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she will lose the case if they go to court. No evidence, all DNA has been washed away. She's just crying over a spill milk. All what she said up there shows she's trying to play the victim card.... Women shaa!

Blackhawk01:
Dear men, so a girl cannor comman visit you in peace?


The men of this generation go just dey think with preek, ehn!

*Modified*

Unilag wah! Damn! Ittiz finished.

But babe sef, you were chopping pizza, entering uber, doing dinner, using free Wi-Fi and you no be his babe? You even have a bf? You walked into this yourself.

so she knows he is not her husband and she went to his house like a hungry lioness to eat and drink what her father cannot buy for her. edidiot

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Babe, not giving ur consent doesn't mean u say it only, u also act it!!!!......u cannot say u didn't give ur consent meanwhile ur body language is reading a different thing. The girl in question did not give her consent buh she still slept on de same bed with him nd was collecting head,,haba she ma no de fear God ni!!??

makydebbie:
Firstly, the girl fumbled!!

My dear, in this 21st century of perverted minds and high libidos, you don't spend a night with a guy, on the same bed for that matter!


And she has a boyfriend too, what was she expecting? That they'll sing hallelujah together? And my dear, the guy already hinted sex.

I'm not going to put the entire blame on that beastly attitude, but she should face the consequences of her actions! Every decision we make in life have consequences, whether good or bad. What was she thinking? They could've gone on an afternoon date why would she spend the night with him on his bed? My dear, few guys have that self control. Maybe she has done this risky adventure with brother John, and thought brother Mike could control himself too..

She laid her bed, she should lie on it. The guy too is wrong sha, he shouldn't have done it. But the girl too, he was doing touching body and she couldn't leave the room for him?


Phew! They should be blamed. They're adults responsible for their actions and decisions they both made.

Na only touching body? What about him sucking her půssy? I can bet she was having the time of her life.

LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house naked, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?

It’s you ladies that need a new orientation about how men are wired.

You can’t control what is not within your power to control

Control your self first by staying away from a dude house

Control yourself by wearing your right gears if you must visit

Don’t wear any seductive clothings in a dude house

He has blood flowing in him and you don’t expect all men to react the same way

It’s all men that ll be able to control themselves

You ladies have the power to avoid a lot of issues by staying away completely from looming troubles

You can eat your cake and still have it.

Why would you go naked in a dude house if you respect yourself.

The moment you should go seductive in a dude house is when you are ready to fuckkk him.

Anything less than this is your problem.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Rubbish!

Wat was she doing before another person completely remove her shokoto?

By the way, she no wear pant as back up, to take run leave the room for him or he remove the pant along with the shokoto?

She carry her big Nyansh go set for bed come expect the poor guy to die of konji, on top his own bed again?

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

please what you suffered to put up here is so senseless that even goatss will deny all association with you. please dont take it personsonally oooh.... you will embarrass cows if you claim to be one. you are just something. something i dont know

makydebbie:
Seconded.

The guy was even giving her head and she was there enjoying the touching body.

the thing dey sweet her swilily swelele

Most of our gals got no sense of self awareness.why sleep in a guy's,probably because of pizza n ice cream.

romeorailss:
Never u blame the guy at all. it's like walking with ur feet into the lion's den.

What was she expecting. Politicians React To Atiku’s Defection To PDP even had a bf and went to sleep over in a guy's house. That's what guys on Britain's refer to as Oloshoooo

Abeg who get that Lil Wayne pics of olosho dia

@The emboldened.

Safe to say we should beware of men cause they are potential rapists?

LadyGoddiva:
Look, I’m trying as much as possible to understand that particular situation. He weakened her defenses, she might have enjoyed it oh lol but he did it without her approval. Or he might have held her down. Or she might have been protesting as he was doing it but she liked it anyway but still didn’t want it to happen. It’s possible to give orals to someone who doesn’t want it and it’ll still constitute as rape. Whether it’s touching someone or outrightly having sex with them against their wish.

it is still rape, whether or not she enjoyed it doesn't come to play, she said no, you have to stop.

She would have to define what consent is. Because in most cases a guy doesn't say please let me lick you down there or please let me penetrate you.

In a lot of cases consent is non-verbal. It is rejection that is always verbal and physical - the girl struggling to get away from the guy.

There is a BIG DIFFERENCE between seduction and rape and a good lawyer can point out the difference.

As long as she was NOT saying NO repeatedly... it would not fly as rape.

