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7 Reasons Many Men Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's Blog / Why Good Girls Remain Single - Nelson Asuen (Entitlement Mentality) / One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. (2) (3) (4)
|5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by bamisepeters(m): 7:10pm On Jan 06|
I read a writeup on why good girls remain single by Nelson Asuen as share here by sauta and i concluded on writing this. He made justice to the writeup but left it a bit confusing at the end especially with the example given.
Not just bad girls are those getting married each weekends. What about the bad turned good and then the good ones? No one will stop you from getting married if you can learn how to get your better half as it is not like the time of our fathers and mothers where nothing attractive appeals to most of them.
Now, no matter how ugly you think you are which i know no woman is ugly, you will find your own man so far you can be confident with whatever make-up and clothing you put on, you need to look good and smart, you need to mingle and not secluded in the name of being righteous
Not all good girls remain single and not all bad girls get married...
Here are some reasons some "good ladies" remain single:
1. They believe their own man must come from their religion
Very good, you pray to whatever God you serve for husband, but you have forgotten God can send anyone to you as your better half. You have also forgotten the fact that someone believing in same religion with you doesn't make them good for you or even a better man for you.
Think outside the box, there are different men outside your religion that will make life worth living for you better than those in same religion as you, your religious leader can not save you when you enter the wrong home.
Same as those waiting for someone in same religious home as them to take them as wife, i am not saying it is not possible, of course we have seen cases of such happening, but yours might not be same as that, think outside the box.
2. Hiding who they are
This is just common in our religious homes among those ladies who are ripe enough to marry but are still much single, they hide who they are from men.
This is one of those reasons you see men shying away from ladies in same place of worship with them. In fact, this days, religious leaders get angry when guys from their place of worship bring woman from other places as wife, it will keep on happening as ladies of this days pretends a lot, meanwhile most men want to know the worst side of them before moving closer as men of this days loves to see new good attributes outside religion in you when it comes to choosing life partner so as to know what they want to face and how to face it. They know you can pray, you can sing like angels, but they want to know those other things you can do as being too religious get us bored when you get home.
Some of you might be asking how they will know those other sides without talking to you or having a date with you...
How will they come to you when you always frown at men in your place of worship? How will they come to you when it is so obvious in your character that knowing them will make you derail from heavenly race?
You do all these in the place of worship but you are something else outside, you better wakeup.
You have to mingle and free to attract them, it is when you attract them you then screen some out as you cannot know them when your attitude is chasing them.
3. Because they are a Virgin they also want him clean
Most virgins look out for men that are also as holy as themselves, this makes them keep searching till eternity.
Being a virgin is soo nice, however, it doesn't mean you will get a man who has never done it in his life. If you get one, very good, but you should give room for those that have done it before.
Being a virgin doesn't mean the man is good too and because he has done it before doesn't make him unholy, don't forget he can decide not to tell you he has done it and you will not know the truth maybe for life.
4. Their shoulder is so high
You are not the type that can succumb to authority and you think men will look at you for a second, you are only deceiving yourself.
Naturally, men want to be the head in all ramifications, if you are still richer, some will still overlook, no man will overlook when you have an uncontrollable character.
Men want a woman that will listen and obey them. See, Now-a-days, most women don't even listen to all commands by their man, this doesn't make them bad, but the fact that they are married their husband will just overlook those attitude they portray ones in a while as they are also human.
So, even if you want to make some decisions ones in a while just show to him he can control you during that time you need a man, and you must be willing to obey his command, every other thing will fall in place.
5. Some call decency nudity
Some of these ladies will dress and you will be shocked. To them, dressing smart and decent means nudity.
Men of Now-a-days can not stand it when your dressing is not appealing whatsoever. See, the way you dress, make-up adds to your beauty, no matter how bad you look, your dressing and the make-up will reset your looks. You don't need to expose any part of your body, neither do you need to put on sack in the name of looking holy.
Using makeup will not make you lose heaven, you can make it light and it will complement your beauty, making it heavy can even cause confusion as when you visit your man and you clean the heavy makeup he will be confused, so, light makeup will go a long way, look good and completely smart and decent.
I did not only mention reasons some ladies are still single, i have also given the solution, so if you fall in any of those categories you need to rethink before it is too late. Don't forget, those people term bad are getting married every weekend, how much more you that is humble and all good! Please, this year shouldn't pass you by.
