Women do not forgive especially when he isn't remorseful. I love how they convince themselves otherwise.

pocohantas:
Men will come here now to tell us how women forgive and forget when their husbands cheat. Will you shut up.
Which women forgive and forget?
They don't forget any damn thing.

They have only been conditioned to take back their cheating husbands. No difference in the pain at all, definitely not by gender, maybe individuality... So, respect your vows.

LOL. The guy only said something that happens though. It happens a lot, men just don't talk about theirs. They pride in doing the cheating, not being cheated on. You'll be surprised how common it is.

I am not saying that it doesn't happen. It is better to be safe than sorry. I don't trust these men at all.

Oyindidi:
Why such question? I know you insult me always but I decided to reply your mention. Have a nice day.

By implication, women should go cheat, "the real men" would forgive them but " the weak men" wouldn't, huh?
Going by your status, aren't you supposed to condemn such as unacceptable to reasonableness, aren't you, oyinye?. I guess your hubby needs to have a rethink.
Biko, carry yourself comot from my face.


#EraOfTheHoes

uboma:




You are the one here who is dumb.

How does paying the dowry justify a man's extra marital affairs?

Does paying the dowry signifies that the man owns the woman?

Na 4 ur mind u don make sense abi?

TimeMod3:
By implication, women should go cheat, "the real men" would forgive them but " the weak men" wouldn't, huh?
Going by your status, aren't you supposed to condemn such as unacceptable to reasonableness, aren't you, oyinye?. I guess your hubby needs to have a rethink.
Biko, carry yourself comot from my face.


#EraOfTheHoes

I know you but no time. Discuss about thread, who is encouraging cheating? Most men are very jealous but he seems cool with it. That why I said that. Hate for someone you don't know. I pray God to forgive you. If you like abuse me, na your business.

kennygee:


So because the man paid the bride price, its okay for him to commit adultery?

Smh.

where did I say dat it is OK, 4 men to commit adultery because dey pay bride price? stop twisting my words.

[quote author=chidichuddo post=62934148]


for the record, women get pregnant not the man


pregnancy affects a woman psychologically and physically

a man can decide to leave the woman he had a baby and move on but it's not the same for a lady


if a man and a woman decides to bring in kids from previous relationships, the man would treat all equally but a woman would give preference to their own ( same happens to single mothers)


a man might be a single dad and it doesn't affect the way he reasons, u won't even know if he has a child elsewhere but for a lady it's the exact opposite. marriage comes with a lot of challenges.
we were tot 2 block our ears and listen to our hearts.no where is it ever said that marriage is till death do u part when smth threatens ur peace of mind.suffice it to say 'islam is the way.the only way'

mustafa006:

it takes a real fool to do that

Men can't tolerate cheating. My cousin's late dad did something similar. His wife left him, they had kids before she left. She apologized after giving birth to a baby with the other man. He accepted her back. They had another child and he gave the girl a very funny name.

Belafonte:


There is nothing mature about being a cuckold. A cuckold is a cuckold. Next time, she'll play her game smarter.

I would definitely agree - being a cuckold - sucks. But i think our society is changing, and dare I say with every new relationship, our ideas and concept of Love evolves. Nowadays, with the type of sh!t couples engage in, you just know conservative relationship dynamics is gradually being kicked out the window; from wives/gfs going out their way to set-up threesōmes for her hubby to grown men getting the ultimate trip from watching their precious little wives being slammed senseless by their gardeners. You know there is even this thing called swinging now: married couples on a night out return home with other couples, swap partners, then get on with it. These are people who are very much in love with their significant other, mind you.
If that's not true love on a deeper level, then I don't know what is.
Like Kanye once said in his lyrics from No Church In The Wild, "love is cursed by monogamy."

We just love some people in a crazy way. Nothing they do or say would ever change that.
The man in question is a cuckold, yes. But if he's happy, then that word becomes nothing but a label.

classicMan22:
where did I say dat it is OK, 4 men to commit adultery because dey pay price? stop twisting my words.

No one is twisting your words Mister.

That was the meaning from your post.


If you meant differently, go back and rephrase your comment.

chidichuddo:



for the record, women get pregnant not the man


pregnancy affects a woman psychologically and physically

a man can decide to leave the woman he had a baby and move on but it's not the same for a lady


if a man and a woman decides to bring in kids from previous relationships, the man would treat all equally but a woman would give preference to their own ( same happens to single mothers)


a man might be a single dad and it doesn't affect the way he reasons, u won't even know if he has a child elsewhere but for a lady it's the exact opposite.


no matter how strong or mighty a man is, if you want to destroy him totally while he still breathes just sleep with his wife or tell him who is bunking his woman, it would forever hunt him. the man would always have a mental picture of him any time he is alone with her but it's not the same for a woman, she can get angry for a month or so but would forget about it as long as the man doesn't repeat the act.


that man is suffering in silence only men would understand.