Blackfyre:
Nonsense.....see what someone posted on twitter.....its called oral rape and it can stand in court....


It could be Oral rape. We have victim of oral rape everywhere.

You can be touched in a very intimate way, and by lying there, does NOT mean somehow been complicit in the act. You had not consented, nor had you even been given a chance to consent, which is what defines rape.

You were eating pizza
Entering uber
Sleeping over
Licking ice cream
Were u expecting
A plasma TV?

Pizza n ice cream messing up longer throat gals up n down.

Xda59:
Na only touching body? What about him sucking her půssy? I can bet she was having the time of her life.

She's a hoe bruh! She even get boyfriend again.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Madam try to dey calm down when typing. Did unheard anyone say it's not rape? No one is arguing that with you. Mind u, we've only heard her side of the story .

But judging from her side alone, she is 100% stupid and foolish. U go visit a guy overnight, sleep overnight with him and u have a bf, who does that. So, u think if u tell ur bf u are going to sleep over in a random guy's house who u met not long. He will clap for u and give u the go ahead


This is a bitchy movement. Haba! With all her narratives, nobody on this earth can vindicate her in a court of law. Why didn't she take it up when it happened. She's now claiming no chat. No evidence, nothing. She's a big fool if u ask me. In this world of nowadays.

What was her intention for visiting a guy in his house overnight I laugh .

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

I do not support rape but what happened there is not rape. You watch a lot of American movies and define rape by movie standards. Here in Nigeria, the ingredients of rape are very hard to prove. But there must be FORCEFUL PENETRATION & EVIDENCE OF A SCUFFLE to show she objected. Witnesses too go dey that heard when she was objecting.

Babe, that lady was just a h0e with a huge sense of entitlement. I won't say she got served but that's what most girls like her get.

Laveda:
A lady has taken to her twitter page to share her rape experience with a guy she visited at night. She said she was introduced to the guy through her friend they planned a meetup, which she agreed to go, and on getting there, so many things took place.

Read below.

http://orjisblog.com.ng/2017/11/26/lady-recounts-experience-with-a-nigerian-man-unilagolodo/

Wait wait wait! You have a boyfriend, yet you wilfully embark on a trip to another guy's house on the Island, with the intention of sleeping not just in the same house, but in the same room and on the same bed with him. You then go further to take off your jeans and put on a sexy short, and then proceed to sleep on the same bed with a guy who isn't your BF?

I don't ever get to say this nor blame girls in situations like this, but in this case, the girl is clearly the architect of her own predicaments; she's either a slut (who had intentions of eventually cheating on her BF with this very dude), or she's just plain stupid. I only pity the person she calls her BF.

As for the rapist anyway, that is what he is, 'a rapist'. But strangely and sadly enough, a majority of Nigerian guys are guilty of this very sort of date-rape; a lot of guys talk about how "it was a battle for hours" before they could get the choco, not knowing it's actually a form of rape. At the end, our society doesnt accept it as rape, cos the case always ends with why the girl used her legs to go to a guys one-room house when she was meant to be in school, and of course the girl keep shut. FUnny enough, I've seen this happen several times and weirdly, the girl eventually goes back to the guy for more.

Kokaine:
so she knows he is not her husband and she went to his house like a hungry lioness to eat and drink what her father cannot buy for her. edidiot

Irredeemable ediot.

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

I swear. I couldn't finish reading the OP cos it was like I was being insulted.

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

Can't say it better than you bro . Even the pastor's hauze is not safe

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

with this comment, i can categorically tell you that your level of foolishness is not from this very world.

You guys keep hinging on consent. Please show me a naija girl who has ever gone "come and do" before, I'll wait... No Nigerian girl (girlfriends inclusive) succumb to sexual advances without some sort of persuasion even when they actually want it. It's in their psyche to feign the NOs so as not to look cheap. Nevertheless, when a woman truly is uninterested in sex, don't force her.

Persuasion is not the same as Force o.

To the topic at hand, the lady is stupid and the guy is a manipulative, opportunistic weakling with low self esteem.

makydebbie:
Firstly, the girl fumbled!!

My dear, in this 21st century of perverted minds and high libidos, you don't spend a night with a guy, on the same bed for that matter!


And she has a boyfriend too, what was she expecting? That they'll sing hallelujah together? And my dear, the guy already hinted sex.

