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There are two types of worlds. The real world and the fantasy world.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in dreaming big,aiming for the "ideal" partner,elaborate wedding,a faithful man,virtuous woman,wealthy spouse,tall,handsome,romantic man,curvy and sweet looking lady and on and on and on...

But until we all learn to draw a line between our fantasy and the real world,until we meticulously make a decision to go for what we can get rather than what we dream about,then many of us who are mature and unmarried may remain in that position for a veeery long time.

My opinion.

Toks don land again ooooooo

Nice

RETIREDMUMU:
op do u mean i should marry when i don't have the resources to be called a father and a husband.


do u know the meaning of hunger

Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

Am looking for a woman,she must me a graduate. Kindly submit your cv..... i dont need slay queens abeh

Toks2008:
Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

Nothing terrible than the fear of fear itself

Toks2008:
There are two types of worlds. The real world and the fantasy world.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in dreaming big,aiming for the "ideal" partner,elaborate wedding,a faithful man,virtuous woman,wealthy spouse,tall,handsome,romantic man,curvy and sweet looking lady and on and on and on...

But until we all learn to draw a line between our fantasy and the real world,until we meticulously make a decision to go for what we can get rather than what we dream about,then many of us who are mature and unmarried may remain in that position for a veeery long time.

My opinion.

Tushe


Well said the master himself. Till the fantasy world and the real world is brough to a fine line, men the images of what's in front of us, and what is in our mind will also conflict and create issues. Hence, compromise is key !

Toks2008:
Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

my brother truth gat to be told, no lady nowadays will come for hustling guy than the already made up

Spanner4:


Am looking for a woman,she must me a graduate. Kindly submit your cv..... i dont need slay queens abeh

Excatly the point,nothing bad in looking for a graduate but you just might be brushing off Ngozi the homely and virtuous girl from the village who could make you very happy all the days of your life.

RETIREDMUMU:
my brother truth gat to be told, no lady nowadays will come for hustling guy than the already made up

That is another issue. A hustling guy is the best bet for women who truly want to settle down cos most made guys know they are made and will most likely treat you with no regard except the lady is also made.

Toks2008:
Excatly the point,nothing bad in looking for a graduate but you just might be brushing off Ngozi the homely and virtuous girl from the village who could make you very happy all the days of your life.

how were you able to peer into my mind? Your reply touched me

Lalasticlala i guess this is insightful.

Spanner4:
how were you able to peer into my mind? Your reply touched me

Even me,I'm just too picky. But for how long?

On Point.

The last time I checked, it is not a crime to be single
It is better and more peaceful than dating broke parasitic girls

Dream on

RETIREDMUMU:
op do u mean i should marry when i don't have the resources to be called a father and a husband.


do u know the meaning of hunger

You need to define the resources you mean. To some people until they build a mansion and ride in Ferrari before marriage.

RETIREDMUMU:
op do u mean i should marry when i don't have the resources to be called a father and a husband.


do u know the meaning of hunger

As long as we are getting steady pussy

Make relationship deh play basketball abeg

true....dreams do come true and am still dreaming

Hey!

okay

Make ladies de think of marriage. i still de hustle.

I don't care what anyone says, i am saving myself for Kiki Osibanjo......

all I need now is a surrogate dat also need sperm donor......... I will think of getting marriage wen am fulfill but for now no way

It
Simply
Is
Not
Worth
The
Headache
And
The
Trouble
It
Brings

The worst thing ever in this life is to have family (reproduce)when you don't even know the main purpose of your own existence in the first place. I will advice whoever that's poor resource wise to never ever start a family to avoid his/her future kids from cursing the hell out of him/her when they grow up and find out life is not bed of roses and there's partiality in nature distribution of everything. Live life like it's nothing and have a good time with the experience and imagination you can get out of it. That's all to life.