Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop. We need your advice.


I don't know if this is the right section.

This is a big problem

You need hard evidence and also. You need to involve NGO of concern


If you can confront him . . Do it cautiously

PatriotTemidayo:
This is a big problem

Right Now I'm confused.

Get picture evidences

what, tell him to freaking stop, He is ur friend, come out & boldly tell him the consequences of his actions, the little girl should be transferred to her relatives.

picture of it or I don't believe it

Go to the nearest police station and report this issue... This is child abuse and rape!

Take the child to an NGO that is capable of handling such matters.

This might nit be the easy step but I believe it is the best thing to do.

The man need to be taught the lesson of self restraint.

He is a pedophile and shud b behind bars.... No such thing as friendship wen it comes to shitty stuffs like this

Jiang:
what, tell him to freaking stop, He is ur friend, come out & boldly tell him the consequences of his actions, the little girl should be transferred to her relatives.

We planned to confront him later today. I'm so ashamed

sou1p1an0:
He is a pedophile and shud b behind bars.... No such thing as friendship wen it comes to shitty stuffs like this

Should I involve his relatives won't this be too hard on him. Na WA o

Gulderbottle85:



We planned to confront him later today. I'm so ashamed

Please do so as soon as possible, the future of dat kid is in ur hands. if he tries to misbehave deal with him decisively

Here is an elderly man who probably reason with his joystick rather than his head in the presence of his daughter..

If truly he is your friend!! You need to meet with him and DISCUSS sense into stinking head and Try as much as possible not to escalate the matter because of the girl.



Chai! What has this world turned into??
Father day fielele him biological daughter

Abeg report to police, soldiers, EFCC, LASTMA, VIO. In fact all law enforcement agencies.

This is extreme wickedness and the fact that you're even asking what to do amazes me.

Gulderbottle85:



Should I involve his relatives won't this be too hard on him. Na WA o

Leave pity out of this. Make sure you have your own evidences cos he might harass the girl into denial if he finds out you guys are on his trail

No way in hell that is his own child.

He needs to be hang by the balls. Foolish useless man.

Whatever you do make sure that little girl get taken away from him.

What a freaking monster.

Report him to the police!

I feel like crushing that man’s skull with my powerful legs!!! What nonsense?! You obviously can’t keep silence over this sensitive issue. Don’t confront the dad just yet, he’s obviously sent and maybe run away when he sees he’s been busted. I suggest you just quietly call all the women/children agencies and tell them the issue at hand and they’ll take it up form there. I purposely didn’t mention involving the police because we all know how things run in this country of ours.

Please report this asap!!.
Leave friendship alone. Advising paedophiles is tricky, they hardly change, especially if it's a parent doing it with their child.

There are child laws against such indecent act!.

Involve the police, necessary agencies and appropriate NGOs.

Shield her from the stigma too

Gulderbottle85:



Should I involve his relatives won't this be too hard on him. Na WA o

Call the police on him. That little girl should be rescued!

Op please try to have an evidence or better still try to contact an NGO don't report to the police like that cos the police is corrupt and your friend may bribe his way out, first visit an NGO from there you can take it to the police.
https://www.instagram.com/9ineteenchichi/
That's a instagram handle of a woman that fight against teenage abuses or you can reach her via email at chichiteens@yahoo.com
If you confront him like that he will just threaten the innocent girl and continue with his doings. I don't think letting his family members know will be a good idea cos some family may just show case their I don't care attitude cos it's not their child
@Gulderbottle85 please you and that female neighbor should try to save that young girl

Lalasticlala your attention is needed here

Rukkydelta:
Op please try to have an evidence or better still try to contact an NGO don't report to the police like that cos the police is corrupt and your friend may bribe his way out, first visit an NGO from there you can take it to the police.
https://www.instagram.com/9ineteenchichi/
That's a instagram handle of a woman that fight against teenage abuses or you can reach her via email at chichiteens@yahoo.com
If you confront him like that he will just threaten the innocent girl and continue with his doings. I don't think letting his family members know will be a good idea cos some family may just show case their I don't care attitude cos it's not their child
@Gulderbottle85 please you and that female neighbor should try to save that young girl

Lalasticlala your attention is needed here

Thank you for the advice but I dont have physical evidence only the little girl's statement and what I saw. Can they take her to a hospital to check if she has been defiled? What about friendship ?

you mean the unclothedness of his thirteen years old biological daughter turns him on?...

Are you sure the girl is his biological daughter?

Rapmoney:
Are you sure the girl is her biological daughter?

To the best of my knowledge he is

Please confront him asap. You dont need to even ask us here first. Jeez, what's wrong with this generation

Save that little angel from that monster of a dad please I beg you.

Just one question.
IS IT your daughter madam.is a. Free world after all northerners and western muslims are seriously slaying 4years old girls pussy.
Why don't you talk about it too.or you are. Afraid of the zoo security.
As the girl. If she is enjoying it,and if she. Says yes then leave them alone.
For me as far as the girl is enjoying it,is ok.
Bbut if she says no,tthen confront him. Or report to the police station.

Please, don't even think of reporting him to the police immediately o instead contact an NGO first...

Poster above is a disgrace to adulthood...

Gulderbottle85:



Thank you for the advice but I dont have physical evidence only the little girl's statement and what I saw. Can they take her to a hospital to check if she has been defiled? What about friendship ?

It doesn't matter if you have any physical evidence or not
Just try sending a message like this to her. I know she is going to give you a good response or you can visit any NGO around you
Friendship? really
That man is a monster and if I were in your shoes I will be ashamed to call him a friend. Please try and help this innocent girl

fumiswtpusytwo:
Just one question.
IS IT your daughter madam.is a. Free world after all northerners and western muslims are seriously slaying 4years old girls pussy.
Why don't you talk about it too.or you are. Afraid of the zoo security.
As the girl. If she is enjoying it,and if she. Says yes then leave them alone.
For me as far as the girl is enjoying it,is ok.
Bbut if she says no,tthen confront him. Or report to the police station.

ur village people are using ur brain to play siwe

Rokia2:
No way in hell that is his own child.

He needs to be hang by the balls. Foolish useless man.

Whatever you do make sure that little girl get taken away from him.

What a freaking monster.

Madam Chill Na! Na Your Child?


Op first Be Sure That This Your Friend is Not Mentally Sick and Stronger Than you so That When You Confront him He Doesnt Beat You To Death... You Better Get The Police Involved And Save The Girl from The Trauma... She Will Begin To Hate men Now And Tomorrow Will Turn Feminist... Save Her Life

fumiswtpusytwo:
Just one question.
IS IT your daughter madam.is a. Free world after all northerners and western muslims are seriously slaying 4years old girls pussy.
Why don't you talk about it too.or you are. Afraid of the zoo security.
As the girl. If she is enjoying it,and if she. Says yes then leave them alone.
For me as far as the girl is enjoying it,is ok.
Bbut if she says no,tthen confront him. Or report to the police station.

You've just convinced me that your brain is using finger battery .