FruitfulRay:
Good day all, I'll like to let you know that I'll be taking some weeks off social media, NL included, want to use this time for prayer and consecration. Know that once I come back, I'll see many BFPs, I'll also testify. Have a lovely month, God bless us all

whyworryPH:


Thank you mamatwiny. The first time I had a MC, which I thought was a late period, I was actually taking herbs to treat the poison I matched or what some would call Achiere.

So I suspect that the local herbs was probably too strong for my body, hence the MC.

I told the matrons and doc about it when I registered for antenatal for my second pregnancy. It was documented as well.
They also believed the herbs was too strong.

I actually started losing amniotic (hope I got that right, lol) fluid prior to losing the 6 months pregnancy. I didn't know what I was losing, all I knew was that after peeing, there seemed to be another liquid coming out which didn't have offensive smell. But I did notice that a month before then, vaginal itching became present (which wasn't there before). I read on the Internet (wouldn't rely on that again) that such was very common with pregnant women and therefore dismissed it.

I told my gynea on my last prenatal visit prior to the contractions I later had and she only prescribed antibiotics which I didn't take.

She was more eager to get done with the antenatal women than REALLY pay attention to the signs I talked about.

But after losing my 6months pregnancy, I really hated hospitals. It holds so much pain for me.

I was in labour for 4 days and watching my baby lie on the floor helplessly (was on my way from the restroom to the bed to finally deliver when my body took over and pushed the baby out on the floor) still breaks my heart

The hospital is military hospital in Ph. I didn't think they were that bad since one of my sister gave birth to 3 of her kids there.

But I didn't like the idea that only one doc would be on call for the hospital after the usual morning rounds (which by the way was only on weekdays).

Anyway, I will summon courage again and seek medical help in maybe UPTH this time around. I just want to see professionals and hopefully someone that would really listen and follow up on my case.

Sorry for the long epistle (being a journalist pre-disposes me to such).

God bless us all and make 2018 the year we all finally become mothers in Jesus name. Amen.

zoestar:


@Nurry, it seems we are on the same boat, even till now, people still congratulate me.
Most times, when they do, I just claim it.
God will put a smile on out face this year.

Redeemed:
I'm good dear. Happy New year. Hope you're taking care of yourself. May this year be out year of answered prayers

whyworryPH:

mamatwiny:


So sorry dear.
To the first miscarriage - we conclude it was strong herbs.
On the 2nd miscarriage, it could be cervical incompetence or infection. I hope you took antibiotics after that experience. I would advise you go for infection test to make sure u are clear before any further thing. Hope you are not having leaking breast milk.

I say it again, port Harcourt lack good hospitals. Maybe they are waiting when ppl start suing them before they sit up.

When u take in again, start antenal early and be prayerful.

Hugs. God will answer all our prayers.
Amen.

Roseey0:

Big hugs sis
We share similar stories
Mine was in ph too but in a private hospital.
It's obviously an infection and u were dilating unknowingly. But because these hospitals are usually over crowed, attention is very poor.

Mine was detected and I was placed on drugs which I took but wasn't responding to the drug. Went back to complain but I was told to rest and take enough water,t hen come back when the obgyn will be around( he only comes on a particular day). Got there on the consulting day and obgyn said labour has been triggered already and cannot be stopped. I watched my baby take her last breaths there on the bed, no NICU services, besides, her lungs weren't even developed enough by then.

I understand you perfectly sis, because I have walked that path.
I know you will take in soon. Just be more careful with the next. Use the teaching hospital. For me, I registered in 2 places. Yes choba is far, with all the plenty plenty bottlenecks, but the advantage is availability of a obgyn any time you get there. Asides that, after my first experience I swore that one doctor won't handle my case next time. With the teaching hospital, I meet a lot of them, they rub mind together and all that. Eg. I asked one about cerclage considering my history and he educated me properly about it. Even took me to a senior doctor who after asking about my history told me I don't need it. But to be on a safe side, he recommended TVs to monitor length of cervix every 2 weeks and i should call in if I notice anything.
So far. Everything seems good so I haven't even gone there for a while. Still using the private for my routine drugs and checks. On my own, I do urine culture before any antenatal just to be sure am clear and nothing will ever trigger labour till 38weeks.

Do your part, Give yourself time to heal, be more involved, leave the rest to God.
Lots of baby dust
Surely, it will end in praise for us all.

mztubsy:
For TTC supplements, i know folic acid, bcomplex and pregnacare are very good in preparing and putting the body in a viable shape for conception.

@fertilsan, i dont have an idea as regards that, sabi mamas that know about this,please help aswer our sis.

swtdarling:
I went google searching and found this-LIST OF SUPPLEMENTS AND THEIR USES

https://www.whattoexpect.com/forums/trying-to-conceive/topic/list-of-supplements-and-things-that-will-help-conceive-warning-long.html


http://www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=294994.0

Goodmorning

swtdarling:
I went google searching and found this-LIST OF SUPPLEMENTS AND THEIR USES

https://www.whattoexpect.com/forums/trying-to-conceive/topic/list-of-supplements-and-things-that-will-help-conceive-warning-long.html


http://www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=294994.0

Goodmorning

olabeasea:
Good morning mamas in the house,have been TTC for awhile now,yesterday hubby SFA result was out and rhe comment there was Oligospermia which we google and we saw low sperm count.Pls kindly hlp in suggesting ways to combat this issue and drugs to use. He has been down since yesterday.Have carried out scan too and everything is normal.Pls sabi mamas come out and hlp ur sister.Baby dust to us all in this year.

olabeasea:
Good morning mamas in the house,have been TTC for awhile now,yesterday hubby SFA result was out and rhe comment there was Oligospermia which we google and we saw low sperm count.Pls kindly hlp in suggesting ways to combat this issue and drugs to use. He has been down since yesterday.Have carried out scan too and everything is normal.Pls sabi mamas come out and hlp ur sister.Baby dust to us all in this year.

omura:
Good morning house, i hope i can be part of this lovely family.

I have been trying to conceive for the past six years but nothing yet, i hope with so much experienced mummies in the house, something tell me, i will get there soon, baby dust to all of us.

CravingChic:
Happy new year beautiful mamas... welcome to the newbies and oldbies. I pray we all get the 2nd line in the first quarter of this year because 2018 will record an outstanding number of births by the grace of Almighty God. May this year herald great tidings in our home.

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omura:
Good morning house, i hope i can be part of this lovely family.

I have been trying to conceive for the past six years but nothing yet, i hope with so much experienced mummies in the house, something tell me, i will get there soon, baby dust to all of us.

omura:
Good morning house, i hope i can be part of this lovely family.

I have been trying to conceive for the past six years but nothing yet, i hope with so much experienced mummies in the house, something tell me, i will get there soon, baby dust to all of us.