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My story is a bit long so grab your popcorn and soda. I'm a 29yrs old good looking lady but in a state of confusion right now over some wrong decisions i made long time ago, i blame it all on the day i met him though. I met my supposed to be husband in the year 2008 at a friends party and we clicked instantly. Our love knew no bound as we had the future planned out based on our feelings as at that time. Moving past that. I lost my parents to an auto crash in the year 2012 and was seriously shaken by this, he stood by me and this increased my love for him. Did i skip the part that he had no degree then? i decided to sponsor his education in Illinois since my favorite cousin resides there and this will make getting aquinted to the environment easier. He was super happy and brought his family to our house to appreciate the golden opportunity. His father is not a broke man though but just one hell of a selfish man. I was supposed to go with him for 2mths, then return home to take care of business but my visa was denied owing to some document issues. I never bothered to re-apply so decided to save the ticket cash for some other things he might need abroad. He left for the States early 2014, this left me empty but i was happy cos its for our future. ...... (Contd)



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Things was great between us until early 2016 when his demand for money was outrageous, i queried what he needed such huge money for since he has a coded job. He took the fight to the next stage with me and wouldnt even answer my calls for almost a week. I called my cousin and she told me its been long she they both saw. Things became epileptic between us and meanwhile before all this drama, his sister in Nigeria supported me with a quick loan when i was in need of cash and all this money went to this same man at the end of the day. I made up my mind to shake him up to his senses, so i called him to know his decision about us since we planned getting married Dec 2016 and i was not seeing any sign, he told me to decide what ever i want to do since obviously i can tell he cannot mix his education with any marriage. I went numb for almost 30secs before i decided to speak up but the words wouldnt come out, i took some time off in bed. About 7pm their time i place a skype call through and to my amazement it was a teenage girl that answered and told me he went out with his wife, shocked but i held myself together to get more info. She was holding a baby that is half my man, so no doubt about paternity. I had to play the girl to know my cousin is the so called wife. I was still for a moments but the girl brought me back to conciousness with "hello" "hello" (Contd)

Took me 3days to regain my lost sanity, i placed a call through which he answered and was still acting snubbish so i could tell the girl failed to relay the skype call. i ask him where i wronged him but he blamed it on his tedious course work. I asked him when last he saw my cousin but he denied seeing her in 4mths, then i proceeded to ask how their baby is doing. He stuttered and hunged up on me and ever since both of them would not answer. I went to his family and funny none of them knew about his relationship and child, infact the father called him and lay curses that will last him a life time plus cursed himself if he ever let him step his foot into his house ever. Back to me now, i am broken and have been trying to mend this crisis but it still keeps coming back in all forms, although i paid off all the debt and currently doing better but this whole story i could not share with a soul since last year. People ask me about him and when we are planning to tie the knot but this only brings me more fresh pain. I am thinking about relocating but it will affect business badly. people how can i mend please!!!



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Really... Unmhmm.

Nothing wrong,we men have been doing it for long now without complaining.

mrdickhead:
Nothing wrong,we men have been doing it for long now without complaining.

Why will you take that kind of risk and stressful decision, to Sponsor ur boyfriend in school And its even outside d country Well, my dear, that's life for you, i will advice u move on, if possible change ur environment. Its not all who you render helps to, pay u in returned.

At times God uses someone else to reward you. So yours will never be different in dis case...Just keep trusting in God. Try to put urself in together, only you can give urself happiness.

izaray:
Why will you take that kind of risk and stressful decision, to Sponsor ur boyfriend in school And its even outside d country Well, my dear, that's life for you, i will advice u move on, if possible change ur environment. Its not all who you render helps to, pay u in returned.

At times God uses someone else to reward you. So yours will never be different in dis case...Just keep trusting in God. Try to put urself in together, only you can give urself happiness.

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mrdickhead:
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Aww..sorry oh, how can i then delete it pls?

izaray:
Aww..sorry oh, how can i then delete it pls?

don't mind deleting it's ok