₦airaland Forum

BabbanBura:
Sorry but you didn't understand me. Regards

I do now...

Sannu

What kind of people do you meet

LifeIsGuhd:
I do now...

Sannu

Kina jin yaren ne daman! Na sami fallasa ke nan. Yaya kike?

BabbanBura:
Kina jin yaren ne daman! Na sami fallasa ke nan. Yaya kike?

Lol, ina lapiya
Ama sunanka yana bani dariya

LifeIsGuhd:
Lol, ina lapiya
Ama sunanka yana bani dariya

Dariya ko dai marmari?

kimbraa:
That lady needs to seat herself down and ask some questions. If possible, do some findings...why is her late husband's friend so dedicated to sending her welfare?. Personally, I think he's compensating her for something he can't live with the guilt if he doesn't.

What if he's just being a good friend ?

May be he is trying to repay the late friend for a favor tru the wife.... Or maybe it was a deal b/w friends

All the comments i have read here simply prove that the world is not used to KINDNESS. As a man be very careful of how you give a helping hand to a woman who is not your relative because your acts of benevolence may work against you.

Very kind of him. Even after losing his job.
It's rare to find such selfless people

mostyg:
Why not just marry the widow?

If you read the post you would have figured out he has a wife.

I'm touched

I believe it could be true,today I entered a tricycle and someone forgot his phone in it,the guy begged me not to be angry that he has to go back to where he dropped d previous passenger and return the phone before dropping me off and he did exactly that

pussyeater:
Actually I didn't read the post but I think the girl has no right to beat up her boyfriend in public. Maybe they should report the matter to their village elders but if the neighbor refuse to pay the rent, they should just kill the landlord & forget about the missing car.

Iya no network.

efighter:
Iya no network.

Your Moniker

kimbraa:
That lady needs to seat herself down and ask some questions. If possible, do some findings...why is her late husband's friend so dedicated to sending her welfare?. Personally, I think he's compensating her for something he can't live with the guilt if he doesn't.

Or he owes a lot to his friend and can't watch while his family suffers after he's gone

StrawberryGloss:
If you read the post you would have figured out he has a wife.

Ladyfriend, there is nothing in my statement that implies he has no wife.

The man has been dishing #150k three years before he got married. He could have married her before he got married last year.

Secondly, who says he still couldn't marry her.
He could take her as the second wife. Even with the monthly #190k, she still need a man in her life.

This is how we ought to be paying tithe

mostyg:
Ladyfriend, there is nothing in my statement that implies he has no wife.

The man has been dishing #150k three years before he got married. He could have married her before he got married last year.

Secondly, who says he still couldn't marry her.
He could take her as the second wife. Even with the monthly #190k, she still need a man in her life.

He's not entitled to marry her.
If she needs a man she can find one herself.
Not everyone likes a polygamist marriage.

StrawberryGloss:
He's not entitled to marry her.
If she needs a man she can find one herself.
Not everyone likes a polygamist marriage.

I haven't seen what disqualifies this kind hearted gentleman from marrying the widow if they both agree to do so.

The decision to marry or not is theirs not ours, Ladyfriend.

Do have a wonderful night rest.

Ieltstrainer:
All the comments i have read here simply prove that the world is not used to KINDNESS. As a man be very careful of how you give a helping hand to a woman who is not your relative because your acts of benevolence may work against you.

Seriously Nigerians are not used to kindness.
If you are kind, most people will feel there is something bad u are hiding ,hence the kind gesture. Some will want to label one as a murderer or ritualistic for been kind.

Then If you are mean and stingy, they will be comfortable around u but still complain.

People sha.

alexialin:
Seriously Nigerians are not used to kindness.
If you are kind, most people will feel there is something bad u are hiding ,hence the kind gesture. Some will want to label one as a murderer or ritualistic for been kind.

Then If you are mean and stingy, they will be comfortable around u but still complain.
You
People sha.

cynically twisted.

mostyg:
I haven't seen what disqualifies this kind hearted gentleman from marrying the widow if they both agree to do so.

The decision to marry or not is theirs not ours

My point exactly.

mostyg:
Ladyfriend, there is nothing in my statement that implies he has no wife.

The man has been dishing #150k three years before he got married. He could have married her before he got married last year.

Secondly, who says he still couldn't marry her.
He could take her as the second wife. Even with the monthly #190k, she still need a man in her life.

This your comment is very interesting. So marrying a woman is a way of helping her. I hope you understand what marriage is?

Everyday people.

QueenBeeHive:
cynically twisted.

It's not cynical, it's the plain truth.
Have witnessed it several times, when I try to be nice to ladies especially. Am a lady.

Ladies are always suspicious, and I just shrug and move on. No need wasting time.

Guys are more susceptible when u offer them a helping hand. Women are not.. Most women sha.
But it's all good, one cannot force someone to accept goodwill or kind heartedness.

That's why I have only two close married friends who are kindhearted and less suspicious like me and 6 male friends, whom are nice and kind too.

^e were something but you were frontier