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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Settingz321(m): 11:01pm On Nov 19, 2017
[b]pls guys advice for you, never mind the op, it's never too late until you are late. Keep calm and have something tangible before getting any lady to marry, those bitches can pretend for so long think about the beefs BTW younger brothers wife and older brother wife when there is no money people treat ur wife and children with little regard.
Only few of these ladies can cope with the little suffering, they pretended as if they never suffer in their various fathers house, once they start living with they can not bath with ordinary water again unless u add detol, they can not sleep without electricity..... They start demanding outrageous things like they never know how ur pocket was before you meet,,,, and before u know they buying all these things themselves without when u know their source of income can't take care of it..... Think about it where do u think they get such money from.?

Guys must be man before getting married if not stay cool and continuing lashing the little sense once out there till you arrive[/b]

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Dwizeone: 11:02pm On Nov 19, 2017
I would rather say, settle for your class, if you are rich obviously you will settle for the rich if hustling settle for the lady in that class, honestly everyone fall into a category and the truth is there is true love in all classes.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by ubunja(m): 11:03pm On Nov 19, 2017
this post is for women
its them who never marry "down" and have long lists
men dont mind marrying a barefoot village gal with dusty ankles
women look for house,money and car.
men look for freshness.
now who needs a reality check?

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by iferuth: 11:03pm On Nov 19, 2017
It can be balanced when the guys start disclosing their real status. most of them are mixed fruit lover, wanna try odas so end up telling them they are single... smiley
Franco2017:
I recently observed that most women are in a relationship, and most men are single, how can this equation be balanced.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Homeboiy: 11:03pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.


Tell me, why are u still single at 41?

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by vchykp(m): 11:04pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.
i agree with you on this
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


That is another issue. A hustling guy is the best bet for women who truly want to settle down cos most made guys know they are made and will most likely treat you with no regard except the lady is also made.

Spot on!

Nowadays, its rare getting a woman to settle down with, as a hustling guy. They all want ready made

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 11:05pm On Nov 19, 2017
Homeboiy:



Tell me, why are u still single at 41?



@41 nah you know that one o...

But the older you get the harder it becomes to get married. Too complicated to explain but that is the truth.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by noskcid(m): 11:06pm On Nov 19, 2017
A brother once said "o lord chose a wife for me but na sis nkechi I want" grin


Some men do not really know what they want in a woman and if you are that type don't try getting married at all because it wont wor

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by silver94(m): 11:06pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.
Dude just like you said, u should know the difference between fantasy and reality
1.[b][/b]ready to do very low key wedding and do bigger one when d money comes; - My brother what makes you think the money for big wedding will come, not everybody will get rich. That's harsh reality of life
2.[b][/b]put child bearing on hold; - Bro, pregnancy can happen. Konji is a bastard. If you think I'm lying, go and ask baba ijebu that has 9 children with no job living in a one room face me I slap you apartment in ejigbo. U think that's the life he planned?
So my brother, in summary, marry when you are comfortable and have the means to cater for your children.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by sirfee(m): 11:07pm On Nov 19, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


my brother truth gat to be told, no lady nowadays will come for hustling guy than the already made up kiss
First things first,double your hustling and have little faith.Believe and love yourself,everything will be alright.Also marriage shouldn't be a do or die affair because if you rush in,you are going to rush out.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:08pm On Nov 19, 2017
I kind of see sense in this
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Homeboiy: 11:08pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


The older you get the harder it becomes to get married. Too complicated to explain but that is the truth.


U have a spirit wife oga

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 11:08pm On Nov 19, 2017
Settingz321:
[b]pls guys advice for you, never mind the op, it's never too late until you are late. Keep calm and have something tangible before getting any lady to marry, those bitches can pretend for so long think about the beefs BTW younger brothers wife and older brother wife when there is no money people treat ur wife and children with little regard.
Only few of these ladies can cope with the little suffering, they pretended as if they never suffer in their various fathers house, once they start living with they can not bath with ordinary water again unless u add detol, they can not sleep without electricity..... They start demanding outrageous things like they never know how ur pocket was before you meet,,,, and before u know they buying all these things themselves without when u know their source of income can't take care of it..... Think about it where do u think they get such money from.?

Guys must be man before getting married if not stay cool and continuing lashing the little sense once out there till you arrive[/b]

lwkmd! so which one be my own wey you sey make dem no mind?

You for just make your point co mot mouth..Nairalanders wont kill me with their unwarranted sarcasm @no mind the op lol!

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by SLOVFO(m): 11:11pm On Nov 19, 2017
True!
But one shouldn't just rush into marriage without counting the cost. Marriage is for a lifetime. And I would rather marry the woman of my dreams in my old age than to rush and marry a less desirable woman in my young days. Temptations full ground these days. One mustn't give the devil a chance.
Also, one also has to be equipped in every way possible in order to give the kids a good start in life.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Obierika(m): 11:12pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and of course put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

So he should just get married for the sake of being married...

Will you people shut it with this marriage bull sh1t

The world has evolved, everyone must not get married!

You can be single and still live a very fulfilled life!

