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Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by delishpot: 10:05pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
emperormossad: You just blabbing up and down did you hear that she aborted? That is the problem I have with your comment in the first place. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by emperormossad(m): 10:07pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
delishpot:Do you need to be told? Use your brain. That tool has a function. Emm...please stop masturbating on my mentions. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by delishpot: 10:09pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
emperormossad: If I want masturbate on your mention, I no go fit cum sef. È no Make sense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by omolorlarh: 10:10pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86:Very funny guy. She should not tell her family that you have a child? Who should she tell? Am sure you did something that provoked her. So oga,what did you do to her? The mistake she made was ever accepting not to tell them . 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by emperormossad(m): 10:15pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
delishpot:[color=#006600][/color]. Bros sombori cannot play with you again. Lolz 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by akpunda86: 10:16pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
i wrote this story when i was boiling,i have forgotten it and now nairaland bringing it up to front page, Ok the ladies have all insulted me THANK YOU.Welli told my wife before marriage that i havea kid outside and i told the mum.just the two,but if the mum goes ahead and tells the sistas and brodas,i dont know but my little daugter called me and my wife flamed up and said that its not only her that i have that i have many kids outside. WELL SHE HAS APOLOGISED SINCE BUT AS ALWAYS WILL DO AGAIN ANODA ONE.ITs not her fault for the miscarriages but its painful and having physchological effects on me. For the ladies that insulted meand are insulting me thank you, for the men that understand thank u for my wife i love her but her nagging irritates me Thank u all hope she changes ,im too old for all her naggs,wanna liveand die in peace,thank u all. my name is akpunda but her nagg makes me weak |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:16pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86 update us now.. Have you guys settled |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
You sound highly immature op....whiny and all that 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by grandstar(m): 10:18pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: First and foremost you owe your child financial, emotional and spiritual attention.(1 Timothy 5:8, Deuteronomy 6:6-9). You should never have abandoned your child. The white man says, " Love me, love my dog.. Your wife seems desperate to have a child and may be very insecure due to that affect. 9 miscarriages is highly demoralising and its time you opted for a fertility clinic. This is worsened by your being tired of this miscarriages. That is blaming it on her. This is cruel and insensitive and would leave heartbroken and angry. Confess your love to her and promise to stand by her whether rain or shine. Remember, it is for better for worse. It is a vow you made before God! Read Eccl 5:4-6. Next, tell her you want to have a relationship with your child. That by neglecting her and even telling her to keep it a secret was a sin against God!(1 Timothy 5:. Anyway, any relationship should be properly balanced putting in the interest of your wife and the interest 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by piagetskinner(m): 10:20pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
I can counsel you for a small fee....and ur home will once again become heaven on earth Call the number on my signature |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:20pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
KreativGenius: Dude is a baby in an adult's body. I can't stand flippant men. Act and stop being loquacious. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Asbaba(m): 10:22pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86:please man up. I believe intervention of someone as a mediator will help between you guys, do not say such a thing like fed up with her. come to terms and also bring your first daughter to visit, they'll get to know each other and as a mother she might definitely love your child, and that might create as strong bond between you guys. please you need a counselor, and sincerely you need space and time to cool down. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by ariklawani(f): 10:25pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Shut up! no big deal about ur love child.u hates her because of the several miscarriages... She probably told her family after she might have founds out d causes of her miscarriages.ur marriage needs God intervention 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Adexvicky(f): 10:25pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
ikechizoba:thanks for this post,u just speak my mind 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by 86bee(f): 10:27pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
selfish man! dts wt you are. dt woman deserves better dn all ds ur nagging n ranting. a woman had miscarriage 9 times for u n u came here talking nonsense. U must be an idiot. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Angel1696: 10:28pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
my guy u are curse the worst thin any man/woman can do is to hide his/her blood 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by rosalieene(f): 10:28pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: seriously, you ain't sounding like a matured someborry. I think the problem is you and not your wife. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nobody: 10:33pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
OP,you fall our hand.You noh be correct guy at all. First,the paternity of your first child dey in doubt.Because of am,dem stop the traditional marriage to your now baby mama.That means the moral status of your baby mama get k-leg.The same lady you dey disturb sey you wan bring back. Secondly,you get the liver to ABANDON your child(make we just believe sey na your own o)for five good years.Oh boy,you get mind like Evans the Kidnapper o. Wetin be secret sey you get pikin before you marry.You noh break Guinness Book of Record na. I be dey think sey the secret na sey like 15 girls don do abortion for you before you marry. Thirdly,you come Nairaland dey yab your wife about the miscarriages.Oh boy,dem suppose commot that John Thomas wen dey in between your legs.You noh fit to be man. You fall our hand(Men).Who dey happy sey he wife get miscarriage. Women tend to be stubborn sometimes,but as guy man,just overlook them and let them have their way.When dem don hit the brickwall, you go then tell them sey abi I tell you before. You dey complain about she dey threaten to sack you.Bone that marra,we na human beings.She wan tell you sey she get small 'egba' too. Guy,you need man up.Your brokos need to ripe well. The headline of your post na sey she betray your trust.Of which,there is no secret.E just be like ostrich.No correct guy man go hide he pikin from his soon-to-be wife and in-laws. I just dey observe you(through your comments)sey you don tire for the marriage. The grass is always greener outside. How you take sure sey your ex noh go do times 10.After all,some other guys come drag your pikin. Marriage na work where you dey learn on the job.It has its own peculiarity.How e take work for you fit noh work for me. But the bottom line is that you suppose love your wife.And that comes with tolerance and overlooking many things. As for the in-laws marra,na to discuss the marra with her after normal Adam and Eve play for night. Abeg,make plan to go Calabar Festival this December make you and your wifey do second honeymoon. