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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Ifedith(m): 12:17am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
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anywy the answer lies in two things actually. nature and fashion.
nature because naturally the black man has more iterations of beauty than a white man. simply put, black man has too many options which means too many distractions. the average nature of a white woman is slim, tall, white, perky boobs, beautiful. what this means is the white man has not more than 3 options of white woman to choose from. the black average nature of a black woman on the other hand is chubby, fair, slim, big booty, dark, short, big burst, beautiful, ugly, twerker, hardworker, creamer. what this means is that the average black man has a plethora of options staring at him and he is to pick on one combination which is not easy to say the least, more like a morse code.
second nature, is the fact that men are biologically and naturally wired to have more sexual desire than a female due to a higher percentage of libido in the male genetic makeup than a woman. so a man is easily and can be sexually stimulated more than a woman (couples know this fact).
fashion. the current fashion trend exposes all the erotic zones which creates desires and fantasy in a mans heart. which gives birth to motive and then if he has the money means he also has the means. which translates to the fact that there is a 90% tendency of that man get down with that woman if the opportunity arises.
the moral of it all is its not easy for a black man to be faithful and wen u find one, pls with all due respect, cut for am for he is truly a rare gem...its not easy.
the only way for a guy to be faithful is Gods grace and ability to drive out desires which comes by training and aviodance...which i have done and perfected. so theres your answer.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Sampacvelli(m): 12:18am On Jan 10, 2018
A fuckboy will always find reason to cheat in a relationship, that's childish game to me.
Guys need to learn how to be real these days and try to stick with that loyal babe

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by karterberry1(m): 12:28am On Jan 10, 2018
Spaxon:

Firstly I'm in the States.
Chicago to be precise.
How're we supposed to relate aside from here?

And I don't give my details to people I meet online.

Been here for years, and I keep the convo flowing here
distance has never been a big deal to me.. But it's okay... Thank you so much for your
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Ashley86400: 1:20am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
Modern Civilization Is Mere Science. Just Like They Say Colors Of Rainbow(lesbian-gay-bisexual-transexual, LGBT) doesn't matter, it's Civilization. Feminism Is Civil But Not Moral. Mark My Lines Again "Females Cannot Equate Males," Not Even In Africa.
They already have.
Keep living in your imagination and phobia.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by MrEazi223: 2:51am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
I had a vision that these Year will be full of Marriages. That's why I've come to assist People on Romance Forum with few articles.
Nevertheless, there are many Reasons why African Guys double-date. But, here's Ten Major Reasons why African Guys Double-date:
1. HEART-BREAK.
This is the Number 1 reason. How would you expect a guy to feel when someone/people he loves eventually & willfully breaks his Heart many times? Guys who double-date because of this reason bear in mind the adage "don't keep your Eggs in one Basket." Knowing that if he double-dates; when one breaks his Heart, the other amends it. So Ladies, stop giving Guys Broken Hearts.
I'm a victim of this category
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by abike12(f): 3:56am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
Ma'am, It's My Time & I Do Whatever I Wish To Do With It. It's A Free World, Don't Clamp Down On Me. Thanks!

Someone with the maturity of an unfertilized egg with lots to say about feminism cheesy
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Ayiibobo(m): 5:25am On Jan 10, 2018
veekid:

which breed is your father?
her father is " Caucasian black".... grin grin
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Amberon11: 5:28am On Jan 10, 2018
You don't have sense so don't quote me.
Drnice:
I Advise You Should Read Again. So, Hereditary, The Norm, Are Also Blamed On Women? Who Are Those Involved In Relationship, I Ask You? Male-female, Or Male-animal, Or Male-physical Factors? From The Day Man Was Created, Woman Has Been His "downfall." I Don't Mean To Be Rude, Ladies. I Was Born By A Woman, I've Sisters Too. But The Fact Is Clear & True.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:17am On Jan 10, 2018
asuustrike2009:

Very good. Next time when writing article of such nature or any, Let heading tally with the body of the work. If majority does a thing doesn't all persons are into it.
Don't be angry that am a bit hard on you.
Just Like They Say "majority Carries The Vote." Get Me Right, Sir.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:23am On Jan 10, 2018
TiffanyDavies:

There is a difference between just being rude, stubborn, selfish and being a feminist. When people see a woman who bears the foregoing qualities, they stick the feminism tag on her persona. Have you done your research on feminism, its origins and what it truly entails? You guys would just be giving shallow advice.
Oga, The Word "feminism" Generally Entails " Female Being Equal With Male," Which Goes With The Saying " What A Man Can Do, A Woman Can Do It Better." Your Criticism Is Welcome, No Problems, Sire!
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:25am On Jan 10, 2018
TSOM:
It's difficult to stay faithful to one girl especially when there are willing options available at no significant cost and who'd broaden your horizon on the relationship scene.

