I know dis is from my own point of view.... But just hv to say it.
wen my uncle got married nd ask d wife to quite her job nd stay at home ,I saw it as a foolish nd a poor mentality move, I was proven otherwise last year . i was in a relationship with a gurl and when we startd dating she was not doing anitin lk workwise so together we prayd search all corners for a miracle in da form of a job .
So wen dis our sole desire was not forth coming i adviced her to learn a handwork despite her uni degree, so she decided to learn bead making. Cn u imaging dat immediately she strted learning dis she stop calling entirely, I was d one always calling until it dawn on me one day nd i asked her bt she claimd she was always busy , I asked her lk busy both weekends wn u are at home She still hid under d shades of being busy.. I took every tin cool, Minding less becos i needed my emotional stability to stay on my job..
Finally God answered our job prayers, Then it moved from not picking mi calls to only chats I complained bt she still brought d initial tlk of work busy. Finally her atitude changed .. She was so authoritative wen she tlks to me , respect zero becos she s earning sometin now.... In all and all i let d whole tin go down... Dats we broke up...nd it saved me a lot (my focus)

If i was not emotionally strong wat would hv been d case?. . Now i go with My uncle wit d sit at home wife becos women can hardly distinguish between career and relationships or even family....

career for women was invented so that most women will become barren. and never have anyone to look up to during their old age.

quote me anywhere.

bloodmoneyspita:
career for women was invented so that most women will become barren. and never have anyone to look up to during their old age.

quote me anywhere.

Your wrong. You need to study capitalism, its about production.

TheCabal:

Your wrong. You need to study capitalism, its about production.

the industrial revolution solved that shiii

bloodmoneyspita:


the industrial revolution solved that shiii

it started it.

LOL, is this one high? So she should put her dreams to sleep because she wants to be a wife? This misogyny should end this January, I take God beg ona.

Elparaiso:
LOL, is this one high? So she should put her dreams to sleep because she wants to be a wife? This misogyny should end this January, I take God beg ona.

No sir but clearly distinguish btw work nd relationship.
Wic kind work she dy work wey dem nvr work b4......... management of time dats it

Elvixbeatz:

No sir but clearly distinguish btw work nd relationship.
Wic kind work she dy work wey dem nvr work b4......... management of time dats it

Then put "management of time" in the title. Your post basically limits women to the confines of the kitchen and bedroom.

Elvixbeatz:
I know dis is from my own point of view.... But just hv to say it.
wen my uncle got married nd ask d wife to quite her job nd stay at home ,I saw it as a foolish nd a poor mentality move, I was proven otherwise last year . i was in a relationship with a gurl and when we startd dating she was not doing anitin lk workwise so together we prayd search all corners for a miracle in da form of a job .
So wen dis our sole desire was not forth coming i adviced her to learn a handwork despite her uni degree, so she decided to learn bead making. Cn u imaging dat immediately she strted learning dis she stop calling entirely, I was d one always calling until it dawn on me one day nd i asked her bt she claimd she was always busy , I asked her lk busy both weekends wn u are at home She still hid under d shades of being busy.. I took every tin cool, Minding less becos i needed my emotional stability to stay on my job..
Finally God answered our job prayers, Then it moved from not picking mi calls to only chats I complained bt she still brought d initial tlk of work busy. Finally her atitude changed .. She was so authoritative wen she tlks to me , respect zero becos she s earning sometin now.... In all and all i let d whole tin go down... Dats we broke up...nd it saved me a lot (my focus)

If i was not emotionally strong wat would hv been d case?. . Now i go with My uncle wit d sit at home wife becos women can hardly distinguish between career and relationships or even family....

What you went through is called 'experience' and that is what every human being goes through ,we have our experiences,and we learn from it .however picking the bad side only from ur own experience doesnt make ur story well perceived or are u also telling me ur daughters wont go to school simply because they will end up breaking the heart of any man they are in relationship with?

Evacroft:


What you went through is called 'experience' and that is what every human being goes through ,we have our experiences,and we learn from it .however picking the bad side only from ur own experience doesnt make ur story well perceived or are u also telling me ur daughters wont go to school simply because they will end up breaking the heart of any man they are in relationship with?

Help me ask am oo

This is the type of post that makes me question the type of men parents are rearing this days. Imagine....just this and you want to subjugate your wife to the home while you hustle yourself to death. Your post reeks of emotional immaturity. Most men that do a thing like that are not emotionally matured and can do anything including physical abuse just to be recognised as the man. Emancipate yourself from emotional immaturity and emotional dependence.

Fada lawd!
Cover my sisters and female relatives from encountering men like this.

May these men be stricken with dumbness or hit by a truck if they try talking to any of my female kin.

Do this for me o Lord.
Amen.

I told you guys, but you didn't want to listen. *sips tea*

op, i dnt think it is because of her job. the only tangible reason is either she was fed up wit d relationsip or someone have taken ur position in her life. because i knw a lot of working class women dat ar always occupied wit work and deh will always have time for their husband