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lovelygurl:
It's more like one out of millions, nothing special, replaceable in a second, just like you have already experienced. I hope she really enjoyed the sex from the manager's bro

Ouch

lovelygurl:
Thanks jare, him acting all pained just annoyed me, as if he has a reason to do so

Imagine my dear. Poster exhibit perfect characteristics of a narcissist if you ask me.

Rokia2:
Imagine my dear. Poster exhibit perfect characteristics of a narcissist if you ask me.

He's definitely one, already feeling like a mini God for buying just snacks. Not for a roof to live under, not for sending her to school because of her passion for education but because of buying snacks. That girl just escaped a real narcissist. What if he had done more? We wouldn't stop hearing of it, 24/7 non-stop

@OP

You're a typical subjugator. Your perfidious and opportunistic (a predaceous one at that) attitudes speak volumes in your submission herein. There's nothing good about your actions, inactions and intentions towards her. The mission of your kind is always simply to have your prey as your conquest. However, in the event that you lose out like in this case, you resort to either marring, backbiting, frustrating, hating or killing your prey.

LordKO:
@OP

You're a typical subjugator. Your perfidious and opportunistic (a predaceous one at that) attitudes speak volume in your submission herein. There's nothing good about your actions, inactions and intentions towards her. The mission of your kind is always simply to have your prey as your conquest. However, in the event that you lose out like in this case, you resort to either marring, backbiting, frustrating, hating or in some cases kill her.

As in, just look at the way he's speaking of her

laborious:
big ups bruh!! Money making is the priority, but you know that feeling when you go jam fufu inside a phone you bought brand new...lol

lovelygurl:
As in, just look at the way he's speaking of her

I'm just happy that he says he doesn't like girls again, he should just become a homosexual and face his fellow men, starting with that his friend that says he should "mould the girl to his taste".

Let women rest abeg. All these men that don't like girls should please face their fellow men,

Thanks.

lovelygurl:
As in, just look at the way he's speaking of her

He's of no good at all.

Daeylar:
I'm just happy that he says he doesn't like girls again, he should just become a homosexual and face his fellow men, starting with that his friend that says he should "mould the girl to his taste".

Let women rest abeg. All these men that don't like girls should please face their fellow men,

Thanks.

I think that's the best option too. All this whining here and there is starting to get on my nerves. They all should become gay. This "I dont want a girl child" "Girls are useless" etc is all starting to get irritating, especially since those fools will be judging billions of women by the few they meet. Common sense is even incapable of telling them they need a woman to even have a child, including their precious baby boy

SelflessMaya!

You're priceless

lovelygurl:
I think that's the best option too. All this whining here and there is starting to get on my nerves. They all should become gay. This "I dont want a girl child" "Girls are useless" etc is all starting to get irritating, especially since those fools will be judging billions of women by the few they meet. Common sense is even incapable of telling them they need a woman to even have a child, including their precious baby boy

Even women are joining in this I don't want a girl child bs, I'm just tired of it all.
Congrats op you've choosen the right part. You don't need to like girls. Please face your fellow men, thanks once again

