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cyril700:
I caught my gf on chat telling a young married medical doctor that she is missing him, last night the man sent her 1k airtime , she has been denying having an affair with him, this same man has been giving her immunisation contract jobs,she called off the relationship on the ground that i intruded her privacy and I had to apologise b4 she took me back. I wanted settling with her but she always says that I don't look ready .she has started flirty chats with guys with an excuse that she wants to get married soon, even after i have told her that I'll settle down next yr. she is 25 and i am 31 on a low key job but hoping to get something bigger by January. can I let her go? this is the 2nd time she has threatened to quit, I am always the one that pleads for her to return. with this behavior am beginning to doubt the love she professes for me.

oluwalewis:
She is a nice girl to have not only shown you the green light that she wants to move on but she had earlier quit.
She only wants to have a secured future,she is working hard to get immunisation contract but does not see you as one who deserves her.
my advice is you stop wasting time trying to prove your live for her but focus on having some personal development on your future and career so that when the opportunity comes,you will be fully prepared for it.
this is the only way she can believe in you.
faith without work is nothing

cyril700:
Thanks FAM, bless y'all

Benita27:
If she's already desperate for marriage @25 then let her go if you're not ready. At times, you may even get married before her 'cause she doesn't know what those men she's flirting with have in store for her.

cyril700:
Thanks FAM, bless y'all

IAMSASHY:
do u need any prophet 2 Tel u 2 leav her? U dnt beg pple to luv u, she nos ur weak point is d threat dat y she uses it on u, any lady dat luvs wl nt b dis dramatic, dump her b4 she dumps u first

rebirthforgoody:
You just said it all.

rebirthforgoody:
You just said it all.