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Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by saabright(m): 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
In a relationship, is their equality in gender between the guy and the lady? or is the lady meant to be submissive to the guy?
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:10am On Jan 08, 2018
D word submissive may be offensive to some.

But I think nature shd be let to have its way. God built the man strong to defend, protect etc. The woman is built soft and tender to soothe the man with tenderness. Any deviation from this (feminism) is thinking you're wiser than ur creator and when u go against the almighty who created love and passion with its rules, you'll definitely meet the waterloo of break up or divorce. No shortcut

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:13am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:
D word submissive may be offensive to some.

But I think nature shd be let to have its way. God build the man strong to defend, protect etc. The woman is built soft and tender and soothe the man with
With tenderness. Any deviation from this (feminism) is thinking you're wiser than ur creator and when u go against the almighty who created love and passion with its rules, you definitely meet the waterloo of break up or divorce. No shortcut
since you mentioned God, can you qoute verses to vouch for your analysis?

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:15am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

since you mentioned God, can you qoute verses to vouch for your analysis?
There are many but I won't quote bcus I mentioned God as a creator not in d name of any religion.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:18am On Jan 08, 2018
saabright:
In a relationship, is their equality in gender between the guy and the lady? or is the lady meant to be submissive to the guy?

Depends on the financial capability and economical power of the guy.
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:18am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

There are many but I won't quote bcus I mentioned God as a creator not in d name of any religion.
so you mentioned God in the name of what? science? mathematics?
how about you refrain from making statements about God you cant backup with scripture without hiding behind weak excuses.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:23am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

so you mentioned God in the name of what? science? mathematics?
how about you refrain from making statements about God you cant backup with scripture without hiding behind weak excuses.
Oh you're an aethist right? I should have known. Well start knowing me now in case u don't know me before, I can't stop mentioning the words.."God, almighty, creator of all etc" To even mention "nature" sef is to refer to the creator. So if you're pissed, go bury your ugly face in a monkey dung.

If you're not an aethist, you simply lack common comprehensive sense and its obvious.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Elparaiso(m): 12:23am On Jan 08, 2018
Submissive fun kiini? Is he her husband? Even then, I would prefer a softer term like "respect".

When no be say you buy am as slave.
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:25am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Oh you're an aethist right? I should have known. Well start knowing me now in case u don't know me before, I can't stop mentioning the words.."God, almighty, creator of all etc" To even mention "nature" sef is to refer to the creator. So if you're pissed, go bury your ugly face in a monkey dung.

If you're not an aethist, you simply lack common comprehensive sense and JTS obvious.
all i hear is excuses when im expecting verses to support your first statement.
dont make me wait.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:29am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

all i hear is excuses when im expecting verses to support your first statement.
dont make me wait.
Verses to support why the man is to protect and defend and why the woman is tender and to support. Can you hear yourself? Your sense is drained bro.

When u get ur gf, submit to her and let her be ur man ok?
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Next2Bezee(m): 12:32am On Jan 08, 2018
If her parents collected bride price from the husband in exchange for their daughter, then yes..she should be submissive as she has been bought and paid for.

Say NO to collection of bride price, that's modern day slave trading.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:32am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Verses to support why the man is to protect and defend and why the woman is tender to support. Can you hear yourself? Your sense is drained bro.

When u get ur gf, submit to her and let her be ur man ok?
so you claim God made man protector and woman soother and when i ask for the verses im crazy??
why did you make claims you cant back with scripture?? coz clearly its now a headache to you why i asked for those verses.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:38am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

so you claim God made man protector and woman soother and when i ask for the verses im crazy??
why did you make claims you cant back with scripture?? coz clearly its now a headache to you why i asked for those verses.
In which verse is it written that hair must grow in ur pubis at puberty?

Whether u believe it or not, God made it that way. No bible verse is needed for that. Except u made it yourself. Same applies to what we're arguing about.
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Macgreat(m): 12:39am On Jan 08, 2018
Submissiveness has to be in both male and female.

Any responsible person is submissive - male or female.

A man can be submissive in a relationship - that is a reasonable and responsible man.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:41am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

In which verse is it written that hair must grow in ur pubis at puberty?

Whether u believe it or not, God made it that way. No bible verse is needed for that. Except u made it yourself. Same applies to why we're arguing about.
and round and round we go with excuses and diversions.
did i make a mistake by asking for those verses?
but you sounded so confident i thought you had verses ready.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:43am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

and round and round we go with excuses and diversions.
did i make a mistake by asking for those verses?
but you sounded so confident i thought you had verses ready.
I'm sure you need bible verse on why you eat thru ur mouth and fart thru ur anus. In short you need bible verse on why you have poor comprehension.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by LessNoise: 12:46am On Jan 08, 2018
Radicallyblunt and that Mugabe boy grin don't derail this thread

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:47am On Jan 08, 2018
If she wants, but it should be because she's decided to of her own free will and not just because she's a woman

I won't be bothering with all that bride price stuff to avoid being thought of as a commodity tbh
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:47am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

I'm sure you need bible verse on why you eat thru ur mouth and fart thru ur anus. In short you need bible verse on why you have poor comprehension.
OK Im sorry boss for asking for verses after your sermon. i didnt know you were pulling facts from the air.
sorry NOT sorry
get a life.stop acting like you know things when the only thing you know is running away from questions. grow up.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by richythePH(f): 12:51am On Jan 08, 2018
bodyonchecheche:
If she wants, but it should be because she's decided to of her own free will and not just because she's a woman

I won't be bothering with all that bride price stuff to avoid being thought of as a commodity tbh


ibakayee?
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:51am On Jan 08, 2018
richythePH:



ibakayee?
Yup
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:56am On Jan 08, 2018
ubunja:

OK Im sorry boss for asking for verses after your sermon. i didnt know you were pulling facts from the air.
sorry NOT sorry
get a life.stop acting like you know things when the only thing you know is running away from questions. grow up.
You don't have to offer a hypocritical apology bro. You just have to admit you've lost your common sense since d time ur parents contemplated aborting you before they changed their mind.