laborious:
Yes I just said it, right now I cannot sleep, because its just too heavy for me to bear alone, I read earlier today about some writer who never wanted a girl child, I don't wish for a girl child too, as a matter of fact I wish the world could be complete without them,
I meet this small girl some months ago at a bar where she works, she's not that pretty, dark skinned, a little above 18 years, I felt pity for her because I just wondered how a girl as young as that would go out to hustle, then I liked her because of the courage she had to be working, I use to tip her most of the time, my friend saw that I liked her, her encouraged me to get a phone number, but I hesitated, saying I don't want to be a pedophile, my friend then convinced me further that she is the kind of girl that one can help, mould to ones taste, bla bla bla..I still did not yield, but latter on I just thought of gettting close to her just to know her, but alas! She had quit the job, I felt like nigga you don dull,i tried to get her number from her colleagues but no one has it, so I concluded that maybe it was not meant to be, exactly a month later, I meet her again at the hotel I use to hang out almost every minute of everyday coz its close to my house, I was surprised, and It was like this is a sign, that very day I told her a lot of things, how I have been searching for her and how to contact her and all, she told me just started working there and I was glad, I advised her,tried to talk to her about life, I discovered she has passion for education and all,so I generally encouraged her and asked her out, after she had told me her age o..she agreed and we started seeing, I initiated sex but she said no so I calm down, at the hotel they don't treat her well, in terms feeding, like they eat once in a day , as my normal self, I use to give her some money to eat and I buy her stuffs, I had called her earlier today while I was in town, asked her what I can buy for her from town and she said anything, then I bought some stuffs she could eat so she will be fine for the night,so this evening, I was at the hotel as usual, they boiled yam and they were eating it with just palm oil, I was surprised, I had not given her what I bought for her though because I don't want guys around to have a bad impression about her, you know what I mean, so I told her not to worry that I got her something better to eat and that later in the evening I will bring it to her as she was busy then, so while I was on my way to the hotel I called her to come out to get what I bought for her, but she was answering like someone taking the deek, I was confused like what's going on? Because I just left there like 3 mins ago, although I made them believe I wasn't coming, back there, I called again she could not pick up, I tried several times but when she picked she could hardly speak out, like she was moaning and trying to talk at the same time...so I entered inside the hotel, the only people remaining there is the manager and his younger brother, the manager was sitting outside while his brother was inside, the manager knew I was into the girl but based on the fact that I was a good customer he could not stop me, I went close to there room, omo I just they hear...paaaa..paaaa.paaaaa.paaaa..see smashing ooooo. My mind cut, I weak, I tire, as in my heart ached me, I dnt know what to think, I just dragged myself home with the stuffs I bought for her.. I don't know what is wrong with our girls o... I don't know what the circumstance could be, because I can't imagine it, was she threatened,or brainwashed, what couLd they have done to her? For her to just open leg give people feeding. You with yam and palm oil!! All these things that I have seen and experience just makes me lose hope in girls, that I can't just help it but to dislike them...

Bro, it's hard, but you have to move on.

This is a case of "she's just not that into you".

If you buy a woman gifts or spend on her from now till tomorrow and she's not attracted to you, it'll just be a scam.

There are other girls out there.

Repent For The Kingdom Of God Is Here... Op you Dull... You Sha had In Mind That You Will Fvck her after You Have Her Food Or Help For A While. Life Doesnt Work Like That. I See You Are Attracted To Her. You Should Have Helped Her Out Of There and Not Give Her Food. Na wa for You O... I Sure Say You Had Evil Intentions of Sex. Oga You Are Going To Hell... Even The Girl Who They Say Is A Survivor Is going To Hell Too. Infact All Of You Are Going To Hell...



Wait!What Am I Even Sayin Sef... Anyway, God Doesnt Give A f**k

op is self righteous u ask 4 sex b4 it was turned down nw d grl z getin it frm sm1 else then u hate girls continue hating oo get ur act right good grls r stil available pele

