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5years relationship.

Meeting your father in law to be for the first time.


He took you to a room and said, 'sorry son, you can't marry my daughter because i have someone else in mind for her.


But there is a sack/Ghana must go at that corner, you can fill them up, pack as much as you want and go start all over again.


I dont want to see you near my daughter anymore.



What would yo do?


*. Take the offer

*. Reject the offer

*. Blow whistle

Take the offer ofcourse

I will collect it ASAP.

Reject the offer.

Three things come to play here:

1. Take the offer and he sees you as a person that has no regard for his daughter that can abandon her when the tough times come calling.

2. Reject the offer and still insist on marrying the daughter. He sees you as a man of your words.

3. You blow whistle meaning that you can't keep a family secret. Every family has a secret.

See me see Explorers oh , 5 yrs relationship can't end like that na.

I love my girl and I can never leave her. So I would take the money and leave through the back door and Text her later that my Pastor said we can't be.

So I successfully didn't leave her.

Watin I dey talk self

Lemme carry my money and be going.

Walks outta thread.

Reject the offer asap..
What if the old man wan test me?

morally I'm supposed to reject d offer but based on how d economy be I will accept


WHO MORAL HELP?

I will marry her and still eat from it.

Such scenario can't really happen though, even when it happens it depends on how your current life is (your worth).

If you want self respect, you can walk away.
If you don't want 5yrs of your life to waste, you take the offer and leave.
Because either ways the Father remains the one giving out his daughter and if he ain't giving you, you can't have it.

dfrost:
Reject the offer.

Three things come to play here:

1. Take the offer and he sees you as a person that has no regard for his daughter that can abandon her when the tough times come calling.

2. Reject the offer and still insist on marrying the daughter. He sees you as a man of your words.

3. You blow whistle meaning that you can't keep a family secret. Every family has a secret.

Oga leave man of your words alone and kolet the money, did Buhari keep to his promises to Nigerians but he's still Nigeria's president

I've even started planning what I will do with the money sef

I will reject the offer not because of love but because am a target immediately and there's no guarantee am making it alive. Also that maybe a test to know what you want from the family. And am certain that if am steadfast, I will get more than that money at the end of it all

take the offer then run go nnamdi azikwe airport blow the whistle then me and my baby girl fly to toronto

But lead us not into temptation

BeeBeeOoh:
Oga leave man of your words alone and kolet the money, did Buhari keep to his promises to Nigerians but he's still Nigeria's president

We are different. I'm not the person you mentioned. You don't know me and I don't know you either. Leave politics for a while BeeBeeOoh.

Na wa for ooo. Make that man matter no wounjure you ooo.

Good morning. How was your night?

michlins:
I will reject the offer not because of love but because am a target immediately and there's no guarantee am making it alive. Also that maybe a test to know what you want from the family. And am certain that if am steadfast, I will get more than that money at the end of it all

You my man is the real MVP.

dfrost:
We are different. I'm not the person you mentioned. You don't know me and I don't know you either. Leave politics for a while BeeBee.Ooh.

Na wa for ooo. Make that man matter no wounjure you ooo.

Good morning. How was your night?

Eye yam just trying to tell you that "man of your words" no dey pay that much again. Good morning bro, my night was awesome. Hope yiurs was great??

BeeBeeOoh:
Eye yam just trying to tell you that "man of your words" no dey pay that much again. Good morning bro, my night was awesome. Hope yiurs was great??

It still pays. It depends on your ethos. My night was okay but this heat no gree me jare.

dfrost:
It still pays. It depends on your ethos. My night was okay but this heat no gree me jare.

no be small thing bro and PHCN no dey even help at all

It could be a test. What if you are about to start packing the money and he says you value money more than his daughter and asks you to leave or he calls the police. That way, you lose on both sides.

Look at them! They will still be the one to say "this hoes ain't loyal" when actually they're man-hoe

when i get to that bridge i know what to do

teresafaith:
Look at them! They will still be the one to say "this hoes ain't loyal" when actually they're man-hoe

your father dont have that kind of money and you are still single


stop blaming men for your frustrations

.

Hmmm

free2ryhme:
your father dont have that kind of money and you are still single


stop blaming men for your frustrations

Your father is a retarded slowpoke, whose IQ is less than 0, that was why he couldn't afford to train a nuisance like you

I Cant Take The Offer... He Could Even Be Testing You

Collect the money and impregnate her . I Dont need marry her.

teresafaith:
Your father is a retarded slowpoke, whose IQ is less than 0, that was why he couldn't afford to train a nuisance like you

people with the worst experience share the most advice


cheers

What of its just a test, they might not even allow you to carry the money away, probably just to show his daughter that you love money more than her.
Will prefer a bank or property transfer

Haba explorers,

It's USD and not Zimbabwean dollars

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see people that are rejecting the offer.. Kontunu!!! I will take the offer, blow whistle then take my baby back.