 28, 2017 |
alexialin: It is wrong to say society forces marriage on people. From time immemorial, men and women have been welcome to single life without let. Till tomorrow, we still have authentic nuns and monks. The real question is to what service do you apply your single life? If you however apply single life to the service of immorality , uncleanness and ungodliness then you have a coming case with your God - like it or not. |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by ghostwritter(m): 1:14am On Oct 28, 2017 |
I'm not Sorry to say this: MOST OF OUR AFRICA LADIES IN THIS PRESENT GENERATION ARE GOING CRAZY AND ARE SO CONFUSED THAT EVEN THE GUYS ARE SCARED AND HOPELESS ABOUT THE FUTURE. Only a real guy (not gay) will knw what i truly mean. 2 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by ghostwritter(m): 1:27am On Oct 28, 2017 |
tintingz:and what make u so sure that 'OPRAH WINFREY' is happy and satisfied without a man? God was not a fool when he created a woman from a man. Don't let fake western lifestyle fool u. |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by ghostwritter(m): 1:31am On Oct 28, 2017 |
tintingz:and what make u so sure that 'OPRAH WINFREY' is happy and satisfied without a man? God was not a fool when he created a woman from a man. Don't let fake western lifestyle fool u. Every woman needs a man and vice-visa. God pls let me find my own wife...let her locate me as soon as possible. 2 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Ishilove: 2:09am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Emekaflatt:You sound perverted and disturbed |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by ireneidiva(f): 2:51am On Oct 28, 2017 |
fabulousfortune:Rubbish |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by mosthigh33: 3:06am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Ecclesiastes 4:9: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?" 4 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Partnerbiz(f): 6:06am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Acidosis: Semen disfiguring ones look? I have never heard a dumber thing.. 2 Likes |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Acidosis(m): 6:16am On Oct 28, 2017 |
Partnerbiz:Why don't you date a poor pr. osti.tute with 15 years of experience? By the way, I didn't say semen! I said semen from different men. |
Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by tensazangetsu20(m): 6:26am On Oct 28, 2017 |
free2ryhme:Not adopted but through a surrogate mother. |
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