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|My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Deathisfree: 11:26am On Feb 21|
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.
I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.
When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.
December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.
To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.
A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.
Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside
With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Shellsploit: 11:29am On Feb 21|
Wait, Lemme think first!
If i were u, i will swing into "reconnaissance mission" then clear off off tracks after "footprinting" !
Be your brothers keeper!
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Kobicove(m): 11:32am On Feb 21|
The guy uses the Hollandia yoghurt to replace what he lost during the escapade
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Hardtalk: 11:34am On Feb 21|
Do your investigation properly, get your facts right and get a colleague or friend of yours to act anonymously in telling her husband.
Do not be involved directly.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 11:36am On Feb 21|
Abeg free the woman joor.
Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is?
Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by McEphiks(m): 11:36am On Feb 21|
You are still suspecting her and don't have a valid and solid proof yet.
Try get a proof, and tell your friend. With the bond you both share I think your friend will listen to understand rather than listen to reply.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by justosee: 11:37am On Feb 21|
Tell your friend and save a brother's life. both of them could plot to kill your friend if he come back to this country.
it will be nice if you can gather enough evidence.
I blame your friend for keeping his wife in a different country. Better to go your separate ways if you can't take her with you.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Lalami3232(m): 11:38am On Feb 21|
I no know how you and ur guy friendship dey tight sha, but if na me and my guys, I go tell am without thinking twice cus na only a true friend go tell u say ur mouth dey smell.
But one more thing, are u 100% sure say these accusations are 101% correct? If they are not true, my brother, u don scatter family be that ooooo. I go still want you to do more research and findings before drawing into a conclusion. Try as much as to get close to the wife more, for the sake of ur friend. She may be lonely, and u know how women are vulnerable in times of loneliness. I pray say make the accusations be lie sha cus no man or woman deserves a cheating partner.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by BareFacedLies(m): 11:41am On Feb 21|
If you were a good friend you would have been the one servicing the lady instead of leaving the job for a complete stranger to do
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by kelvinrhs(m): 11:44am On Feb 21|
Your friend that left since 2018 is definitely practicing celibacy over there too
Because body is firewood
Turn a blind eye because it's not even sure if your friend is ever going to come back for her
Or he's just waiting for her mistake so he can dwell on that
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Deathisfree: 11:47am On Feb 21|
Before I saw him smooched The ass ,I saw the guy few weeks ago leaving the house very early in the morning ,I was heading to work,I purposely gave him a ride
I’m not sure he knows me ,he was looking so rough
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Deathisfree: 11:49am On Feb 21|
It’s not that easy. They’ve denied her visa 3 good times
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by McEphiks(m): 11:49am On Feb 21|
Those are not presentable proof bro. She can deny such allegations since there's no evidence. All I'm saying is you should get a proof she can't deny.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by extol1(m): 11:50am On Feb 21|
there is no way she wouldn't cheat since 2018 when she has tasted the gbola before. if you love your friend just called to come and pick his abandoned wife
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Shellsploit: 11:51am On Feb 21|
Servicing the lady because she looks like a ford engine!
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Shellsploit: 11:52am On Feb 21|
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by justosee: 11:53am On Feb 21|
Deathisfree:be bold enough to tell your friend even if it will ruin your relationship with him. he will be forever grateful to you, if he is a real man.
Or you want a situation where he hear it from outsiders instead of you his trusted friend?
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by dasauce(m): 11:57am On Feb 21|
The truth is... it'll be so difficult to find a woman who'll stay that long without sex in this generation. And I'm sure your friend knows this..
From experience, if you don't tell him, someone else within your neighbourhood will try and get his number and inform him.. So do the needful and let him know what he already envisaged.
There's no point looking for any useless evidence.. just tell him in one of your convo to brace up... cuz he's wife is now a cheerful giver.. he'll understand and do the needful.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by valentineuwakwe(m): 12:04pm On Feb 21|
This is what you should do.....
visit her and tell her you want to see her....talk to her n tell her you know everything she has been doing with guys..don't say or mention about the guy you saw her with.try to make her understand such actions could ruin her and it has karma too.. (who knows becos of her adultery dem don denial her visa 3 times).
listen to her response n reactions.....if its well, advice her if not free her n save your own life cos she n the lovers may plan to eliminate you so as the news not reaching her husband so you got to be careful in dealing with this.
the husband may not be a saint over there but telling you to take care of his wife does not mean you should dive into her private life or issue....women will always be women so thread softly on this.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by dasauce(m): 12:06pm On Feb 21|
Let him know now before he takes that Jezebel to the US... That woman might show him her true color when she eventually gets to the US.. and for a fact their law protects women at every fvcking instance... so before he'll make a grave mistake of bringing her in... he should know
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by aroundtheearth: 12:09pm On Feb 21|
Stay out of it. I'm sure your friend is no saint either because he himself probably has someone in the U.S by now.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by OcVoice: 12:10pm On Feb 21|
Any child yet?
Tell your friend please. I hate nonsense!
One of the reasons why the other guy said he won't marry.
You build a house for you and her, bought a car, travel abroad to hustle for you and her, you even tried bringing her over but she was denied. She had the guts to cheat on you. The guy dey even drive your car and sleep your bed!
Some women are she-devils, Demons, heartless! Na prick go kill some of them! The kind of story that would discourage one from getting married
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by justosee: 12:10pm On Feb 21|
dasauce:This is exactly what a real friend will do. He should search for evidence himself.
It is good for a husband and wife to always stay together. divorcing her before going abroad will save you from unnecessary worries.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by coputa(m): 12:11pm On Feb 21|
Deathisfree:No matter how close you are with your friend, never dabble into his matrimonial affairs.
In most cases, they will settle and by then your friend will tell his wife you are the one that reported her and she will in turn tell her husband that you're chasing her
By then the friendship you have built over the years will hit the rock.Issues like this deserve a blind eye and a deafened ear
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by justosee: 12:13pm On Feb 21|
valentineuwakwe:This advice can only come from a simp. don't listen to this useless advice.
Who in his right senses will confront a friend cheating wife?
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by dasauce(m): 12:13pm On Feb 21|
Na so... i have a cousin who travel to the US in 2019.. he already knew The type of wife he had... he sent her some divorce proceeding last year... mama rant to every family member.. but dude just said, he has his reason.. He told me his wife was a cheat.. that he has some evidence against her some five years ago.. that's why he made plans to leave her in Nigeria..
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Truvel(m): 12:14pm On Feb 21|
Deathisfree:Op, Mind Ur Business. Don't Poke Ur Nose.
|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by justosee: 12:18pm On Feb 21|
That your cousin understand the world we live in.
Only a stupid man will leave his wife for years and expect her to stay faithful.
Just divorce her and move on or take her with you.
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by NiRfreak(m): 12:19pm On Feb 21|
Bound to happen just a matter of time...I can never travel out and believe someone won't be fvvcking a woman I left behind...Some men can trust sha
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Womanizer(m): 12:19pm On Feb 21|
Let's be honest here.
Is it fair for your friend to leave his wife all alone in Nigeria for almost 3 years?
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|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by KidDarkness(m): 12:21pm On Feb 21|
Tell your friend but back it up with enough evidence
|Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 12:23pm On Feb 21|
Reminds me of one guy who went to Germany and left his wife in Nigeria for 5 years...òmó na so I just dey bang free toto
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