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Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 30, 2017
Virginity doesn't exist...
One more time, virginity doesn't exist.

The concept of virginity is entirely sexist.
What you've come to believe and accept over the years as the term "virginity" is simply a social construct that has been used to restrain, limit and diminish women as being inferior to their male counterparts.


There are no medical or biological definitions of virginity.

Saying virginity can be referred to as a state of a woman who has never had sexual intercourse is wrong and has no meaning.

Why?

Sex does not imply only vaginal penetration, it also covers anal sex, MouthAction and other sexual acts. Does that mean a girl/woman who engages only in anal sex but has never tried out vaginal sex is a virgin, simply because she takes it only through the rear or backdoor?

You may choose to say, "when a woman's hymen is broken, she loses her virginity."

But that is also wrong, false and misleading.
A hymen is not a sheet that seals the vagina, it has hole(s) that allows secretion or outflow of vaginal fluids as well as penetration. The hymen is elastic and in most cases expands to accommodate the penis.
In fact, not all women bleed during their first sex.
The weirdest of them all, not every woman is born with a hymen.

So you see? You can't determine the virginity of a woman by her hymen and virginity, therefore, doesn't exist.

I find this important to point out, because of the misogynistic tendency it has spurred in the society.
A man is expected to have lot of sex and not be bothered about keeping his virginity but a woman is denied the pleasure of sex, her sex life stifled, she is made to believe the need to remain a "virgin" until marriage.
Then a man with bloated ego, who has slept with almost every and any girl, will spew rubbish about wanting a virgin for a wife.

It is high time we alienate this concept that seeks to subjugate women as inferior beings.
Virginity doesn't exist.

Mitch Ihejirika

source-https://naijastoryz..com.ng/2017/10/virginity-doesnt-exist-by-mitch.html

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by IamOlusa(m): 1:09pm On Oct 30, 2017
Haha
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by IamLEGEND1: 1:30pm On Oct 30, 2017
saw the topic & actually thought I was going to come in and read some mind-bending piece that was going to enable my mind to transcend the limits of these earthly shackles.......

But then, I forgot this was romance section...

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by jaksmillioniar: 8:43am On Nov 01, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
saw the topic & actually thought I was going to come in and read some mind-bending piece that was going to enable my mind to transcend the limits of these earthly shackles.......

But then, I forgot this was romance section...
I blog abt sekxy on her birthday u begin to to talk as a guy dat tink with his ass witout sence now u wished others blog for u cos today is ur birthday
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Gomd: 8:59am On Nov 01, 2017
The OP is a girl that has been used by many guys and is just finding consolations

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 01, 2017
Trash.

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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Nobody: 7:14am On Nov 02, 2017
Gomd:
The OP is a girl that has been used by many guys and is just finding consolations
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by NightHound(m): 7:26am On Nov 02, 2017
Interesting concept. But virginity is real, for men and women. What relevance we decide to give to it is a different matter.
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Gomd: 9:08am On Nov 02, 2017
naijastoryz:
really grin grin


Lol... If you are not a girl... don't converse with me man.
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 02, 2017
Oh gaawwwd. grin grin
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by teebankz10(m): 9:25am On Nov 02, 2017
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Virginity fu*cking exists OP,but most have lost it not by only penetration of a d*ck but Ignorance.
Ignorance in the sense that they think its only when you have sex the very first time in your life that's make you loose your virginity,hell No
Even if your hymen is still intact and you Masturbate ,Engage in hot romance and others ,then you are no longer a virgin.
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Prefola: 10:14am On Nov 02, 2017
OP i feel your pain...it is obvious you had/still being used by different guys,hence your anger toward men in the concluding part of your writeup...
I have come to realise that those that have lost their virginity probably in careless ways tend to believe that there are no more existing virgins and also look for way to persuade other virgins to lose theirs so as to suppress some level of guilt...
Well op for ur info, i'm a virgin and i'm also a guy and a proud one at that...
Op go see a counsellor it would do you lots of good and try to move on..
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Heloct(f): 10:27am On Nov 02, 2017
Your opinion sounds irrelevant..
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by NNAMDIII(m): 11:45pm On Nov 03, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
saw the topic & actually thought I was going to come in and read some mind-bending piece that was going to enable my mind to transcend the limits of these earthly shackles.......

But then, I forgot this was romance section...
You and this your meme, GOT don finish you come quickly change go Arrow tongue
Re: Virginity Doesn't Exist- Opinion by Nobody: 11:57pm On Nov 03, 2017
Another controversial topic I wouldn't engage in , not even to save my life.

Lol! cheesy

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