laborious:
Yes I just said it, right now I cannot sleep, because its just too heavy for me to bear alone, I read earlier today about some writer who never wanted a girl child, I don't wish for a girl child too, as a matter of fact I wish the world could be complete without them,
I meet this small girl some months ago at a bar where she works, she's not that pretty, dark skinned, a little above 18 years, I felt pity for her because I just wondered how a girl as young as that would go out to hustle, then I liked her because of the courage she had to be working, I use to tip her most of the time, my friend saw that I liked her, her encouraged me to get a phone number, but I hesitated, saying I don't want to be a pedophile, my friend then convinced me further that she is the kind of girl that one can help, mould to ones taste, bla bla bla..I still did not yield, but latter on I just thought of gettting close to her just to know her, but alas! She had quit the job, I felt like nigga you don dull,i tried to get her number from her colleagues but no one has it, so I concluded that maybe it was not meant to be, exactly a month later, I meet her again at the hotel I use to hang out almost every minute of everyday coz its close to my house, I was surprised, and It was like this is a sign, that very day I told her a lot of things, how I have been searching for her and how to contact her and all, she told me just started working there and I was glad, I advised her,tried to talk to her about life, I discovered she has passion for education and all,so I generally encouraged her and asked her out, after she had told me her age o..she agreed and we started seeing, I initiated sex but she said no so I calm down, at the hotel they don't treat her well, in terms feeding, like they eat once in a day , as my normal self, I use to give her some money to eat and I buy her stuffs, I had called her earlier today while I was in town, asked her what I can buy for her from town and she said anything, then I bought some stuffs she could eat so she will be fine for the night,so this evening, I was at the hotel as usual, they boiled yam and they were eating it with just palm oil, I was surprised, I had not given her what I bought for her though because I don't want guys around to have a bad impression about her, you know what I mean, so I told her not to worry that I got her something better to eat and that later in the evening I will bring it to her as she was busy then, so while I was on my way to the hotel I called her to come out to get what I bought for her, but she was answering like someone taking the deek, I was confused like what's going on? Because I just left there like 3 mins ago, although I made them believe I wasn't coming, back there, I called again she could not pick up, I tried several times but when she picked she could hardly speak out, like she was moaning and trying to talk at the same time...so I entered inside the hotel, the only people remaining there is the manager and his younger brother, the manager was sitting outside while his brother was inside, the manager knew I was into the girl but based on the fact that I was a good customer he could not stop me, I went close to there room, omo I just they hear...paaaa..paaaa.paaaaa.paaaa..see smashing ooooo. My mind cut, I weak, I tire, as in my heart ached me, I dnt know what to think, I just dragged myself home with the stuffs I bought for her.. I don't know what is wrong with our girls o... I don't know what the circumstance could be, because I can't imagine it, was she threatened,or brainwashed, what couLd they have done to her? For her to just open leg give people feeding. You with yam and palm oil!! All these things that I have seen and experience just makes me lose hope in girls, that I can't just help it but to dislike them...

manager bro,av been a regular customers to that girl,u are jst a new comer,nd u won't to stop wat av being happing since ,in jst two week,Abba brother kole work,wat I won't u to knw is that they av b fucking each other b4 u knw the girl,if u still need her jst ask her that is she dating guy,nd the only thing that can stop her from continuing fucking the guy is for her to stop working in the hotel, if u av more than enough u can help her leave a normal life,nd never expect anytin in return,cos u can't make her ur house wife again,ur mind will always b there,jst help her base on ,u are capable of helping her,nd notin more.

RaggedyAnn:
Translation: uniquely disgusting.

I just made lemonade out of the lemon you gave...

lovelygurl:
I think that's the best option too. All this whining here and there is starting to get on my nerves. They all should become gay. This "I dont want a girl child" "Girls are useless" etc is all starting to get irritating, especially since those fools will be judging billions of women by the few they meet. Common sense is even incapable of telling them they need a woman to even have a child, including their precious baby boy

See how this worthless cheap, flappy pwssy is talking, as if anyone does anything for free.
Even God asks for love in return or did you miss that while schooling your sisters into prostitwtion, you dunce o f a LovePeddler. When op said he iniated sex he wanted to know whether she was a LovePeddler simple. If he wanted to Bleep her, how much will it cost him in cash or lies , the guy just wanted to know whether the girl was worth it and not spend money on a LovePeddler or useless entity like you. First lady of ashawo. You act like you don't need men, but your just mad that your bf ditched you.

Look bitchw, I need you to take a good look at your life, ever thing you have a man gave you. Look at your hair, at those nails, then think. What have you ever done for a random guy that you met, at least op did something, and he didn't demand nor force the girl.

You can't help and the people who are trying you are bad mouthing them.

donsimo:
See how this worthless cheap, flappy pwssy is talking, as if anyone does anything for free.
Even God asks for love in return or did you miss that while schooling your sisters into prostitwtion, you dunce o f a LovePeddler. When op said he iniated sex he wanted to know whether she was a LovePeddler simple. If he wanted to Bleep her, how much will it cost him in cash or lies , the guy just wanted to know whether the girl was worth it and not spend money on a LovePeddler or useless entity like you. First lady of ashawo. You act like you don't need men, but your just mad that your bf ditched you.