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by umulobi: 3:50pm On Jan 08|
First to comment after so many years of battling with space bookers.This year has a lot of blessings in stock for us.
Meanwhile, tell the space booker behind me I have arrived.
Back to the matter,ladies should work on their attitude .
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by madridguy(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by musa234(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08|
Everyone has an opinion.
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Nobeluscabral: 3:52pm On Jan 08|
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This dude called Nobelus Cabral scammed me of 800 euros two weeks ago. He promised to pay back by 27th of December when he gets his Paycheck by December 27th but when it was time to pay he blocked me on Facebook, and blocked my 3 numbers on WhatsApp.
The dude reside in Georgia USA and he's feeling that there's nothing that can be done to get him down.
The Internet is a world of its own when I'm done tarnishing this fraudster image he will sure get deported.
My aunt tried sending the money to me to Nigeria through western union but it always get cancelled so i decided to use this dude in USA and agreed he was going to credit me directly to my Naija account after pick up which he agreed and i even told him to take 15% and send the rest. This greedy idiot took everything and blocked me, i still can't believe nobelus would do such to me, money meant for my parents i can't even sleeping with at home again without my dad using words to hurt me and call me demeaning names like" Hungry thief" ur mates are working and you are stealing money your sister is sending to us.
Nobelus you will never go Scott free, never!!!
You think you can scam me of my hard earned 800 euros and go Scott free? Brother I'll tarnish your image everywhere.
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Facebook name - Nobelus Cabra
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by miracle956: 3:52pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by chrischukszy01(m): 3:52pm On Jan 08|
They should continue forming!
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Wizpa(m): 3:52pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by WeJCKs(m): 3:53pm On Jan 08|
Another reason is *If they are supporting buhari*
Men tend to loose interest in ladies once they realize she's supporting buhari
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Strongbest(m): 3:53pm On Jan 08|
Hmmm. Op You didn't add village people to the list, so unAfrica/unigeria
Add to your knowledge here:
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Miracle4Sure: 3:53pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by akinbodma(m): 3:54pm On Jan 08|
Some ladies want to explore life before they are ready to settle down
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by slawomir: 3:54pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by olsome: 3:54pm On Jan 08|
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Immanuels7(m): 3:55pm On Jan 08|
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Lilimax(f): 3:56pm On Jan 08|
So because I want to be married then I will get married to a man of another religion.? NEVER!!!!
It can not be God o!
I must not be equally yoked with an unbeliever.
Infact, your spiritual state is the first thing that attracts me to a person not to talk of of the one I will get married to.
Ladies, marry an unbeliever to your peril!!!!
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Joromi12: 3:57pm On Jan 08|
female empowerment. in my office they hire equal number of males and females. the females never date the males cos they know ur salary. the males marry nysc or fresh grad mostly cos they can control them. then the females are looking for men above their levels which other women are doing too. so they reach 31, with a car and 8m in account looking for males better than them. last last some go marry dem driver at 35.
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Grupo(m): 3:57pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by alujonjonkijon: 3:58pm On Jan 08|
bullshit.so because she is a single lady and in frying pan by reason of being single.should she now jump into the raw fire by marrying a man from the hottest part of hell.
man ,woman has desires as to who they want to marry,all we can do for them is to join our prayers with theirs to find the man or woman of their dream.im a lawyer and divorce now cost almost a million naira so my advise is pray well before you leap as truly all that glitters are not gold.
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by prince3009(m): 3:59pm On Jan 08|
I beg to disagree that no woman is ugly. Some women are very furgly.
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Ayoswit(f): 3:59pm On Jan 08|
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by zaragal(f): 4:02pm On Jan 08|
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by sukerefakere(m): 4:02pm On Jan 08|
Lilimax:See the hypocrisy in your post
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by Lilimax(f): 4:04pm On Jan 08|
sukerefakere:Where are they??
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by NotBeenPaid(m): 4:04pm On Jan 08|
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|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by helinues: 4:04pm On Jan 08|
@op all this your write up is based on a religious good girl. How about good girls who are not religious?
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by sukerefakere(m): 4:05pm On Jan 08|
Lilimax:You will never see it.
Have a nice day!
|Re: 5 Reasons Some Ladies Remain Single For Long - Bamisepeter's blog by weyreypey: 4:05pm On Jan 08|
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