The op did not mention religion and I didn't neither. If I had mentioned bible or quaran or church or mosque I would have had to defend it using verses.

I mentioned nature and even a nursery 2 child knows d difference between natural and artificial. One is made by God, the other by man...simple. They won't tell you nature is made by bible or quaranic verses.

Perhaps you should higher a pry 6 tutor to teach you aptitude exercises..it will make u understand why no bird will be left out of 10 birds on a tree when one is stoned and not 9 left.

In simple terms, you're daft!
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by richythePH(f): 12:58am On Jan 08, 2018
bodyonchecheche:

Yup


aha!!
i knew those pretty pair of eyes and gigantic pair of hooters looked familiar grin


ban,

got tired of using one sobriquet and decided to create a new main,

just a harmless alternate account,

or

you created it to troll someone............which is it? grin
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by ubunja(m): 12:58am On Jan 08, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

You don't have to offer a hypocritical apology bro. You just have to admit you've lost your common sense since d time ur parents contemplated aborting you before they changed their mind.

The op did not mention religion and I didn't neither. If I had mentioned bible or quaran or church or mosque I would have had to defend it using verses.

I mentioned nature and even a nursery 2 child knows d difference between natural and artificial. One is made by God, the other by man...simple. They won't tell you nature is made by bible or quuaranic verses.

Perhaps you should higher a pry 6 tutor to teach you aptitude..it will make u understand why no bird will be left out of 10 birds on a free when one is stoned and not 9 left.

In simple terms, you're daft!
so many words on things i didnt ask for,,but zero words on the things i asked for.
all these words could be the verses i asked for.open your bible and start qouting. dont be lazy now.

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Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:00am On Jan 08, 2018
LessNoise:
Radicallyblunt and that Mugabe boy grin don't derail this thread
Lol no mind d mumu. I didn't intend to.
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 08, 2018
richythePH:



aha!!
i knew those pretty pair and gigantic pair of hooters looked familiar grin


ban,

got tired of using one sobriquet and decided to create a new main,

just a harmless alternate account,

or

you created it to troll someone............which is it? grin
Lol neither, though I created this monicker when I got banned by the spambot last month or so, just checking something

Hmm, do you have another username? Don't know this one
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by richythePH(f): 1:13am On Jan 08, 2018
bodyonchecheche:

Lol neither, though I created this monicker when I got banned by the spambot last month or so, just checking something

Hmm, do you have another username? Don't know this one


oh i see..........hope u've found what you're looking for grin


and yea i do have other accounts (5 actually) but i dont which you'd know embarassed
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:15am On Jan 08, 2018
richythePH:



oh i see..........hope u've found what you're looking for grin


and yea i do have other accounts (5 actually) but i dont which you'd know embarassed
Lol grin

Hmm ok I may have come across them
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by richythePH(f): 1:22am On Jan 08, 2018
bodyonchecheche:
Lol grin
Hmm ok I may have come across them

okay then grin

they are viz:
1)boobsman
2)sunshiner
3)aggressivefucker
4)thepussyhunter
and
5)theph

know me? grin
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by majekoam(m): 1:22am On Jan 08, 2018
Being Submissive has nothing to do with physical traits.

According to the bible women were created to complete men. Nobody can do anything by themselves.

The problem is understanding in my opinion. Everybody feels submission means becoming a slave..no.

Women are seen as more gentle and meek and as a result are naturally submissive in most cases.

Men are seen as more domineering and more ego driven. As a result if you have a domineering woman there will be a clash and that is why the bible says wives should submit to their husbands as to avoid conflict.

Submission is about accountability. Man/male was created first and was given authority and so God held accountability to Adam even though Eve was at fault. Submission or being Submissive is yielding to Authority.

Why do we kneel before elders? Why do we prostrate before kings. Why do we count ourselves as nothing before God - Authority,

In my opinion it may never be solved as to why the bible suggest wives to submit but I am sure there is a reason for it.
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:24am On Jan 08, 2018
richythePH:



okay then grin


they are viz:

1)boobsman

2)sunshiner

3)aggressivefucker

4)thepussyhunter

and

5)theph


know me? grin
Oh right ok I've come across thepussyhunter before lol
Re: Is The Lady Meant To Be Submissive To The Guy In A Relationship? by richythePH(f): 1:27am On Jan 08, 2018
bodyonchecheche:

Oh right ok I've come across thepussyhunter before lol


cool!!.........was scared you might prolly not who any of my ex-sobriquets


can i tell you a secret.......i havent told anyone this (what ama 'bout to tell you) since it became a secret in 2017 embarassed

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