I'm not going to put the entire blame on that beastly attitude, but she should face the consequences of her actions! Every decision we make in life have consequences, whether good or bad. What was she thinking? They could've gone on an afternoon date why would she spend the night with him on his bed? My dear, few guys have that self control. Maybe she has done this risky adventure with brother John, and thought brother Mike could control himself too..

She laid her bed, she should lie on it. The guy too is wrong sha, he shouldn't have done it. But the girl too, he was doing touching body and she couldn't leave the room for him?


Phew! They should be blamed. They're adults responsible for their actions and decisions they both made.

Babe no be every guy be like DAT o
I have self control o...ur free to visit me..I swear

BTW...they both at fault!!! No be saliva dey make diick enter vj...na ur Pusey juice!
N d guy na bororo cattle! Always ON!

LadyGoddiva:
True the girl messed up big time but I don’t believe in blaming “rape” victims no matter how much they supposedly fuçked up. The vibe I’m getting now is, a greater percentage of Nigerian men cannot and will not control their urges. As long as they see what they perceive to be the green light from a girl, they’d go ahead and do whatever they want to do to the girl whether she truly wants it or not. And remember they had an understanding that nothing would happen, and they’re supposed to be two mature adults. Even if they made out and got touchy, she refused the penetration aspect but he went ahead to do it anyways because she had eaten his pizza and enjoyed his WiFi and he felt indebted.
To be honest, you cannot in anyway justify or exonerate the man for what he did. He was wrong on a greater level. Unfortunately, in this part of the world, it’s always the girl that’ll bear the brunt.

No stop stereotyping us

A lot of girls in Nigeria and around the world are nothing but hoes

You play victims when things didn’t go your way

Read the story again and hold that hoe responsible for what she got

If you don’t like to Bleep a dude, don’t even try any of these above narratives with him in the first place to avoid story that touch

How can you go to a guy house and did all that

She deserve whatever she got. Period!

It’s a lesson to all these hoes who think they can eat their cake and still have it

If you want to pass night, go to your female house to pass night.

Men are not the same. Some ll be able to control while some ll enjoy what you freely throw at them.

Blackhawk01:
Dear men, so a girl cannor comman visit you in peace?


The men of this generation go just dey think with preek, ehn!

*Modified*

Unilag wah! Damn! Ittiz finished.

But babe sef, you were chopping pizza, entering uber, doing dinner, using free Wi-Fi and you no be his babe? You even have a bf? You walked into this yourself.

Lmaooooo
Where u been all this while?
Was asking makydeb about u d other day?
Happy Sunday

Fourwinds:
now you are talking...it baffles me when a girl claim such as rape....I just saw stupidity on the girl's part

Yeah. The babe was stupid but we can't rule out the guy's animalistic behaviour too if he truly did all she wrote...

Blackfyre:
Nonsense.....see what someone posted on twitter.....its called oral rape and it can stand in court....


It could be Oral rape. We have victim of oral rape everywhere.

You can be touched in a very intimate way, and by lying there, does NOT mean somehow been complicit in the act. You had not consented, nor had you even been given a chance to consent, which is what defines rape.

it is high time you took this

Laveda:
@The emboldened.

Safe to say we should beware of men cause they are potential rapists?

U can twist it which ever way u like it. How funny, .

U got a bf, and u going for a vigil in a random guys abode, fully aware he is all alone. Of course this must be a guy that must have been playing his cards just the way guys do. U gladly accept his invitation to come over for the first time and sleep over in his apartment?

Madam are u going there for holy communion or combined service or u must spemd the night in his house to show him u are a good friend

Loool. As I a guy, I ordered an uber to bring you to sleep over, ordered pizza and ice cream for u to eat, give u free Internet for HTGAWM... (investments)... who are you please? What kind of friend are you?

Ladies please stop encouraging men to rape even though men shouldn't (I don't condone rape) but stop being fucking naive.

This life is quid pro quo "something for something"... self interest rules... you are interested in free wifi, free transport, free ice cream and the other party is interested is your presence only?

It's painful when girls are blinded by comfort.

There is BIG DIFFERENCE between persuation/seduction and RAPE. The whole scenario according to her own story points to seduction/persuation.

It does not even sound like date rape... when you look at the scenario she painted. The next is to hear from the guy because some girls lie about rape either for blackmail (to get money) or shame (her boyfriend found out) or anger (because the guy does not want to be her boyfriend).

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

laveda were did u get dis blog