The trick is just to deal with each temptation at a time, swatting it aside like a fly. Difficult still.
I Love Your Comment, Sir. But, You Can If You Are Determined.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:31am On Jan 10, 2018
Sampacvelli:
A fuckboy will always find reason to cheat in a relationship, that's childish game to me.
Guys need to learn how to be real these days and try to stick with that loyal babe
That's My Point Both To The Guy & The Lady Involve. Thanks For Your Contribution, Sir!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:33am On Jan 10, 2018
Ashley86400:

They already have.
Keep living in your imagination and phobia.
Thanks, Ma'am. Also, Remind Me Whenever It Takes Place Here In Africa. Do Have A Lovely Day!
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:38am On Jan 10, 2018
MrEazi223:

I'm a victim of this category
Eehya, Sorry Oh! I Feel Your Pain Cos I Was Too But I'm Stronger Now. Always, Bear In Mind That It Happened For Your Own Good(maybe To Meet A Better Or Best Person In Future). It's Part Of Life, Sir.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:41am On Jan 10, 2018
abike12:


Someone with the maturity of an unfertilized egg with lots to say about feminism cheesy
Hope That Wasn't For Me? If It Is, Then You've Gat To Learn Some Good Manners. My Little Advice!
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 6:43am On Jan 10, 2018
Amberon11:
You don't have sense so don't quote me.
I Am Quoting You Cos I Do Have Better Sense. Must You Be Rude, I Ask You?
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by igirabata123(m): 6:49am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
Lol! Not Always True, Sir. Lets Say It's In Ratio 80:20

Ratio 80:20. What else do we need?
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 7:35am On Jan 10, 2018
igirabata123:


Ratio 80:20. What else do we need?
The Ones That Double-date(flirt) Are In Ratio Value "80," While The Ones That Likely Don't, Are In Ratio Value "20." That's What I Meant, Sir.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Nobody: 7:37am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
I Am Quoting You Cos I Do Have Better Sense. Must You Be Rude, I Ask You?
Mr nice don't let them break you. Keep on the good work

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by DanielGb(m): 8:15am On Jan 10, 2018
Spaxon:
spreads mat......

Tunde did u buy enuff popcorn

I'M JUST HERE TO READ COMMENTS grin grin grin
Non of this will help you. Carry your mat.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Nobody: 9:32am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
Just Like They Say "majority Carries The Vote." Get Me Right, Sir.
Majority don't carry vote in instances like this. Going by majority carrying the vote implies that everyone behave alike. There are always exception that is why the choice of words to classify such is important. At least I gave instances were everyone can't behave the same. If for example you are looking at the way girls behave or dress, you can come to conclusion by saying " most" ladies love fashion not "All" ladies love fashion. That majority of the ladies are fashion frek doesn't mean all love fashion. There are many out there that don't like it.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Spartanx1: 10:06am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
3. FEMINISM.
When you claim to have equal right, power, opportunities as to your guys. Ladies, when you try to practice Feminism in your Relationship, it could push your guy/guys away to other ladies to reach his goals. Even the Bible mentioned of "Wives be Subject to your Husbands," it didn't say ".. be Equal to your Husbands." So Ladies, if you want to keep your guy/guys to yourselves alone, then keep Feminism out of your Relationships.
The Bible also said husband love your wife, so when you love your wife she will be submissive to you alone.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Ashley86400: 10:16am On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
Thanks, Ma'am. Also, Remind Me Whenever It Takes Place Here In Africa. Do Have A Lovely Day!

That's why I said you're living in the past.
Just take it, your write up was shitty from the beginning. Making excuses for men cheating while trying to shield from the fact that you guys a are just more naturally inclined to cheat. Call a spade a spade and stop using women to make excises for your infidelity.

