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|I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:28pm On Feb 19|
I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.
She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.
But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'
Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.
She doesn't even care.
We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.
To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.
I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.
After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.
Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.
I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.
Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.
Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.
She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night.
Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake.
Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.
I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.
She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief.
Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.
When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.
She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.
She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.
She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.
She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.
There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.
She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...
She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.
I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.
A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality? Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over?
Can she change?
Do you think I can help her, how?
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by SirDelight: 6:33pm On Feb 19|
Considering your doubt whether she's ever been laid or not, it sounds like she's not a promiscuous lady. If poverty has not stopped my manhood from raising head at the moment, I would have asked for her contact coz I can manage such a lady. She would definitely adjust,,, may not be 100% change though.
You may still need to sit her down & talk some sense into her. May God help you both.
She still dey learn where some girls dey oo
Se o fi ori gbale?
Se mo mo e ri ni ?
You see mi ri
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Fahdiga(m): 6:34pm On Feb 19|
Simply say you don't want her around your house anymore
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by fati2001(m): 6:35pm On Feb 19|
you get time.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by josh123(m): 6:36pm On Feb 19|
. she will definitely change if she has a boyfriend
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by ReneJay(f): 6:37pm On Feb 19|
I have a cousin like this but she is a qreen when going out
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:38pm On Feb 19|
Not at all... She's not eating my food. Although her dirtiness makes others uncomfortable, but purpose of being here to find a way to help her.
And I can't get that help without painting a vivid picture of how she is...
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by spinna: 6:38pm On Feb 19|
All these essay u are writing here how does it help her?..gently teach her all these.. anyone can be polished 28 isnt too late
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by LMS1(m): 6:40pm On Feb 19|
Op Teach Her Yourself
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:41pm On Feb 19|
I've talked to her numerous times, and it has yielded nothing.
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by michbax(m): 6:41pm On Feb 19|
As ridiculous as it sounds, that young lady is going through a lot, being an orphan and having to Carter for her every day need could be challenging and depressing.
in all of this, she's family, and family should be shown love and intense care.
And love covereth all fault.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by SirDelight: 6:44pm On Feb 19|
The piece she wrote shows some hatred & aggression truly,,, but the girl in question might not really have anything OP could envy or hate her for.
None of the sides would pay my bills
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Zero2Hundred: 6:44pm On Feb 19|
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:45pm On Feb 19|
I love her very much, no hatred toward her. I only wish there is a way to help her. She definitely could be going through a lot, who isn't.
I'm practically an orphan myself, and I know what it means to struggle alone from a tender age.
We all have our stories. But does it warrant this magnitude of dirtiness? Her only problem is marriage, and I don't think there is anything else.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Theboy21(m): 6:45pm On Feb 19|
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by cchub: 6:50pm On Feb 19|
Mehn, I love your use of English!
As for yo cousin, i don't have any meaningful contribution to her matter.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by marygold(f): 6:51pm On Feb 19|
She is psychologically not okay...You have to help her out of it not running away from her.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:51pm On Feb 19|
I've once considered hooking her up, but discarded it cause I didn't know how she will take it. Remember, she's super religious, and uses Nokia touch.
I've been saving to see if I can get her a smartphone, perhaps it will help her get someone online.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Bola146(f): 6:55pm On Feb 19|
Nobody is above learning teach her. For you not correcting her is bad. Do your best and leave the rest.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Danhoys: 6:58pm On Feb 19|
28 years? She's much older than me, though we might look like age mates. I've tried advising her but it doesn't yield any result.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by habsydiamond(m): 7:02pm On Feb 19|
If u like ursef I think it's better u take her back to the village to grandma where can be stooling and throwing it like javelin into the bush... It's not easy to upgrade people like this... But it is possible. Just keep teaching her though she's old enough to know.. Or hook her up with a guy.. Ladies detest it when guys abuse them on poor hygiene... That should change her.
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by DryMouth: 7:04pm On Feb 19|
I think say na me dirty pass.
If not for my female neighbor, my apartment will be like a poultry farm.
This lady comes in every weekend to do the cleaning.
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Tbvxl: 7:07pm On Feb 19|
Please help her out! She needs help and orientation though
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by smartty68(m): 7:33pm On Feb 19|
She dresses to compliment her dirtiness
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by austine4real(m): 7:46pm On Feb 19|
Na pesin pikin u describe like this
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by laluski(m): 7:48pm On Feb 19|
Don't even bother,
A useless and dirty girl at 28 years is a useless and dirty girl forever...
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|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by merieam16(f): 7:58pm On Feb 19|
Av u told her abt somthing u wrote here...or u just want to tell us b4 letting her kno
|Re: I've Never Seen A Girl As Dirty As My Cousin Sister by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:04pm On Feb 19|
Then pray for her, it's not normal then. When you've done the obvious and nothing works, there's more to it
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