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Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Quelle: 1:40am On Dec 18, 2017
Twitter user, Stevie Que has taken to the platform to express his anger over 'Bride pride' claims Nigerians use every opportunity to scam.



He wrote;
Can somebody explain to me why the Africans have no class?? Why do they throw ones at people on their WEDDING they as if they are worthless strippers with no dignity ? Please explain"



He continued;;
"African parents sell their daughters as if they are prostitutes and call I️t a “bridal fee” or some other dumb shit just to get married... smh why am I paying the parents to marry their daughter? this is sick"
"Africans are known for scamming & finessing but this is just sick... can people be in love IN PEACE without you scamming for once.. I’m not paying nobody parents to marry their daughter.. they better be grateful somebody even wants to marry her"



http://www.lodgerill.com.ng/2017/12/not-paying-white-man-laments-over-bride.html?m=1

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Adebowhales(m): 1:40am On Dec 18, 2017
This one na afin, between I've never seen a hausa albino.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by 9jaDoc(f): 1:46am On Dec 18, 2017
Oga white man, u meant to say "Nigerians are known for scamming" not Africans.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Ugoeze2016: 2:08am On Dec 18, 2017
Mr. whiteman welcome to modern slavery. You wonder why most Igbo men marry late, saving up for bride price, non sense

Very common in Igbo land, specially Imo state.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by serverconnect(m): 2:20am On Dec 18, 2017
My dear Africa has tradition. But I am not in support of paying too much (high) bride price.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Oye0404(m): 2:29am On Dec 18, 2017
Come to think of it, do d whites pay bride price? Mr White go marry for ur country, its not by force to marry a black lady,
By d way who says there are no enough men to marry dem in Africa.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by smulti(m): 2:49am On Dec 18, 2017
White people don't engage in those poo...

they are joined in marriage registry and white wedding is optional .

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by smulti(m): 2:54am On Dec 18, 2017
Oye0404:
Come to think of it, do d whites pay bride price? Mr White go marry for ur country, its not by force to marry a black lady,
By d way who says there are no enough men to marry dem in Africa.

the bride to be says Otherwise
.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by bammy00(m): 5:50am On Dec 18, 2017
If he was told about it and he still went ahead then he is a foolish man. I'm guessing they gave him the maximum list because he's white.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 6:47am On Dec 18, 2017
That bride price ruined a daughters future with a dad. Story for another day

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by omaar12(m): 8:39am On Dec 18, 2017
If He Is Not Comfortable With It, There Is A Lot Of White Ladies In Europe And America, He Should Go Back To His Continent And Get Married. African Men Are Not Complaining, Must Me Substitute All Our Culture And Norms Just To Please U Guy.
He Is Even Saying We Should Be Happy That He Is Even Getting Married To Our Ladies Wtf. These Kind Of Guys Are Those Kind That The In Laws Cannot Ask For Help When They Are In Dier Need Least He Calls Them A Scammer.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by omaar12(m): 8:52am On Dec 18, 2017
Ugoeze2016:
Mr. whiteman welcome to modern slavery. You wonder why most Igbo men marry late, saving up for bride price, non sense

Very common in Igbo land, specially Imo state.
If That Why U Have Been Saving Up, Then U Must Be One Of Those Using Bride Price As An Excuse Not To Get Married, There Are Alot Of Places When U Can Marry A Lady In Igboland And It Wont Even Put A Niche In Ur Pocket.
Even In Mbaise That Is Adjudged To The The Most Expensive Place To Get Married To, Dont They Have Poor People There.
Igbo men Get Married Late In Age Because They Are Busy Putting And Setting Up The Right Things In Place For The Yet To Come, So Children And Wife Dont Get To Go Thru Much Hardship. That Is The CREED Of Even Hardworking Igbo Man.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by omaar12(m): 8:57am On Dec 18, 2017
Oye0404:
Come to think of it, do d whites pay bride price? Mr White go marry for ur country, its not by force to marry a black lady,
By d way who says there are no enough men to marry dem in Africa.
Dont Mind Them, They Are The Only One That When They Talk About Money, It Is Not A Scam, Bt When A Black Man Talks About Money It Is A Scam And All Bad Vices. Anything That Is Not Free To Them Is A Scam. Long Throat People.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by stevezuks: 10:27am On Dec 18, 2017
He should not marry then stupid, smelly white people. I who be the mumu girl self wey they love that one. I when strong muscular Black Brothers are in the house.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by MrsNwaAmaikpe(f): 10:27am On Dec 18, 2017
ok
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 10:28am On Dec 18, 2017
You see your life, Igbos

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Agimor(m): 10:28am On Dec 18, 2017
He is obviously referring to that Mbiase girlfriend of his that wants to rip him of his currency.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Smontah: 10:28am On Dec 18, 2017
The wedding party part 3

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by biacan(f): 10:28am On Dec 18, 2017
Because we have dignity unlike some people

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by innobets(m): 10:28am On Dec 18, 2017
Can somebody tell dis man to respect Our tradition...

We like am like DAT... his opinion is not needed

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Naughtytboy: 10:29am On Dec 18, 2017
Lol no be u say u wan do

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Macgreat(m): 10:29am On Dec 18, 2017
grin

Sir Lugard, I agree with you completely. I will not pay any too.

Is a big scam, they got it from slavery. Africans selling their daughters to slavery since 1680.


Mchewwww!

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by johnstar(m): 10:29am On Dec 18, 2017
Na true d man dey yan jare grin


If i fit change my mind marry 9ja gal

If u r not a virgin

Babe forget it


I won't pay for ur brideprice undecided



D rate wey gals dey Bleep self brideprice nor suppose dey again shocked

Make we scrap dis shiiit comot cool

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by oshe111(m): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2017
DUDE IS BROKE


"They Better Be Grateful Someone Even Wants To marry Her"


This is what U get when UR PHONE HAS A SCREEN LOCK BUT UR LEGS ARE ALWAYS WIDER THAN RIVER NILE.....

U BECOME WORTHLESS, THESE DAYS SOME GIRLS EVEN INITIATES SEX AND FORCE YOU WHEN U REJECT THEM.....

U THINK U ARE ĎOING ME BUT U ARE DOING YOURSELF.....

PS: PREEK DONT EXPAND, BUT TOTO DOES

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Endtimesmith(m): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2017
This planet earth tire person,getting ready to walk into mars...

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by ghostfacekillar(m): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:
You see your life, Igbos
u are very stupid.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by snowden9(m): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2017
Sometimes it's not about being broke or tight fisted that makes one utter words like that but when you look at it explicitly, you begin to ask yourself 'why should I pay for what might cause me troubles and problems in the future (speaking about what our marriage these years have suddenly turned to. You see the headlines)? '
Who came up with this concept and what was the motive behind it?
Should it be used as a yardstick to exploit hustling and struggling men from their hard earned money? Thereby telling yourself 'If he doesn't pay someone else will come and pay', Is your daughter a product in the market?
But then let's look at it this way, every expensive and valuable item was bought with a price. What matters now is, will you be keeping that white and black hunch back tv of 1999 till the 2017 plasma tv year?
Know when to release your daughter and not make price an issue so she won't be dragging the last meat in the pot with you at 40years of age.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 10:31am On Dec 18, 2017
Now this here is a different cultural perspective.

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