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My boyfriend and I started dating not more than a month now and we usually have series of issues,whenever we are having discussion we usually end up with quarrel.he picks offense on any little thing. last week we both went out to get what to eat... when we got there, I told him I wanted fish pie, he told me the money won't be enough to buy it,I know very well the money was more than enough. I told him I want the fish pie,the next he told me that I should stop embarrassing myself.. I was angry so left him to collect money to buy it.only for me to receive text from him that I should leave his house since he is too small to talk to me...so I left his house that night.the next day I called him to tell him I was sorry and he said he was also sorry for what he said...
Last night, we were discussing on whatsapp,so he told me he need some time to be alone,I wasn't happy when he said that becos he has been away almost a week.. so I told him I was missing him,he then told me that I can come over to his but "once is 12" he wants to be alone. so I said there was no need of me coming over to his place.. he was angry that why won't .to cut the long story short he said it was over between the both of us.I then asked him if this was enough reason to end a reason.. he told me that since I can't listen to him I should leave him in peace..I told his friend and his friend said it was becos I gave him to much attention,his friend told me some many things about him and about his part relationships,how he treated his exs.He also told me to be careful of him,that he is going to call me back that I shouldn't be surprised. I have decided I won't date him again even if he apologiz.
Guys,don't think his friend is a bad person, he confirmed some things about him which are true and also told me more about him and also his plan towards ladies.
Guys was bad I gave attention,if I didn't, they will say u didn't give him attention that was why.

Nawa,

Ur bf(or ur ex apparently) has broken up with u, so just let sleeping dogs lie, cuz from ur write up, dunno why y'all just arguing over trivial things though.

His friend isn't bad, he just broke the bro code in a way(just kidding). Nowadays, one needs to be careful and fully informed b4 dating someone o, b4 dem pour acid on u.

Hopefully people below will hv an advice

And am here looking the same attention....... This life is not fair

Missyqween?

[color=#F5A215] Will it be wrong if you give me all your attention? [/color]

Less than a month into a relationship and you already encountered all these issues?

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!

Secondly, what kind of boyfriend do you have that can't afford/offer to buy you ORDINARY FISH PIE?

DON'T TELL ME YOU'RE ALREADY IN 'LOVE' WITH THAT POVERTY-STRIKEN LAZY POMPOUS NIGGA!

QUIT, SISTER...QUIT!

He is not poor,he is an average guy.

ibietela2:
And am here looking the same attention....... This life is not fair

is not fair at all.he has blocked me on whatsapp

First of all, he doesn't love you, secondly, His friend is a complete Amebo.

Desiree47:
is not fair at all.he has blocked me on whatsapp

Forget about that guy, he has someone else.

hahahaha fished brained. dem do fuk u dump u, he prob told his friend to try too , dat y his friend told u those tins. seems u dont know guys ehn

Brb

Hearing from one person is not enough tho. But I know guys who are dictators. Their say, their rule.
Personally, I know not every guy can handle 100% attention. After a while, it chokes them... but the moment you reduce it drastically, they notice and start craving you. Guys don't also know what they want but it's less obvious than "the girls symptims".
Leave a dictator and get a leader.

Look around you, you'll find someone else, I'm not promising he's gonna be any better but you'll definitely find someone else.

Desiree47:
is not fair at all.he has blocked me on whatsapp

Sorry dear.

You should give him sometime and see..... What is the problem? How can a month old relationship be having this kinda silly issue?

Mine is just 5 days

RoyalBlak007:
Missyqween?

[color=#F5A215] Will it be wrong if you give me all your attention? [/color]

***RUN AWAY***
I think op said,"Your Man" So,Who are you

He asked you out of his house because of fish pie saga..... As normal guy, i'll say he isn't caring and tolerating.

A month relationship ended this way.... As a street nigga, I'll say he used and dumped a glorifying ass.

He asked you out of his house and you called the next day to apologize...... As your friend, i'll say you over showed desperate atoms that you can't stay without him.

He asked you out of his house and you called him to apologize..... As a good man, i'll say you showed much level of loyalty and maturity.


He asked you out of his house and you called him to apologize.... As a blunt street nigga, i'll say you are damn desperate and scared of your ass being dumped by him.


He called off the relationship and you met his friend for talks.... As a good man, I'll say you love him so much and can possibly do anything for have him back.

He called off the relationship and you met his friend for talks....As a blunt street nigga, i'll say you are very stupid and desperate that you can't afford to learn how to handle loss from a scumbag that dumbed your sorry ass.


He called off the relationship and you met his friend for talks.... As a street fvckboy, i'll say you might end up in his friend's bed screaming and squirting while being banged by his electrifying dick.




Lastly!!!

I'll advice you to move on, if possible give yourself a break too, you deserve it........ Whatever will be will be.

Life is too short to kill yourself over a man....If possible look for the nearest place of reaction, go alone and feel alright, even if it's for an hour.


Drops pen.

missyQween:
***RUN AWAY***
I think op said,"Your Man" So,Who are you

I am that 'Special'

[color=#F5A215] ..you've been longing to have [/color]

Someone ask you to leave his house in the night and you still call to apologize ? You should have run away before he ask you to

RoyalBlak007:
I am that 'Special'

[color=#F5A215] ..you've been longing to have [/color]

Special, When you can't cook any sweet delicacy ?

missyQween:
Special, When you can't cook any sweet delicacy ?

Háhåhahaăã!

[color=#F5A215]My ex still calls me to cùm make her breakfast in bed >>>>>Between you & I...I'm the ßetter cook #HusbandMaterial[/color]

RoyalBlak007:
Háhåhahaăã!

[color=#F5A215]My ex still calls me to cùm make her breakfast in bed >>>>>Between you & I...I'm the ßetter cook #HusbandMaterial[/color]

Lol,How many yards ?

missyQween:
Lol,How many yards ?

30ßillion

[color=#F5A215]yards? How many yards you be? 2.5? [/color]

RoyalBlak007:
30ßillion

[color=#F5A215]yards? How many yards you be? 2.5? [/color]

The perfect Yard,Hehehe

D kinda sh!t dat happens wen kids date,i always advice ppl 2date only when dey r ready 2settle down,why phuck wiv Yuh piece of mind n sanity over a wound in between d leg....smh

missyQween:
The perfect Yard,Hehehe

You meant

[color=#F5A215]The Perfect Yard for me right? [/color]

[quote author=RoyalBlak007 post=63316624] You meant

[color=#F5A215]The Perfect Yard for me right? [/color]
[/quote

Lol,I mean the perfect wifematerial

op is soft hearted and loved this guy a bit too much. There is nothing to be ashamed of in that. But you shouldn't have allowed him to treat you like he did. It should have being you doing the dumping. Nigga gave you a military kinda love. Thank God he didn't cap it with beatings sha. Hopefully you would pick a lesson or two from this.

when a relationship gets to the stage of involving a third party,i hate it.His friend broke the guy code,i can't trust such friends,don't be suprised if his friend later asks you out

yeyerolling:
hahahaha fished brained. dem do fuk u dump u, he prob told his friend to try too , dat y his friend told u those tins. seems u dont know guys ehn

I know is someone like you that can sleep with their friend ex girlfriend or even their girlfriend self.

djpriopry:
when a relationship gets to the stage of involving a third party,i hate it.His friend broke the guy code,i can't trust such friends,don't be suprised if his friend later asks you out

I knew him through his friend, that was why I told him... do you say trust? my ex is worst than this guy, the very first date we started dating, he was saying all sort of words about his friend,I was really surprised how some guys can gossip about their fellow guy.