Are you married?

It is only an immature person that won't forgive a spouse who cheated

If u have a good marriage, cheating is not enough reason to divorce.

cherr:
Women receive unrepentant cheating husbands with open arms...Society says that's what a "Good Wife" should do.

Why can't a "Good husband" do the same thing?

That's because she doesn't know where to go.

Oyindidi:
I know you but no time. Discuss about thread, who is encouraging cheating? Most men are very jealous but he seems cool with it. That why I said that. Hate for someone you don't know. I pray God to forgive you. If you like abuse me, na your business.

abuse you kwa, you don already abuse yourself already na.

when it favours women... "men are cool" but when it doesn't favour you... "men are scums. rubbish!
You wey you suppose take the lead & talk with sense, una don turn yourself finish into a washing hand basin on this forum. yeye dey smell.


#NoBitchAttitude

YelloweWest:
It is only an immature person that won't forgive a spouse who cheated

If u have a good marriage, cheating is not enough reason to divorce.

It is easier and sweeter to say this.


The problem lies with the implementation.


You may forgive your cheating partner but can you truly forget the act?

biacan:
If we ladies can accept cheating husband........ why won't they accept us.........? smh

Modify
For all those adulterous men quoting me......you guys should watch it..... cause that is what happens when you're on a wrong journey.....spit on them

. Try it @ the man sent you packing..lol

MropeEleniyan00:
. Try it @ the man sent you packing..lol

Why don't you help him out..........mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

abeg if ur wife cheats forgive her.. cus men cheat more in marriages and women forgive

MropeEleniyan00:
. Try it @ the man sent you packing..lol

Why don't you help him out..........mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Rozaytee:
abeg if ur wife cheats forgive her.. cus men cheat more in marriages and women forgive

Speak on sister

uboma:




It is easier and sweeter to say this.


The problem lies with the implementation.


You may forgive your cheating partner but can you truly forget the act?

Time heals almost everything.

If tow people are determined to stay together any forgiveness is possible.

Besides think of the difficulties of a divorce.

Rozaytee:
abeg if ur wife cheats forgive her.. cus men cheat more in marriages and women forgive

Speak on sister say it to them

biacan:
If we ladies can accept cheating husband........ why won't they accept us.........? smh

Modify
For all those adulterous men quoting me......you guys should watch it..... cause that is what happens when you're on a wrong journey.....spit on them

absolutely correct.... don't mind does hypocrites dat call dem selves men... many of dem cheat on their wives like hell.. and their wives forgive dem....

The day this man’s suppressed vex go explode eh ... even Boko Haram go hear am

Oyindidi:
Men can't tolerate cheating. My cousin's late dad did something similar. His wife left him, they had kids before she left. She apologized after giving birth to a baby with the other man. He accepted her back. They had another child and he gave the girl a very funny name.

little wonder, Na your cousin be your template ba?
Your cousin & other pussies are the real men for accepting back their bitches but people like us who wouldn't are weak men?

#CallABitchABitch

YelloweWest:

Time heals almost everything.

If tow people are determined to stay together any forgiveness is possible.

Besides think of the difficulties of a divorce.

If the aggrieved partner chooses to forgive the cheating partner and truly forget the act, good luck to them.


For us who cannot, let us be...

even if I wanno accept a cheating wife, but certainly not a pregnant one. not me o

Rozaytee:
absolutely correct.... don't mind does hypocrites dat call dem selves men... many of dem cheat on their wives like hell.. and their wives forgive dem....

They are the STD'S carriers bunch of confused set of begins

YelloweWest:
It is only an immature person that won't forgive a spouse who cheated

If u have a good marriage, cheating is not enough reason to divorce.

who blames you?. Were you not the bitch who followed another man to an hotel, and later ran away. bitch!

#CallABitchABitch

olumide81:
Masculine ego and pride seems to be the greatest threats to such relationship comebacks. I am a victim of such, a phone call could save my marriage..... I can't live to recall what I saw.... Ko easy.

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In my eyes, a cheating partner is almost like a filthy leper with severe leprosy. I don't know how I can get aroused by such a person, without thinking of the infidelity.