Look bitchw, I need you to take a good look at your life, ever thing you have a man gave you. Look at your hair, at those nails, then think. What have you ever done for a random guy that you met, at least op did something, and he didn't demand nor force the girl.

You can't help and the people who are trying you are bad mouthing them.

Looooool !!!!

Looooool

Omg!!! I can't

Ok sha, let's pretend you made sense

selflessmaya:
how long were u with the girl? since u know this small girl has been a hustler since she was younger etc... why didn't u try to take her away from the hotel? do u really think buying her snacks would change habits she formed to survive? i dont understand, why were u ok with the girl living in a hotel? do u know what arrangements she had to agree to in order to live there? u saw the poor living conditions of the place, u say this girl is quite young, young enough to make u look like a pedo for dating her, yes, i know u stated she's legal. but how were u ok with your girl who is quite young, living in a hotel?? u could have saved the snack money and gotten her a small apartment even if it's one room face me i face u, u say she's hard-working, she could have earned her rent.

i have heard stories of really ungrateful girls who turned around and disrespected those who chose to care for them but this is NOT one of such tales. u didnt do enough for this girl to expect her to not do what she has to do to survive. men have found ashawo on the street, cleaned her up and turned her into a new leaf. while i dont like the idea of girls waiting to be rescued. u cant meet an ashawo, try to get her to change and allow her to still live in a brothel. so why would u find a young street girl who now lives in a hotel, accepts the sh!t food she's fed and u think she does not dream of leaving there? if u didnt love her enough or u weren't capable of removing her from her circumstances, what do u expect? that your "love" and snacks are her priority? hian

You just spoke my mind

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laborious:
guy calm down, I never gave the impression that she owes me, of course she did not owe me anything, I just share a story of an horrible turn of events, and yes you made my point for me, she threw away a lot last night to someone she barely know, no matter how much I explain it,you of a person cannot understand my point of view. Let's just leave at that, no vex bros...

Your point of view is bullshi#t though.

She is clearly having sex with her managers brother and many others in exchange for financial benefits, like accommodation and food and probably work. You come into the picture and gave her food and now you expect her to say No! to someone that is giving her accommodation and a job? how can you even compete?
If you think she's worth it and you are a capable person, you should have rented her an apartment of her own and then provided her with a job.

laborious:
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OP. Do not be phased by the comments against you, I had similar experience but unlike you n the jerks berating you, I do not just help random people. Help should be offered to only those deserving. I presume you were on your path to ascertaining if the girl is worthy of further help and since you came about her sexcapade it's a justification not to help her any further.

Listen you owe no one no help but yourself. Do not be phased by what other have to say no matter how many likes their comment earned. We all have a standard we hold people to and I think the poor girl just failed yours. The next course of action is to abandon her n that chapter is closed. Let nobody cajole you to do more for anyone you can not ascertain they are worthy.

Reason is the same girl will be frolicking with several men even when you build her a mansion n open a boutique for her. You just dodged a bullet no that for.

hanassholesolo:
Your point of view is bullshi#t though.

She is clearly having sex with her managers brother and many others in exchange for financial benefits, like accommodation and food and probably work. You come into the picture and gave her food and now you expect her to say No! to someone that is giving her accommodation and a job? how can you even compete?
If you think she's worth it and you are a capable person, you should have rented her an apartment of her own and then provided her with a job.

So many insane people on NL. Why did you not request the OP should grant her a place in heaven just because he wants to help her.

ayokellany:
OP. Do not be phased by the comments against you, I had similar experience but unlike you n the jerks berating you, I do not just help random people. Help should be offered to only those deserving. I presume you were on your part to ascertaining if the girl is worthy of further help and since you came about her sexcapade it's a justification not to help her any further.