But then, your head is probably wrapped around the lies that the bible, how many times will you be told that this book was used to break down the spirit of your ancestors and get them to sell their brothers to slavery in the name of obeying their masters. . even the whites have admitted it was just a tool to subdue the minds on the black race. same book that has been abondoned by the people who introduced it to you since their mission is accomplished in brain washing you and telling you lies about superiority. Men are superior. The chances of giving birth to a boy/girl is 50/50,comoletely equal chances. .so what the hell are you talking about?

Currently Africa is fighting against slavery but
thus same book tells you that you as a slave must obey your masters aka the white. .and you don't think there's anything wrong with it?

You're just an egotistical chauvinist who's been brainwashed he's superior to women because you're. .a man? Lol, like that's the greatest achievement. Even women strive to be more.

They say an unexamined life is not worth living.
They were correct.
Talking to a blockhead like you is equivalent to talking to a wall.
This conversation is over.
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Amberon11: 1:24pm On Jan 10, 2018
Dude it was rude of you to conclude that women are the problem in relationships.
Drnice:
I Am Quoting You Cos I Do Have Better Sense. Must You Be Rude, I Ask You?
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by tytunji29(m): 1:30pm On Jan 10, 2018
Drnice:
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We (cos am african) cheat cos we dnt wan to b at d losing side of d story imagine puting u best into a relationship den one sunday morning the lady tells u she is no longer interestd wat will you do? bt if u gat 3 if sis A go sis B Go complement nd sis C will b api cos u go gve ha more attention........Bt ty dnt double date oooo na jst my ans i give ooo

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Buikebanks(m): 1:21am On Jan 11, 2018
Make use screen guard cheesy
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Diamond23(f): 8:16pm On Jan 14, 2018
Drnice:
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I think z a matter of choice ND orientation one had. Even without d stated reasons some cheat. It's not just an African tin buh universal ND z genderless....it's called a harmless backup plan cheesy grin

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by TiffanyDavies(f): 5:47pm On Feb 26, 2018
Drnice:
Oga, The Word "feminism" Generally Entails " Female Being Equal With Male," Which Goes With The Saying " What A Man Can Do, A Woman Can Do It Better." Your Criticism Is Welcome, No Problems, Sire!
First, I am not a 'sire'. I am female. Next, I would not even make a comment on yours if I have never lectured on feminism before. I would like to draw your attention to the fact that Feminism does not connote "What a Man Can Do, A Woman Can Do It Better'. Feminism as we know it today arose as a time where persons who identified with the female sex were relegated to the background. For instance, statutes of male soldiers in the first world war depicted them in full military apparel with their trousers clearly visible. Women on the other hand had only their faces visible. Their female apparel were blurry. Also, women were being underpaid for same tasks performed by men. Women writers as at that time had to adopt male pen names, in order for their works to gain recognition and appreciation by critics and fans alike. All of these led to the feminist movement. In order words, feminism is equal to equal recognition for equal performance. In order words, it means 'don't deny me this and give it John just because he is a male when we both are doing the same thing.' Feminism has never argued that men are women are the same. Of course that isn't possible considering our different characteristics. What feminism is against is the roles ascribed by our society to men and women. Why is it that some job vacancies specify that they want only a male or only a female for a job that can clearly be performed by both sexes? Why is it that when a female politician rises to speak sometimes, her male counterparts attack her with words like 'shut up woman!' why is it that we hear stuff like "how can a woman be given that position?'
Now, feminism isn't concerned with what you do in your home. It is purely a social and political movement. There are women who aren't educated or don't know about the feminist movement but have personality clashes with their husbands. Note also that nowadays, feminism has been extended to include both queers and transgender individuals by countries which recognize them, so it is wrong to limit the movement to male and female.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Marcelo290(m): 7:03pm On Feb 26, 2018
There are no reasons, I have the best girlfriends, yet I still try to amass more. I can't just help it, too many fresh babes...
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Stephchoc: 7:38pm On Feb 26, 2018
Drnice:
3. FEMINISM.
When you claim to have equal right, power, opportunities as to your guys. Ladies, when you try to practice Feminism in your Relationship, it could push your guy/guys away to other ladies to reach his goals. Even the Bible mentioned of "Wives be Subject to your Husbands," it didn't say ".. be Equal to your Husbands." So Ladies, if you want to keep your guy/guys to yourselves alone, then keep Feminism out of your Relationships.

This is so inaccurate the bible says we should be submissive to our husbands body and soul not to boyfriends (there's a difference)
please don't be deceived ladies...

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