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Davindal:
I'm confused...guys! Since I ditched my girlfriend last year(September), following you guys advice, I have been unable to date any other girl.

Those that I have come across, so far, keep reminding me that they can't trust me with their hearts(love). And when I asked the reason for such assertion, they respectively echoed the same grievance, by saying they could not date or be in love with me due to my appearance.

I was not satisfied; as I inquired further, I discovered their men fears which are:

* You are too handsome to be my boyfriend; I want a man who will be mine alone, not someone who will be a potential cheat.

* I feel insecure being around you, because other girls might attack me.

* You appear like a play-boy.

Please... I want a genuine advice on this because this is getting out of hand. All the girls coming around me are unattractive to me in certain degree, but those average looking ones I hope dating one of them appear to be apprehensive my appearance.

osedvgirl:
with that okpolo eyes in your profile?

tunezvic:
you are not looking bad but I fine pass you.. Lolz

rejoicebae:
lmao,,no peace for the wicked bro,,u re very wicked,,evil!!lwkmd

Mhizkel:
He looks average tho

vicstar:
u take style dey tell us say u dey wear "tia tia" bra

Davindal:
Lol... Hmm... You are judging by the DP's background? Well, I took the picture in front of Gusau Military cantonement administrative block's window in Zamfara state yesterday in the evening.

It may interest You to know, I'm a corper serving in Zamfara State; initially, I was posted to remote part of the state(Anka) before I protested and was subsequently relocated to the military cantonment in Gusau the capital, due to my course of study.

I reported there yesterday after arrival from PH last Wenesday. I now have the military facility as my new PPA. Thanks to my LGI in the initial place that I was posted.

Next time... Don't judge by what you see enh.

Mhizkel:
Op, you not alone in this.
It's a misconception people have towards a beautiful/handsome person.
The handsome guys are being tagged as a "player" cos ladies keep giving them attention.
While the beautiful ladies are seen as "flirts"
Cos of the numerous advance they get from the opposite sex.

The thing is; Anyone could be a player/flirt irrespective of their physical look.

My advice is you shouldn't force anyone into a relationship with you. The one who doesn't go with the said misconception would surely come to you.

Mhizkel:
Op, you not alone in this.
It's a misconception people have towards a beautiful/handsome person.
The handsome guys are being tagged as a "player" cos ladies keep giving them attention.
While the beautiful ladies are seen as "flirts"
Cos of the numerous advance they get from the opposite sex.

The thing is; Anyone could be a player/flirt irrespective of their physical look.you have made my day

My advice is you shouldn't force anyone into a relationship with you. The one who doesn't go with the said misconception would surely come to you.

Nesso:
For ur small mind now u sef think say u fine oh. Wonders shall never end my pple.

Danjuma827:
you have made my day