Listen you owe no one no help but yourself. Do not be phased by what other have to say no matter how many likes their comment earned. We all have a standard we hold people to and I think the poor girl just failed yours. The next course of action is to abandon her n that chapter is closed. Let nobody cajole you to do more for anyone you can not ascertain they are worthy.

Reason is the same girl will be frolicking with several men even when you build her a mansion n open a boutique for her. You just dodged a bullet no that for.

Best comment for me

laborious:
bruh, all this reunion is not up to two weeks old, I was not capitalizing on buying her snack. I have bought more than that for her, I just added that part to show that I cared,we discussed how much i dislike her working there today,and the truth is there is nothing wrong with a girl working and sleeping in an hotel as long as she has her own personal room there and she knows what she's doing, the essence of the write up is just to show that our girls these days don't know a bit of what there are doing, they are living a messed up life, the most annoying part is we still discuss the way guys use and dump girl today, and she forming all holy and shit...jst cnt upload our chat.. she wasn't shagging for money,bruh she has a house she stays its just the ethic of the job that warrants her to stay at the hotel, and she is comfortable living there, she just aint loyal.

When there is an abundance of women to pick from, why settle for a LovePeddler? It's not a feminine problem, it's a LovePeddler problem.

Do not invest your feelings into undeserving vessels. Don't hate girls, like it or not, i'm sure Nigeria has atleast one million virgins of 20 years old. So it's your choice that's the problem, it's good to lend a hand out, but your expectation is the problem.

People don't change easily, next time find a decent girl to fall in love with, social media, religious centres, working places, buses, you will see decent girls everywhere, don't let this one miscontrue how you see girls. Hell No, she's not yours

ayokellany:
So many insane people on NL. Why did you not request the OP should grant her a place in heaven just because he wants to help her.

he is the one that kept seeing the "Good" thing in her. He wasn't looking at the big picture, like most small minded people.

btw: i've been in OP's shoes and i went the exact same way but got the same result as OP. he's not wrong for caring about her, but reality is reality and it will not distort because of your love or your feelings.

we simply aren't capable of a thing.

Luckygurl:
SelflessMaya!

You're priceless

this OP they crazy oooo ...he say e just dey hear paaa.... pasaa......paaaaa..... paaaaaa..... nairaland no go kill someone with laughter...

Ok ok ok

ayokellany:
OP. Do not be phased by the comments against you, I had similar experience but unlike you n the jerks berating you, I do not just help random people. Help should be offered to only those deserving. I presume you were on your part to ascertaining if the girl is worthy of further help and since you came about her sexcapade it's a justification not to help her any further.

Listen you owe no one no help but yourself. Do not be phased by what other have to say no matter how many likes their comment earned. We all have a standard we hold people to and I think the poor girl just failed yours. The next course of action is to abandon her n that chapter is closed. Let nobody cajole you to do more for anyone you can not ascertain they are worthy.

Reason is the same girl will be frolicking with several men even when you build her a mansion n open a boutique for her. You just dodged a bullet no that for.

chai see better talk...blessings fall on you oo

laborious:
chai see better talk...blessings fall on you oo

Eyah sorry I feel your pain,but you should have walked in to be sure of your suspicion,so what happened after that?have you guys spoken on the phone?did you confront her? My dear that is life,move on she doesn't deserve you.

Faithscharms2:
Eyah sorry I feel your pain,but you should have walked in to be sure of your suspicion,so what happened after that?have you guys spoken on the phone?did you confront her? My dear that is life,move on she doesn't deserve you.

Thanks for your sound words, I actually confronted her, and. She denied. right now she has rotated around guys in the area..lol

this is wat u get from being too nice...guys beware some girls dont like nice guys they prefer the other way

laborious:
brov it was the managers bro that was shagging her,they had no guest and its not actually a big hotel like that, I told the manager I came for my charger, and me as a conscious fellow, heard there voices and banging noise coz they taught I had gone home,

One thing you should know bruh most or almost all hotels manager sleep with their workers and if you declined they make the working conditions he’ll for you ..