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Dear Admin,

Help a guy here. I am not a player by any means but I have a situation I would like your help to sort out.

So I have a girl,we been together for a while,almost like three years. A year ago,she a job in Lagos and it was too good an offer to turn down. We agreed she should take the offer and see how it goes.


Eight months after we got engaged. Long distance relationship is hard but we make it work as much as possible through constant calling,skyping…she also visits once a month.I visit sometimes too.

Two months ago,I got friendly with a lady I met at a gym. I told her I was engaged..she also has a boyfriend. But as time went on,I realise how comfortable I am with her. We havent done anything yet but she is such a down to earth kind of person. We talk deep and sometimes dirty. I like that she is open to experimenting unlike my girl. Am sorry its like am comparing both of them but this girl makes me envy her boyfriend. The things they do,how they play,how they tease each other. I mean,I was talking with her in the car one day and she was talking about her relationship and I was really getting an erection….my bad but I have been thinking seriously about my relationship with my fiancee.

I read one of your articles which was talk about s*x expectations with your potential spouse.So I talked with my girl and I found out she is not into things that I like. Like oral s*x,and other stuff. She is the typical good girl. Meanwhile,this my gym girl does not mind. I jokingly asked the gym girl if she would break up with her boyfriend for me..she said,I....Read More





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love any ur heart can carry

this type of story in nairaland should stop in 2017

Na people like u dey make ladies bash guys for here....u get better girl but u dey find something else....in short, I pity Ur condition oo...oloju kokoro oshi

okay Mr op, you dey crase, but in any case marry the two to complement each other
See lemme tell you something, there is a difference between long suffering and suffer long, I have suffered the two

but seriously now Mr op, you want to break up with your long term good girl fiancée because of oräl sex(bj)? even if this gym karashika can hang her legs on Lucifer's head during sex, there's more to a relationship than offering sex and naughty talks oga, hope this your gym baby doesn't extend her naughtiness to your momma and dump your lame ass for a guy she meets at dominos just like she's ready to dump who she's with now for you.
For me sha, sex is overrated and you're tryna exhibit a perverted wisdom.

An advice from the depth of my heart to you man;

So she replied "read more

Bia gerarahia with ur lame story.....

Shift make i see beta post.

Greedy!

habsydiamond:
Na people like u dey make ladies bash guys for here....u get better girl but u dey find something else....in short, I pity Ur condition oo...oloju kokoro oshi

ORAGBON:
Greedy!

he get meat for house won come kill himself on top ponmo again......such is life sha.....

bro to tell u d truth i will advise u stick to ur girl but talk to her about ur sexual expectations. the truth is dis most husbands seek Ladies outside becos dere wife dont satisfy dem. she should learn. cos its for the benefit of both of u.

God bless you. Some guyz even say they prefer gals who were wild before. This was delibrated on the whatsapp group. You won't believe what we heard from holier than thou brethren

ekanempatrick28:
bro to tell u d truth i will advise u stick to ur girl but talk to her about ur sexual expectations. the truth is dis most husbands seek Ladies outside becos dere wife dont satisfy dem. she should learn. cos its for the benefit of both of u.