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by ABBkelvin(m): 11:13pm On Nov 19, 2017
Dwizeone:
I would rather say, settle for your class, if you are rich obviously you will settle for the rich if hustling settle for the lady in that class, honestly everyone fall into a category and the truth is there is true love in all classes.
Agreed, but human beings always want what they can't get. Cycle of social decadence continue at the expense of every new generation and there it goes till the end. Civilization always destroy itself though

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by sirfee(m): 11:15pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


The older you get the harder it becomes to get married. Too complicated to explain but that is the truth.
On the contrary,poverty is the major reason why many are still single.A rich old man can still marry the most beautiful lady because cash rules everything.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Nov 19, 2017
Homeboiy:



U have a spirit wife oga

Visit MFM asap tongue

Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 11:17pm On Nov 19, 2017
sirfee:
On the contrary,poverty is the major reason why many are still single.A rich old man can still marry the most beautiful lady.

Im talking about marriage and not point and kill.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by ABBkelvin(m): 11:19pm On Nov 19, 2017
silver94:

Dude just like you said, u should know the difference between fantasy and reality
1.[b][/b]ready to do very low key wedding and do bigger one when d money comes; - My brother what makes you think the money for big wedding will come, not everybody will get rich. That's harsh reality of life
2.[b][/b]put child bearing on hold; - Bro, pregnancy can happen. Konji is a bastard. If you think I'm lying, go and ask baba ijebu that has 9 children with no job living in a one room face me I slap you apartment in ejigbo. U think that's the life he planned?
So my brother, in summary, marry when you are comfortable and have the means to cater for your children.
word!
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by ABBkelvin(m): 11:19pm On Nov 19, 2017
silver94:

Dude just like you said, u should know the difference between fantasy and reality
1.[b][/b]ready to do very low key wedding and do bigger one when d money comes; - My brother what makes you think the money for big wedding will come, not everybody will get rich. That's harsh reality of life
2.[b][/b]put child bearing on hold; - Bro, pregnancy can happen. Konji is a bastard. If you think I'm lying, go and ask baba ijebu that has 9 children with no job living in a one room face me I slap you apartment in ejigbo. U think that's the life he planned?
So my brother, in summary, marry when you are comfortable and have the means to cater for your children.
word!
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by chronique(m): 11:21pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Many times we a scared of taking that step because of nothing but FEAR.

If you have a lady who will not mind starting with you in one room,and both of you are ready to do very low key wedding for now and do a bigger one when the money comes and ofcourse put child bearing on hold whilst both of you work hard,i believe you can go ahead and get married.

this start from one room talk,get as e be for mouth o.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by chronique(m): 11:24pm On Nov 19, 2017
Dwizeone:
I would rather say, settle for your class, if you are rich obviously you will settle for the rich if hustling settle for the lady in that class, honestly everyone fall into a category and the truth is there is true love in all classes.

word!
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by sirfee(m): 11:26pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


Im talking about marriage and not point and kill.
grin Oga Toks,you are among the few I respect on Nairaland but we are living in the 21st century.Everything is changed,the point and kill you are talking about is what we have now.


Marriage is overhyped and it shouldn't be a do or die affair,money is a key factor in marriage.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Okanagba1(m): 11:26pm On Nov 19, 2017
ATTENTION ! IF U KNOW U ARE WISE START MARRIAGE EARLY, PAY A GIRLS BRIDEPRICE, FIND HER HANDWORK , FORM HER TO A SMARTWORKER, 20YEARS LATER DO ANNIVERSARY , 2 ALL OPS

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Okanagba1(m): 11:28pm On Nov 19, 2017
ACCEPT CHALLENGES , NOT FOR ONLY U, BUT FOR UR WOMAN AND YOUR FUTURE SHE WILL GIVE U GLADLY (CHILDREN)
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by designVATExcel: 11:30pm On Nov 19, 2017
On point.

We all know the saying "when the preferable is not available the available becomes preferable." It simple logic really, wonder why folks don't apply it.

It's like when applying for admission, most times our first choice institution either gives you an alternative program or no admission at all. If your application gets rejected twice in a row, it's wisdom to either consider the alternative program offered or try another school.

The same principle works with relationships, we all have what we want, and what we get, most times there are not the same. But we should make due and the best of it anyways.

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Kobicove(m): 11:31pm On Nov 19, 2017
And so what?

Since when did it become a crime to remain unmarried?!

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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Boyooosa(m): 11:35pm On Nov 19, 2017
Toks2008:


That is another issue. A hustling guy is the best bet for women who truly want to settle down cos most made guys know they are made and will most likely treat you with no regard except the lady is also made.
Earlier this year, u sent a similar post, defending it hereandthere, I requested you to give me a contact of the exact girl of your description, you promised to link, after like sixonths (that is, now), av not heard from you.
This is the second time now, am giving u a second chance to prove your point.
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Kingx4sure: 11:39pm On Nov 19, 2017
Nevertheless, go for what you want and desire. You never can tell
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 11:54pm On Nov 19, 2017
Boyooosa:

Earlier this year, u sent a similar post, defending it hereandthere, I requested you to give me a contact of the exact girl of your description, you promised to link, after like sixonths (that is, now), av not heard from you.
This is the second time now, am giving u a second chance to prove your point.

Prove wettin? i be woman?

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