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by DesireBenjamin: 10:36pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: This got me! Your wife carried a dead foetus for weeks and was going for prayers with her sister, jesus ! Guy how easy do you think that is? Do you think she enjoys carrying a dead body inside her?? Do you at all understand that your wife is frustrated and desperate? (9 fucking miscarrages and you are here breathing fire, even the devil will do better) How do you try to support her? If you were supportive her sister wouldn't be the one standing by her but you! But since you don't play your role as a husband she then talks to the ones who stand by her, to the ones who play the husband role. And you sound like one who is already fucking his babymama, stop fuckn threatening her with the shit you did out of wedlock, the lust for your babymama is obvioulsy crashing your marriage, (who is sure she doesn't have a hand in your wife's predicament!) you just want to cheat in a big way. Its in you! I wish your wife would see this thread. You've got issues sir! 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by BumbleBee2ice(f): 10:40pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:@ Billyonaire u have said it all nd I just hope this man will be able to read between d lines here 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Nationalman: 10:41pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86:All you guys and ladies in the house i think it will be better we either stop responding to this guys post or we tell him the bitter truth.he was wrong in the first place to have hidden the fact he had a child form his in-law except he was longing for something that he doesn't want us to know.this am saying based on the fact that the wife keeps threatening him that he will be sacked. its possible in the first place that he has information he his not letting the whole house unto. How can you as a father deprive your own flesh and blood that love she was entitled to for 5yrs. This i find difficult believing .seeing that he was claiming to bring back the wife and daughter he had not seen for 5yrs. 3. His attitude to the fact that your wife had miscarriages is absurd.this is enough ground for her to start behaving the way she does. 4. in our African settings it his possible for the wife to start believing there is more to her situation based on the fact that you had a woman outside that had giving birth.She had every right to inform her parents. 6.you have started threatening her that you will bring the supposed woman you have not seen in the past 5yrs into the house.Guy stop being clever by Half 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by proff010: 10:42pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
nairaland will never help you. it is your cross carry it pls don't tell me as am carrying my own up n down. for the 9 miscarriage your wife is ogbanje. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Bullhari: 10:57pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: you are an idiotu... I mean idiotu. you don't deserve love in your life. you had a baby through another lady. spoiled her and made her a single suffering mother. bearing the burden of raising a child alone. Then you ran to get a chassis as wife. thinking that karma is a fairy tale Now you denied the innocent child the joy of fatherhood. You lied to your in-laws, thinking it's a secret. I believe your family also isn't aware of this abandoned child and the mother. You took a job through your wife's uncle, used her as a bait, to satisfy your greed as usual I believe, got her pregnant 9x and maltreated her till she had miscarriages. yes you did maltreat because it's ur karma that worked against her. And all you could say to her is that you don't want to hear that story again. to you it was a story, to her they were lives, her own children. But what do you know, you are happy because you have a baby out there in the waste bin and incenarator scraping for abandoned food to eat. Instead of looking for solutions and reassuring your wife, making her feel relieved you became a pain to her, like a typical idiotu that you are. she spoke up and you became irritated, who knows what else you had done that's still a secret? How many children you have outside your matrimonial home? How many times have you beaten her? she told her family and you flared up, now that you have told the whole world yourself who is going to spank you? next you are threatening to go back to the gutter where you left your abandoned child and the mother to pick dem like pieces of rag. no feeling of guilt... you don't deserve to be called a man. you don't deserve to be given a chance to live, you don't deserve to have a child. you are an idiotu. A condom would have saved the world from harzards like you. with your poverty (deduced from what you wrote) you are still this wicked, let's see how it all ends. I wish you give her d link to this post like you said, then be sure that she will leave you and your child too will someday be disappointed in you., already she is. but she will spit on your face someday, because you are an idiotu k 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by ashjay001(m): 11:00pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: U abandoned ur kid for 5yrs U go wicked for real! Ur wife had nine miscarriages in less than five years, n u av d guts to threaten her! Una fit una selves 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by ariklawani(f): 11:03pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
smithsydny:You are on point. |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Abagworo(m): 11:12pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: Please handle this with care lest you end up in regrets. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by swiperthefox: 11:14pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86:She is unlucky to have married an irrational being like you with bad luck. A woman that have lost her babies 9 times in 5 years. She supported you by giving you links with her family member, that's who you are castigating in a public forum where you thought that people will take sides with you, because it is a man''s world. Get out here men. If it is in abroad she should be in therapy for her unbelievable losses. We commonize everything. That woman is grieving and needs your love and support. Go and settle your differences with your wife or you will carry a much worse curse. You don't even have a concrete reason you want to leave your wife for. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Lokoyen(m): 11:19pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
akpunda86: Ure just ranting. Why will u mock ur wife because she had miscarriages! U sud always encourage and not threaten her with ur ex gf and daughter. Ure shameless am sorry to say and ure not a real man. She took u and supported u wen u had no one, she knew u lived a reckless life by having a child out of wedlock yet stood by u. This is her trying moment u sud support her too. Go and love ur wife and give her all d supports she need. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:25pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Funny OP,....your wife only told her siblings about your child you registered out of wedlock But you are here telling the whole world everything as if you need our advice. From what I see in you,..your character is quite egocentric and mean,....there is no advice that you will listen to because you have already made a decision,...remember there is more hope for a fool than for a wise man that sees in his own eyes,...please call your wife and apologize of your childish character,..man up and take care of everything,...good luck 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by Bamidele539: 11:31pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
TheCabal:seeems u wanna complicated issues for the OP, divorcing/marrying anoda woman is totally out of it,,, 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by anyicash(m): 11:35pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
You are not a real man. 3 Likes |
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